Are You Embarrassed to Leave Your Enema Stuff for Others to See?

I'm not ashame, but I do not need to embarass my guest just to show down. Just like I would not discuss everything with everybody. From small-talking to bluntly disclosing my own intimacy there is a long way of possibilities and a broad range of options to explore and have fun.

I leave my equipment hanging in the shower when my partner and I are the only ones at home. I keep hoping she will succumb to curiosity by constantly seeing the equipment available for use. I remove the equipment when we leave the house or when company is expected.

I don't keep my bags and nozzles out because enemas are something my boyfriend and I prefer to keep to ourselves (except this forum of course). No, I keep all our gear hanging up on some hooks under the bathroom cabinet where they can drain dry. Someone would have to actually pilfer around under the sink to find out about our little secret:

I keep my enema equiptment on my sailboat, (kingsize bed), tiny bath. It's my home away from home....where I can "give" and "take"enemas, and masturbate in complete privacy. I leave my enema things in plain sight, and then I don't have to ask anyone if they are interested in enemas, If they see my enema things, and ARE interested..... they will bring up the subject themselves, and I have a new "enemate.I have a four quart clear latex bag, with a 12 foot clear latex hose, and use a clear double balloon nozzle, the long hose and the retention nozzle, lets me move freely around the boat, and to the bathroomAllison

I don't have any of my own equiptment but if I did, I would be mortified if someone saw it.

Another reason I like to "leave it out" is that ( enemas ) are a pleasurable thing to me. I like being "reminded", ( or remind my "enemates") as I or they brush by them in the intimate cabin of my sailboat, where I give and take enemas "solo" or with a male or female sailmate, turned (enemate)

Since I moved into some one's house...they are always in and out of my bathroom.... not to use to look at stuff.... I've been restricted on showers for days at a time... and now I believe I'm punishing her by leaving my bag hanging with the butt plug attachment on. I'm feeling less and less an outcast and more normal when I think of what kinks I might have had.

About the only time I leave my bag hanging out in the open is usually when I'm home by myself and I'm in the middle of doing an enema session. Otherwise, I always keep it tucked away in the bottom of my nightstand. As far as I'm concerned, it isn't anyone else's business what I do during my private time, except, of course, for other folks who also like to indulge in the erotic aspects of enemas.

All my friends and family know i use enemas so mine usually is hanging in the shower

Hmp! Ok… Let’s look at the question. Am I ashamed to leave my enema bag out for others to see? Would I feel shame, guilt, disgrace, or feelings of inferiority, or unworthiness, if I left my “enema stuff” out for others to see?

I don’t know that there is any shame, guilt, or feelings of unworthiness (etc.) attached to my enema bag, nozzles, or other personal ‘stuff’ used for health reasons, or my personal pleasure(s). However, that said, why would I want, or need, to expose another person to that private part of my life?

Let’s see…

Would I leave my soiled underwear out for guests to sniff?

Would you, or I, leave a personal diary out for others to read, to learn about that side of our lives?

Would I leave the enemas4fun.com website open on a laptop in the dining room, when others come into my home, for them to learn about my attractions to the subjects of enemas, anal sensitivities, suppositories, etc?

Would I leave my investment portfolio out on the coffee table for others to review, to see the business side of my life?

It is my thought that whether I leave my Enema ‘stuff’ out, or not, is not a matter of shame. Personally, to leave it out for another to see might be construed as non-consensually exposing them to my personal ‘kink’, or a private area of my life that they may be uncomfortable knowing about.

Would any of us leave a butt plug on the coffee table, when a guest was coming over to visit?

No, I do not think that I would be ashamed to leave my enema bag out hanging in my bathroom. However, the thought does touch upon my sense of propriety, and my thoughts about conforming to that which is socially acceptable conduct… I don’t fear someone seeing my enema bag; however, I would not want any action of mine to be construed as contrary to conventional rules of behavior, especially between the sexes. And, for the life of me, I cannot come up with a viable reason to leave my ‘stuff’ out for others to see.

Ssssoooo, if ya come a visiting to my home, please don’t expect to see my e-bag hangin in the shower. And, please feel free to check all of the cabinets and explore under the vanity while you are using the bathroom; just do it quietly, so I don’t know that you are snooping around, attempting to invade my privacy…

I keep mine out of sight. But, here's an interesting observation: When growing up, Mom had a separate hot/cold water bottle, a combination syringe, and a feminine syringe. The combination syringe was used only for enemas and mom had discarded the douche nozzle and water bottle stopper. Here's what's strange: She NEVER left the feminine syringe out.....kept it always wrapped in a pink towel in the cabinet in the bathroom in spite of douching often evidenced by the use of the Massengil powder that I checked often......but, many times when I came home from school, the combination syringe would be laying in the tub or on a towel on the bathroom floor, sides tightly sucked in, tubing coiled, nozzle streaked with vaseline. Was it part of her enema fetish to leave the enema bag out....I think she knew I was sneaking it.....did she want me to come to her and ask her to give me an enema? Who knows.

For me, E-equipment is as private as my genitals: I have them, but they ought not to cause concern for others. I keep one bag hanging in the bathroom. If I know someone is coming and that they might wonder into that bathroom, I store it. My wife laughs at me and tells me to leave it in sight "to educate others." She claims to never have had an enema and refuses to give or receive.

I think the real question is;Do we want others to know about our enema use or habits.If you want to intice others to share enema,then display your enema stuff,if you do not, then hide your enema stuff where it can't be seen.My view is I am who I am and your feelings about my enema use is YOUR problem.

At home the enema bag is put away unless it has just been used and is drying in the shower. Not too long ago we bought a little rustic lake cottage and I found an enema can at a flea market. It seems to go with our rustic motif and I keep it out, but the hose is coiled and kept in the bottom of the can and I put a bouquet of plastic flowers in the top. Not too many people these days know what an enema can is and I've never had any comments about it either. It's great fun, but it also gets its share of use.

