Should I or shouldn't I play with my grandfather's handcuffs?

Many years ago I received, from my Dad, my grandfathers handcuffs (he was a security guard). I was given them because he trusted me not to do something bad with them. All these years they have been put away to honor that request. But that was before we added D/s to our lives. I am asking you, members of this site, your opinion on whether I should play with those cuffs or just leave them be.

I don't know, it's a very unique question and it really depends on your views. Your asking the question, so obviously there is some doubt in your mind, think about that and why you're questioning your possible actions. Also, I've never tried to buy a pair of handcuffs, so I don't know how difficult it is to get a pair, but I can't imagine it being too hard. I know that personally, I don't really think I'd incorporate them into play. If I used my childhood toys or something of the sort for sex play, I don't think that I'd be able to get that association out of my head ever again. That's probably just me though, I tend to grow attached to things and I'm a little over emotional. 😁 Either way though, it's your choice and your opinions.

MissStress, do you consider what your doing something bad ?I have talked to you before and I think you are only doing something between consenting adults (husband & wife in your case)and it's a form of sexual gratification between the two of you.You are not harming anyone .Just my opinion.

MissStress

Please, please play with your cuffs. Sure grandad would approve.

Just one tiny consideration before you use them. Make sure you got the key!

Enjoy - its what life's for!

Doing "something bad with them" certainly wouldn't include lovingly restraining someone who wishes you to do so, would it? Go for it!

Thank you for your responses. I will have to get them out and see what fun I can create. Yes, I think grandpa wouldn't mind, since he knew where alot of the local "whore houses" had been located.

Honor the request in the context of which if was expressed. My interpretation of "do not do anything bad" would be harm or injury to anyone, or anything illegal. Aside from that, the ownership of the cuffs have been clearly transferred to you.

All that said, enjoy them either in private or with someone else who will also enjoy them. Nothing is wasted, and everything is honored.

I dont know kiss these were given to you as a rememberance type thing!!! if you do play be carefull as not to hurt them . If you wish i have real hand cuffs that were used to hold prisoners here in the chicago area ( friend who is guard gave them to me), i will be more then happy to give you these to play with i never use them . they just sit and collect dust . when you come to chicago next and if we meet up let me know ill be more then happy to know they are being used for good things in life LOL!! but grandpas uhh i dont think i would but thats me.

This is just my personal feelings. A personal keep sake handed down through family that was not been associated with the BDSM lifestyle, might be better left as just that. All though police putting hand cuffs on an subject is a form of domination, I guess is different since it is about public saftey that is real, not fantasy. In the end, how do you think you will feel after using them, I guess is the deciding question.

Give the master your keys.Lock yourself to the bed: ass up.

And you need a good spanking for these thoughts!Many happy

bottoms up.

But dear rathousedog, I am the Master of this bedroom. 😄

Oh well; fun thought any way. But I'm not a rat but sometimes though I do enjoy squeezing into small tight holes lol lol.I'm sorry to disappoint you; but in my house I AM the MASTER.Your right in your house you are the master their; but you may want to change roles 😁 read some of Suzie's stories it might add some spice! 😃LOL

Fathousedog I must apologize for getting your name wrong, how impolite of me. I do on occasion let my sub have control of his Miss, but not too often. Don't like not having control.

My Dear MISS STRESS: That's the way it should be! With all my love >FHD 😁

Got them dug out, but haven't used them yet. Want to make sure they are in working order before I put them around my subs wrists.

Your sub is quite lucky to have you!!! 😉

If it keeps your sex life going, I don't think your dad would mind.

Miss stress, I would say, just leave them alone, You can certainly buy erotic ones like wrist, ankle and thigh cuffs

Love it when people play with these old cuffs.

I'm a locksmith what a turn on when they have to come to me to release them and I take my time doing it.

That is the esential bit do yu have enough keys and do they work niely

goodboy

Can you do it without getting a visual of dear old Gramps in your head at the wrong time?, and by wrong time, I mean thinking about Gramps while foreplaying with your husband.

There's nothing like a beautiful pair of titanium alloy handcuffs. I got mine at an S&M store on Christopher Street NYC for about $45.

You should definitely play with your grandfather's cuffs. You would have as a child, why not as an adult?

You can buy used police handcuffs at army surplus stores.. they run about 20... maybe get some of those

I will hope to keep Grandpa locked away during the really good times if we play with them. I will keep a key on a necklace that I have a few different charms on. Then it will be handy at all times.

I prefer silk satin restraints to the hand cuffs. Butt, I would use leather wrist and ankle restraints if one desired on a medical fetish exam up in stirrups on the exam table. 😁

Put them in a nice velvet lined display case under glass and hang them in the house somewhere, you can see who is kinky or not by the responses you get :

) and pay respect to your grandfather

Before using the cuffs I would make sure the key works properly preferably on a table or some other surface.

A . You do not want to put them on someone and then discover that the locking mechanism does not work.

Anitaanne is very right.

And next - may be you start with

more childish handuffs before going

to the rea?

And - is your other party ready for that?

I am pretty sure my sub/husband is ready for cuffs. He is routinely tied to the bed this will just be a bit different. More metal against metal(our bed is metal).

The noise of the metal cuffs clanging against the metal head board is really cool to listen to while he is being tortured or struggling for release! 😁 😁 😁 😁