Going as a couple to the doctor

This is the husband posting:

Have any of you ever had a real couple's examination with your spouse?

When my wife and I go for our yearly examinations, we go in the same room as a couple. She gets to watch me get examined and then I get to watch her get examined. It is pretty erotic for the both of us.This is the husband posting:

We started several years ago going to a family doctor as a couple. First, we had to find a doctor who was willing to have us both in the same exam room. Many doctors said "NO"! Finally, we found a doctor who was willing to have us both in the exam room. But, you could hear the nurses saying in the background "He can't go in there because she is going to have a pelvic exam". Yes, there is a double standard. You never heard the nurse say "She can't go in there because he is going to have a prostate exam". Now, we have two doctors that we go to for our couples exam and my wife is the only one that gets a gown. I never get a gown. For me, it is remove your shirt or drop your pants and bend over the table.

For the past few years my wife and I have scheduled our doctor appointments back to back with the same doctor so we are in the same room. This has included pelvic exams on her and prostate exams on me. Besides the obvious visual benefit, there is no miscommunication as to what the doctor told the other person when it is relayed to the spouse. If your spouse will allow it, and who doesn’t want better communication, then the doctor or nurse has no right excluding the two of you from being together for ANY medical exam or consultation.

We thought that patient has a right to have who they want in the examining room. But, we have learn that doctors forget who they work for and for whatever their reason is that they only allow one patient in the examine room so we just take our money somewhere else.I just called around until I found a doctor that was o.k. with both of us in exam room at the same time. You just act normal on the outside but inside, you are pretty horny! This is just a normal annual physical exam and not some emergency trauma that you would not want to see your partner in. We seen to have more problems with the medical assistants and nurses. You will hear the nurse say in the background "He should not be in there because she is having a pelvic exam". The doctor just greets us and says who will go first and of course my husband being a gentlemen he says "Ladies, first"! We have found that there is a double standard because I am always given a gown and my husband is examined in his street clothes.

I have never had a problem being in the exam room with my wife (when I was married), or her being in the room with me. The doctors just look at the one being examined and if she or I didn't respond, they went about their business.

We both were examined at the same time many years ago for insurance purposes when abroad. It would never happen in the UK just not the done thing I suppose here. It didn't bother either of us in the slightest

My wife and I go together to all exams, all our doctors understand that this is the way WE want it and it is not a problem. Nurses work for the doctors so I really dont care if they like it or not. I get along fine with all the nurses but if one had a problem they would just have to get over it. we have seen each other examined in every detail.

Im concerned that you found it difficult to find someone who would do it it! While it does sound erotic, I think that I am going to willingly get my first gyno examination this fall (and in my late 20s, at that!) and I am not going to do it if my boyfriend isn't there- he's the much needed moral support. Why would it be a problem for the doctor if he stood near my head while the examination occurred?

As both a true (male) Dr and great lover of playdoc games, I examine sometime, the husband/bf as "hors d'oeuvre" of the examination of his wife/gf . The atmosphere is as great as examining a female patient alone, but very different: each united enjoying to see the other beeing examined torouglhly totally nude of course .Some of them said me that, coming back at home, they had very great sex, remembering their exam

Thank you, Mashie!

I would feel a lot better with my boyfriend beside me, I know that.

I think we would have a lot more fun later, too!

& I agree as well, toubibnantes, I think the sex afterwards would be amazing.

Me and my boyfriend normally go with each other 4 exams and so far have never had anyone say anything, & if they did we wouldnt care after all we pay them.

I have had him there for alot of my GYN exams and he had me there 4 rectal exams and a proctoscopy, so far no doc. has said no!

Well, I'd like to do a couples exam, but finding the right Dr. could be difficult. I think an intermediate step would be for each of us to go to the OTHERS doctors appointments. Again. My wife will do such play in the bedroom, but not sure how she would like to do this in real life.

My wife informed me that she scheduled "complete physical for us" on August 15th. Does this mean we will be getting examined together, or Atleast in the room for one another's exams?

Has anyone experienced anything like this? I'm really

Looking forward to this.

My spouse made an appointment for "us" with a new doc. Yes, we both went together and we examined at the same time. I must say that I enjoyed it!

That does sound like a lot of fun. I hope you're both together. In either case, let us know in Aug.

Never had such with my wife, interested in the idea. Looking forward to your report.

I never had something like this either, could be fun to do it with my wife, but kind of awkward in the same time. But I would love to do it with another girl, an ex-girlfriend maybe or somebody else. Sounds strange, I know. And it would be even more fun to combine this with some blood tests or even some injections.

I have been to the doctor with my wife before, too. It is more fun this way and didn't seem to be a problem for the doctor. The doctor is female, maybe this makes a difference.

Bill

I'm not sure if they will call both of us in together, or one at a time. I do know that they have set a side an hour and a half for the two physicals, seems like a lot of time.

How did it go when you went as a couple?

Our doctor is also a female, and this is the first time I've seen her, my wife has been seeing her since before we were married (2 1/2 years ago)

Years ago my wife and I were scheduled to have exams at the same time. The doctor took us on one at a time so we really didn't have exams together. She was not willing to have a pelvic exam anyway so her exam was incomplete. I had been with her in the OB/GYN examination room a month after our daughter was born and witnessed the total exam, including the pelvic part, but I was obviously not examined at the same time. I think this is a good idea for couples, especially those who are having marital difficulties surrounding sexual matters. My present wife is pretty much asexual and refuses to have each other present during our respective exams. Too bad.