My equipment is hanging on the back of the bathroom door. Not proudly displayed for all the world to see, but not hidden from view either. Perhaps I'm too used to living solo, but I really don't care if it makes someone uncomfortable, that's their issue, not mine. If I went to a friend's house and saw their equipment hanging to dry or on the back of the door, I wouldn't give it another thought. What they do with it is their business.

LadyDoc

I'm with LadyDoc.

And what's wrong with keeping the dream alive? If I saw someone else's, I'd like that and probably start a conversation!

gdfru

Our equipment stays in the shower all the time ready for use. I could care less if someone saw it there

Can't say I have "too many" guests over but if I did and they seen it I'll just shrug it off, my girlfriend might love this too since I'm a submissive and being caught most likely gets her excited lol.

I keep the daily use red 2 quart bag, hose and noz hanging in the shower. Most guests use the other bath off the great room. But I always wonder what someone would or would not say if they used the master bath.

The maid, a young girl, cleans once a week, including the shower where the bag lives. I'm not even sure if she knows what it's used for! For my enjoyment, the nozzle is an old antique douche pipe in black hard rubber. Maybe she might recognize a regular enema nozzle.

If I was a gazillionair, I'd hire a maid over 21, full time, and her first duty would be my morning enema, prostate massage and hand job. It's good to dream.....

I often leave my 4-quart clear silicone enema bag and double balloon nozzle hanging in the shower in our bathroom, but my wife is not in favor of this practice and often ask me to put it away, which is silly because guests don't use our bathroom (upstairs) and if our son sees it, well, it won't be the first time.

One of my bags is always hanging in the shower, unless my mother or sister are here. Otherwise, what few who would not have seen it before, if it bothers them, it isn't my problem. If brought up though, I will be honest and say I take them for health, but have found they feel good besides; and they should try them.

Dan

My 4qt. silicon bag with 20 inch 34FR. catheter hangs in the Master Bath shower. I t get used ever-other-day. (As reported elswhere.)

On 'crowded' holidays we do put it away in case one of the adult kids use that bathroom. Not hiding, most of my family know that I have to do that to poop.

the boxcar

I would be embarrassed for someone to see my enema equipment. I don't even like for people to see my pads and tampons.I have a large walk-in closet in my dressing area. I hang my bag in the back to dry and for storage. Other enema/douche paraphernalia go in a big drawer wrapped with a towel for hiding and drying in my closet.

I went on a yoga holiday last summer, taking my enema bag with me. It was really warm, so I hung my bag outside to dry. What a shame that nobody asked me about it. 😃

I either hang my bags & hoses on the 2 arm IV pole in my bedroom or a convenient place in the bathroom. If someone sees it, then they see it. In general, I am not concerned about what a potential viewer might think, do or say. Whatever inquiries come, I reply in a friendly low key part of my life manner. Over the years,there have been lady friends who who have been quite inquisitive and the outcomes were quite enjoyable.

G.N.

We're not embarrassed by the enema stuff sitting out, we're just are not ready to explain to the kids what it is all for (the curing of constipation not the sexual stuff ). Fortunately we have not left anything that brought about questions.....yet.

I live alone so it's generally not an issue, and just leave my bag hanging on the towel rack in my master bathroom. At a party a few weeks ago the guest bathroom was occupied and without thinking I told a friend to just use mine. Only seconds later did I realize what I'd done. When she returned to the party she gave me a funny look and a wink. Later when I asked her what the look was for, she got get red faced and denied it. She's somewhat of a close friend, though we've never dated or anything. Now I'm completly sprung and can't stop thinking about what was going through her head. I'm dying to approach her about it but I'm not sure how....Maybe leave it in the kitchen sink the next time she comes over?

Yes, no, not exactly, geez.

For me, enemas have always been a guilty pleasure. I don't mean that in my own mind, I'm at all guilty about liking enemas. I mean that I've never been able to stick my neck out, socially, and espouse optional taboos. Lemme 'splain that: I was all about welcoming racially mixed couples, in the sixties when it was still considered ugly or worse by the ignorant masses of people. That wasn't "optional", it was a matter of being on the right side of history, taking a morally responsible position that lots of people had a problem with.

Enemas aren't like that at all, though. Anything in the 'alternate sexuality' area is, as far as I can see, strictly optional. I can live with myself if I never take a 'brave' stand about those things, enemas included.

I live alone, so my equipment is out and available to see if someone entered my apartment when I was out (the way my landlord would do if he could get away with it, the prick.) But if anyone's going to visit, I hide everything the best I can. I'd be mortified if anyone saw my enema bag or bulb, unless it was a partner I was going to receive an enema from, or give one to.

I'm not embarrassed to leave enema stuff out but I do usually put everything away when I'm done with it. On the otherhand, I don't think anyone would be surprised to find whatever at my house. For me it would be more likely that the person finding it would feel something rather than me. So while I don't leave things out I'm a pretty open minded person & those around me know this.

I guess if someone didn't know me & found my enema stuff they might be surprised. Still, it wouldn't take long for someone to find out that their knowing it doesn't change me. For me, being open to all sorts of things usually gives me the advantage. Really, I don't worry about things like that. I know & care about people who would be mortified tho.

To Dan who posted earlier, I can honestly say that I don't snoop at other people's houses. It's not that I'm not curious, I'm just not curious what people have in their medicine cabinet or closet. If I was, I'd just ask them. But that's just me.

I would really like to leave my enema stuff out in the open for anyone to see (maybe they would like to help out?). But me wife would be distressed at he sight, so back into hiding it goes.