Premarital exam

Ladies, are you required to undergo a premartial exam for your marriage license? If so, is it a complete gyn exam?

If it was performed by a man, did your fiance get jealous knowing another guy probed or would be probing your pussy?

Was there a virginity exam? Did the doc check for a hymen?

Is there such a requirement in this modern day and age? I doubt it.

There might well be in some cultures but I don't think you'll find any of their devotees here 😉

There could be someone who has spent some time in those parts of the world. I have a girlfriend who taught in Saudi for two years. She has some sickening tales but nothing along these lines I'm afraid.

Jackie

BTW

It's a great fantasy though. I've used it many times personally 😁 but I've never written a story about it because I thought it was too far-fetched.

Jackie

Marriage license requirements are state-regulated and may be obtained from the County Clerk in most county courthouses.

Options: Some states (California and Nevada, for example) offer two types of marriage licenses: a public license and a confidential one. The public license is the most common one and requires a health certificate and a blood test. It can only be obtained at the County Clerk's office.

The confidential license is usually less expensive and does not require a health certificate or blood test. If offered, it can usually be obtained from most Justices of the Peace. An oath must be taken in order to receive either license.

Things To Consider: Requirements vary from state to state but generally include the following points:

1. Applying for and paying the fee for the marriage license. There is usually a waiting period before the license is valid and a limited time before it expires.

2. Meeting residency requirements for the state and/or county where the ceremony will take place.

3. Meeting the legal age requirements for both bride and groom or having parental consent.

4. Presenting any required identification, birth or baptismal certificates, marriage eligibility or other documents.

5. Obtaining a medical examination and/or blood test for both the bride and groom to detect communicable diseases.

We did not have to have a physical examination, just proof of ID, blood test to make sure we didn't have STDs, and pay the marriage license fee.

In the Canadian province in which I lived at the time of my marriage, a physical examination was mandatory for both of us, in addition to the blood tests. Honestly I have now forgotten the exact nature of the physical examination, but I assume that we were checked for evidence of STDs.

Only a blood test is required in my state. I think a full exam would be kinky... 😉

I got married in Las Vegas. No tests were required. Only money...

In the circles that I grew up, ( and not that long ago😃 ) premarital exams were not required by the state, but were suggested. My church had premarital classes and I recall the workbook had suggestions about choosing a gynecologist, and general issues about sexual health etc. By that time I had already been to the doctor of course, but I do know that some of friends had premarital exams of sorts. If you were a virgin ( and in my circles, there were more than a few of us) you had to start thinking about what method of birth control months before you married.

There's never been a requirement for this in the UK: however, it certainly wasn't uncommon in the 70s for a girl to undergo a pre-marital exam. Sometimes it was more a pre not getting married but going to have regular sex exam! I think this was because there wasn't so much info on birth control that was in the public domain in those days. Most women had to get advice from a GP, but 'family planning clinics' had appeared and were able to specialise and, at the same time, relieve GPs of the task.

I´m not aware of such a requirement nowdays, but sounds good as a fantasy.

I didn't have to get one for my marriage license, but I did want to get on birth control before I got married so I had to have one. I really didn't want to... I actually *was* a virgin and asked if they could wait until after I was married to do the exam. I wanted my husband to be the first person since adulthood to see me down there. They couldn't prescribe without an exam, so I decided if I wanted birth control I had to get the exam done. I asked if there was a female doctor who could do it, and they said there was, but she only came once a month. I asked when that was, and it happened to fall right in the middle of when my next period would happen, so that would not work. This was at the student health center for my college and was the only well-covered healthcare provider I could go to with my student insurance, so I pretty much had to go with the male practitioner. Beforehand, I heard the nurse practitioner and the other nurse TALKING ABOUT ME in the hall outside the exam room. They must not have realized how thin the door was... "She SAYS she's a virgin..." he said, dubiously. The female nurse was like, sarcastically, "Uh-huh, of course..."

I was rather offended. I thought, "Pssh, you'll believe me when you look up my vagina, you big jerk!"

So I guess the only good part about having my virginal vagina on display was that despite my discomfort I felt vindicated. Also, the guy seemed super sheepish and awkward. Maybe it was because he felt guilty for doubting me... I kinda hope so! It's possible to be a virgin and not have a hymen, but I definitely had one. I felt awkward, too, and was quiet as a mouse, but the next year, since I was thoroughly comfortable with sex, I was so talkative and joking about things that I think I embarrassed *him.* I saw him in the post office a week or two later and he wouldn't look at me and I swear he blushed.