I have been at the doctors office before and over heard a couple that was about to get married. ...the woman was talking to her man about how he needed to have this exam and be checked out for any STD's before their wedding. ...a short time latter, they were both called back to the back.

I love the idea of my wife and I going to the doctor together. I have been to a few of her gyno appts. with her and it was a huge turn on. May have to suggest this the next time we both see our primary.

When my wife and I shared the same family practice physician, it was the dr's recommendation that we do our annual physicals together. She knew we were both proactive in our health care and that having the partner in the room meant all the questions were asked, and not forgotten. She witnessed my DRE and I was there for her internal. The dr even showed me how to do her breast self exam, and she my testicle exam. She knew we'd both enjoy that better than doing it ourselves.

I have not gone to the Doctor with anyone to be examined as a couple. One of my many fantasies is to meet someone on the Internet, exchange some messages and arrange to meet him for the first time at a GYN office. He would see me first in the waiting room, we would exchange hugs and then he would accompany me into the exam room. He would see my entire exam, live and in person. Afterwards, he might want me to give me a deeper check-up.

Lady Teddy, who is overdue for an annual Gyno in real life

If my wife and I ever had a couples exam my blood pressure would be sky high and I would have an erection that would never end.

Once in France were examined together,nothing much but was nice all the same

My wife was present one time when I was going for surgery and had to get 8 shots in the butt prior to surgery. She watched every one. She seemed facinated and kept licking her lips as each shot was administered. The shots didn't hurt and the nurse was nice looking. And my errection from exposing my butt to a stranger in front of my wife lasted forever. Finally they came to get me for surgery and that was the end of the fantasy and errection.

My wife and I were together for a pre- immigration medical check up. Both of us were in the Drs Room but were examined separately in the adjacent exam room. There was no door, so as I was first to be examined. It was quite a thorough exam...stripped to boxers, genital / rectal check etc. so I was feeling pretty horny even before my wife went in for her exam. It was quite erotic hearing her unzip her boots and to imagine her stripping off while the Dr ( who waited in the Exam Room after I left ) watched. I could also hear his him saying things like.. please undress to your underwear, please remove your bra...raise your left / right arm ( breast exam)....tell me if you feel any pain ( tummy exam)....do you have any discharges ( vaginal check )....etc. then he asked her to lower her panties while he felt her abdomen and commented on her appendix scar....Wow....I was so turned on.

After reaching home, my wife also commented how erotic it had been listening to my exam...especially when she heard the Dr ask me to remove my boxers, bend over the table and spread my cheeks...

Needless to say we had great sex afterwards and continued to role play the scenario for many years.

Unfortunately we never got the opportunity again.

I had the opprtunity to exam mother and daughter ( 22 yo) together in a role play.

one of the most excitng experience in my life. ther were so cute and proud to expose eachothers their bodies

I have been with my wife several times for her exam. She has no problem with me accompanying her, and has never beed a problem with the Dr. She has been with me once for a pilot exam, but there was no getting undressed. I would love to have her come with me to an annual exam and will explore that, she would have no problem. The benefit of both hearing what the Dr has to say is immeasurable. The first time I went with her was before we were married and she was being fitted for a birth control device. Got to see her in the stirrups and fitted, then I got to practice putting it in. That was always my "job". I have never been at her head when she gets a pelvic exam, I always take a seat where I can see what the Dr is doing.

My wife and I had back to back doctor appointments yesterday. When I saw the doctor six months ago she wanted me to have a physical so when I scheduled it I told them it was for a physical. Fast forward to yesterday, after the nurse got both of our vitals and ordered our prescription renewals, she got up and as she was leaving, said that the doctor would be in soon. I thought it was strange that she didn't instruct me to remove any cloths but I knew why I was there and my wife was there for just a routine followup on her medications. The doctor comes in and I believe since my wife was in the closest chair to her, she starts going over her medication and recent health issues. This takes a little time and then she listens to my wife's heart and lungs. Next we discussed my medications and I asked for a new prescription for something and the doctor doesn't think it is a good idea because it may make my migraines worst. We discuss this for a while and then she says she will look into it further. She then has me get up on the exam table, still fully dressed, and she listens to my heart and lungs. She then takes off my socks and looks at my feet. Next she has me lay back and she raises my shirt and listens to my abdomen and asks questions about bowel habits. She then has me sit up and goes back to her computer like she does when she is all done. Thinking that my physical must be over, I told her that we have an insurance policy that actually pays us for having physicals and could she schedule my wife's next appointment as a physical as well. She said she would schedule one for both of us in six weeks. I asked her if I didn't just have one, and she said no that wasn't a complete physical. I guess in hind site, I should have said something to the nurse before she left. Then the doctor said something that has me a little concerned. She said that that for physicals, she does us one at a time. If we want back to back the we have to be in different rooms. I hope this doesn't mean that I can't be in the room when my wife has her physical and vice versa. Fortunately they did not have any back to back appointments available so my wife has hers in six weeks and I have mine the week after. The doctor has never objected to me being there for any of her appointments before so I just hope she doesn't object now because my wife will kick me out to avoid any disagreement and since my wife does not see a Gynecologist, and the doctor knows this, her physical will be very thorough. Stay tuned, I will let you know how they went.