Thoughts during Pelvic Exam

As others have posted, I suppose getting through it is an appropriate description. I don't mind the exam and all and in fact enjoy it a bit. I definitely try and avoid any overt sexual thoughts. One recurrent thought that I do have is wondering how many different vaginas the gyno Dr. has had his hands in?

My wife's main thought is will it hurt. This is because she had a very painful exam once from a nurse who teared her roughly.

One recurrent thought that I do have is wondering how many different vaginas the gyno Dr. has had his hands in?

I saw your comment when you first posted. Today I just read it again and started thinking about a doctor having a notepad and making tally marks after every vaginal exam.

@CassieST I’ve heard that docs will make notes for themselves on their patients’ medical records in Latin so their staff can’t read them. They make notes about things that stand out to them about each patient. Things like unusual aspects of their bodies, if they seem to get turned on by their exams, their reactions to different aspects of their exams, etc.

I’ve heard that docs will make notes for themselves on their patients’ medical records in Latin so their staff can’t read them

Doctors historically just write notes in Latin, and medical staff all can read it (though this is falling out of practice). Usually abbreviations, my grandma was a nurse and used said abbreviations, knew what they meant in English, but didn't know what they stood for in Latin.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_medical_abbreviations:_Latin_abbreviations

They're not going to write weird things like if the patient got aroused, because everyone who accesses the record is going to know what it means, because they're going to learn the same things in terms of terminology, because yeah, let the doctor write cryptic messages in a vital digital document that is important for people to be able to read, lol.

I had missed my period due to stress. I was really sad about something. Was thinking about that.

It was my first exam but I wasn't thinking anything on those lines…no fear of the exam. Nudity I had stopped fearing much earlier

Never had play exam. But in real exams I think about relaxing, it hurts less then. I don't mind the gyno exam. I always wondering if this is the time I'm going to recive a rectal exam, a bit scared and exited. Never had a rectal. But if I had a play exam I guess i would get plenty rectal play.

Never had play exam. But in real exams I think about relaxing, it hurts less then. I don't mind the gyno exam. I always wondering if this is the time I'm going to recive a rectal exam, a bit scared and exited. Never had a rectal. But if I had a play exam I guess i would get plenty rectal play.

It still amazes me how exams vary between different doctors and different countries. I've gotten pap smears, vaginal, rectovaginal and rectal exams every year from age 18 until 40.

I haven't gotten any of those exams since I had a hysterectomy. I have had two transvaginal ultrasounds done at six months and a year after but nothing else since. I wonder if the techs who gave me the transvaginal ultrasounds ever had one themselves.

@CassieST It's surprising indeed how much of examinations and procedures depends on the “medical culture” of the country, with some considering the same thing as necessary and others as elective. Many details also change: whether one is given a gown, chaperone, etc.