Blood tests used to be required to check for syphilis many decades ago, but not any more in New York.

No but this would make for a great role play! Love it!

It wasnt required by law but my wife had one. It was her first breast and pelvic exam. She hadn't had much sexual activity before and her doctor required it before she would prescribe birth control. She didn't know much about what was going to happen. She told me "the doctor had to look at my chest" and she didn't tell me this is why but she said she was concerned because the doctor touched her thighs without gloves on at first, but I deduced the doctor was probably helping her open her legs wider. She also didn't have socks and put her flats back on while waiting but the doctor said "its time for the shoes to come off" and made her put her bare feet in the stirrups.

I made a fantasy pre-marital post in the story section a few ago but this is 100% true.

It is not requited in the two counties in Arizona where I have lived. My sister did not have to have one. The only thing they require is ID's. Oh and money.

I (male) "had one" because it only seemed right that my to-be wife should have an idea of my physical shape before committing to anything. I figured there would be more poking and prodding then there was, especially as it was my first physical in 10 years. In retrospect I find it extremely odd that there weren't any direct questions or recommendations for STD/STI testing.

I live in Washington State and never have had to do a premarital exam.

There are no premarital exams in the UK as far as I'm aware.

In the US Premarital exams ended decades ago.The recent trend in the US is for the average first marriages to occur in the late twenties. Many young people today really will have the challenge of living to be 100. Not that they want to. Preventive healthcare and sensible lifestyles are essential to their long-term well being. Young women could experience their first Pap smear at 21. Many have been covered by their parents health insurance until age 26. The most serious risks they may face is obesity, hypertension, and diabetes. A fantasy about something I heard about or saw in the 50's or 60's is just not arousing to me today. However baffling, there is still something about a pelvic exam, or gyn checkup, or gynecological examination that absolutely fascinates me. I still like golf, fishing, and sailing better though.

Many young people today really will have the challenge of living to be 100. Not that they want to.

I would speak for yourself on this matter ... you get one chance, one shot and one shot only at life and I am sure more and more people realize that. The days of believing in pie in the sky are gone and by ...

Enjoy things for as long as you can while you can ...

Yes, this was in 1987. Full exam and blood work for her.

For me, penis exam and blood work.

These marital exams are mainly only to look for STD's.

Yes, this was in 1987.

These marital exams are mainly only to look for STD's.

That is indeed so nowadays.

However, before WWII, when the science and ideas of eugenics were not yet repudiated and abandoned - mainly because of the horrendous example set by German racial politics from 1933-1945 implementing eugenic ideas and policies to the extreme - the idea behind premarital exams was not only to screen for STD's, but also to screen for potential degenerative hereditary diseases and conditions in one or both partners. This to improve the breeding stock of a nation, to put it crudely. If at all possible, the thinking was that society did not want to see children born with serious birth defects, nor bear the costs.

When we got married, a blood test was required. And it just so happened that my wife was due for her annual gynecological exam. So we went together. She got her exam and blood test and I got my blood test. Unfortunately, I had to wait in the lobby while she got her exam.

But it was still pretty exciting sitting there in the waiting room fantasizing about what was going on just down the hall.

When me and my wife got married there was no requirement for a exam for either one of us.

When my wife and I got married, there wasn't even a blood test required. But that is a huge fantasy of mine. It plays right into my medfet, a mandatory premarital medical exam. Of course in my fantasy, I would be required to have a genital/rectal exam as part of my premarital physical, and my bride to be would be required to have a complete pelvic/rectal exam as part of her premarital physical.

When my wife and I got married before 1970s, a blood test was all that required in Texas. That was to check for any venereal diseases.

When we got married in France there was a mandatory medical exam which, for me, boiled down to blood testing for STDs. The weird thing is that syphillis test was compulsory (if I recall correctly) but AIDS was only strongly advised. Perhaps it was more complete for my wife than for myself.

I believe this examination was made compulsory in the days when most women and many men were still virgins when marrying (thus the compulsory checking for STDs, especially those that used to be difficult to treat such as syphillis). Since we married this examination was removed from the law.

There was, of course, no virginity examination, but I wonder what happened in the 1950s or so.