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Hello there,

I have a loving wife who accepts my enjoyment of enemas but has no interest in participating. She seems afraid of experimenting with anything new. She even has a fear of performing oral sex, but loves it when I perform it on her. She has said that she can't believe how I am capable of doing that but absolutely loves it.

She has bad memories of having to give enemas to her dying husband. I understand it was a mess, as he was bedridden. We've been married three years, and a couple of times I thought she was going to relent, but to no avail. She doesn't know what she is missing. I would love to share this with her.

She doesn't realize that I need to share giving and receiving with someone. Going solo is okay, but enemas would be so much better if shared.

Any tips or suggestions? I'm afraid of pushing too hard so as to avoid a confrontation. I love her dearly, but I don't want to fall on the old line: "If you love me you'd do this." I want her to enjoy participating. Please help if you can.

Thanks.

eman445

I Have been with my wife now for some 30 plus years and she has always been a great sex partner and willing to try most anything, I was always reluctant to to mention my desire for spanking and enemas. My wife has always been somewhat anal. So some years ago i did as @Nurse_Phillips said and just asked her if she would give me an enema and she said I will do whatever you want, it was great but then ask if i could give her one but she said she never liked getting enemas as a child said the cramps were too painful but later she let me give her a few but I could tell she just didn’t like them and I just lost all desire to force her to do something she didn’t enjoy. Same thing with paddling my ass, so now she is happy with giving me enemas and paddling my bare bottom any time I want but doesn’t receive either. There are several photos of our sessions here. So I believe that some people just don’t like something’s that others like and I’m happy with our arrangement.