To all you guests out there

I lurked for quite a while before being brave enough to sign up and post. Like others, I didn't realize or accept right away that I was not the only person who shared some of the fantasies that I did, and even after I saw that they did, I still felt kind of ashamed about it.

I joined recently.just lv the site.people are very friendly.a great site

Just came on board today....in my wildest dream i never would have believed this...! thanks all

I just joined today. I'm in a good mood and have been lurking for a while, so I thought "Why not?" and decided to have a serious go at making a profile. All I need now is to find a way to get an avatar to show up and I'll be well away!

No one on this site will think you're weird, and I doubt big brother is interested, there is nothing dodgy here, just a great bunch of like minded people.

I am worried my husband will find out. I am amazed people have the same feelings I do. The thought of someone examining me, while spreading my legs sounds wonderful. I joined 2 years ago but have just been watching and fantasizing. Sad eh.

Shazbat as with most medfet its still considered a bit Taboo and as such people are very wary about joining and participating in a forum as this. So I'm not surprised about your concerns and I don't think its sad. As you said, there are quite a few people in similar circumstances as yourself. All I can say is participate as and when you feel comfortable or circumstances allow.

Shazbat, as others have said, this is a great place, full of mostly like minded people. The more you post the more of the site opens up to you and your learning journey can go on and on. I hope you find a way to involve your husband but for now join in and explore. Good luck!

In any community, whether it be fetish or utterly conservative, there will always be some who do not play by the rules or do not get along with others. That is life, but by far the greater majority join because of a common interest and, by joining, extend their knowledge and circle of friends. No community is perfect but the zity mods do a fantastic job in regulating this place!

I found the site 24 hours ago and joined pretty quick.

I am worried my husband will find out.

Just open a "private browsing" window or tab before logging in. And make sure you log out before exiting the forum. Shouldn't be a problem unless you have a suspicious husband with considerable I.T. skills.

Computers should NOT be shared.

Get your own. Password it.

Hi All

Just want to say that I think this site is fantastic. I have received lots of private messages but they have all been great fun. I always thought I was odd, but I have found some really great people who understand my desires. Keep it up. Forgive the pun.

Shazbat

I was actually a guest for a while. Don't even remember why I did not join. So glad I did. Great people so far, great community, the pictures are always fun to check out and the chats are fun too!

I wasn't all that comfortable with anyone finding out I was even looking at stuff like this. Let alone being a member of it. But I did finally join, though I do not get on very often. Just give them time, maybe they will join too.

I love love love this site! Like most others I thought I was alone in the world. Most of the chat sites have nothing about medfet and if they do the "Drs." Are just creepy rapists. Yuck!

One quick question if I may...how do we recruit a few more Drs. Lol. I switch but sometimes a girl just needs a good thorough exam.

'Been here for "a while now!!!" 'Before Zity" there were a few other "Sites" I was in... and if you've been around for a while who can forget "Speculum Pages!!!!!" Fortunately the stories did not disappear 'they are "Here!!" So, if you are lurking......dive in!!! 'Remember before "THE NET!!" we thought we were "The only one who had thoughts like these!!" Slowly ..came the "Penthouse Forum" then "The Internet!!" Now you know........"YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!!" Come on in..... the water's Fine!!!

With a hearty "Click" of the Clamp!!!!,

highwater

I mostly just used the library for the first few months, I much prefer written erotica to visual. I doubt I even noticed the option to log in/sign up. Eventually I noticed, and after reminding myself that I have an alternate email address for this exact purpose, made an account

I was super lazy for a few years as a guest. I recommend membership though.

I'm one of those who's been a guest reader for a decade but just worked up the courage to join. Zity Library is my go to when I have the urge. Been reading the discussion and I thought members here are as wonderful as the stories. Looking forward to learning a lot more!

Negative experience with kinky sites in general. When I discovered them, I used to be shy and not very good at saying no so when I registered, posted and chatted with people (not on Zity), I usually got pushed into doing things I don't want to do or being forced to come up with excuses not to do these things. Things like sending nudes, real world details, meeting up with people I barely knew and didn't like very much etc.

By the time I discovered this one, I decided to not take an active role any more and just occasionally logged in to read the stories and posts.

After spending about 15 minutes yesterday looking through the blogs and discussion I really liked how everyone was friendly and open. Not the usual mess as on other sites for posting so when I saw I could join I jumped right in. Like how it's a safe space for sure!

Yes, welcome.

I hope you enjoy your time here.

Glad you enjoyed my post!

I joined originally mainly for access to the library, actually interacting with people felt a little intimidating for whatever reason but guess it’s time.

I have done this also and noticed all sorts of people browsing around. They should just come out of the closet and join us because we have a nice little group here and it is great just to be yourself and not have any shame for your oddities or Kinks.

I found this place later in life after being a member of a few other so called adult forums and ending up hating them.

I was a Lurker for a few hours, and then i decided to join, i knew it was the kind of adult forum that i wanted to be part of, and even though i am not here all that often, when i am, i love reading many of the Topics.

However, just like most adult forums, there will always be some really dodgy members who i think are here for the wrong reasons, and i see them posting a lot of “unbelievable” comments that border on really wierd shit, but that's just me, i might see things differently than others do, and that's fine.

Keep up the good work peeps, and to the Lurkers out there, you know you want to join, so just DO IT ok.

I've been a long time browser. There is just such a wealth of information here that google does a really good job indexing. I've joined mainly to be able to ask and answer and share experiences and advice. Agree with previous posters that adult forums often bring out people that just want to play games or interject their drama into everything.

Damn, if I had realized you could browse! I just out right joined up and know I am hooked

Recently became a member after browsing for awhile. Glad I did and look forward to getting to know the site and other members better.

Didn’t everyone lurk forever before actually joining? I know I did. I’d read the forums late night. I think eventually my partner was out of town and I joined up. Was a long time ago but I still remember my first friends on here very warmly.