Hi everyone, great topic.
Yes I can achieve an anal orgasm from anal massage - 2 or 3 well-lubed gloved fingers, a well lubed dildo, or anal sex with a fella.
Anal massage can get women off easier than any other form of sex - in-my-opinion. The trick is to place a finger (or two) on a spot I call the anal G spot. With a lady laying on her back, enter a well lubed gloved finger anally and hook your finger around the sphincter pointing down at 6' oclock. I know this may seem strange at first but massage back and forth while suckling her clit - you will actually feel a nerve swell slightly as orgasm approaches - apply just a little pressure while massaging and BAM - three to five anal contractions. I've had MANY lady friends over the years that I have taught this technique to, and I really love having it applied to me as my partner Barb will attest to.
Anal sex - I still love anal intercourse, my late husband loved anal sex, I still enjoy it to this day and I'm now 76.
BJ