To all you guests out there

I agree with nurse69... some very erotic stories and pics that really stir the imagination.

Sorry Lady Doc, i just now read your answer to my post. what i meant was a free 24 hour pass to the chat section.

I lurked in the shadows for a long while before I joined, but I have been intouch with so many nice people from here I am glad I did join up

I, too, was a guest here for about three months after finding the site. I questioned for a while whether or not I wanted to open up this closed door in my life to others. Finally in 2008, I took the plunge. I have really enjoyed my involvement here and I have met some really wonderful people through exchanged messages. Mostly, I have learned about myself and why I am interested in medical scenarios.

I would encourage anyone who is a guest to take the plunge. You will not be ridiculed here and you will gain both in knowledge and friendship.

It is also difficult for a new member, unsure if they have anything of interest or value to say, to find a place where someone else has not already contributed the one piece of information they were planning to add. That kept me quiet for a good while.

I just recently found this forum, through another forum member who recommended the site. And i joined up right away.

This was somewhat easy to do, as I've had a lot of experience on other med fet sites and groups in the past.

However, for a new member or someone just beginning to explore the byways of this little fetish, it can be daunting to take the first step by joining. Thee is always the question of what they will say, or have to contribute.

And furthermore the media does a wonderful job of scaring people by telling undoubtedly true stories of bad experiences some people have had on social networks, internet groups and sites and such. You think, imagine this happening to me, being found out as someone having a (gasp!) medical fetish. You think it is something you'd never live down.

So I'd say that it's a great accomplishment that so many people have become full members, in spite of all the normal type of hesitation you would otherwise expect.

Hello Belgium , 😎

New members have one thing that experienced lost , they are NEW / FRESH like jong blood in a community.

Rookies have another view, another understanding and they are coming in with their experience of the usual life not interpreted by what is going on here .

Here we can, like when driving, look forwards 75 % and backwards 25%.

What can they offer to old members? All what they want to share, and how they want to share.

Here we have the possibility to enjoy the experiences of the past, good or bad, and free to evolve with them.

So different as in huge companies where the management make the same errors frequently because managers and top managers changes but not the company .

Lurked for a brief while then joined up. Newbie if anyone wants to pop some medfet cherry! 😃

I also lurked a while before joining. For those afraid to join: even if you think it's all been said, there's no reason not to add your own voice to the conversation. Plus, there's nothing hotter than knowing someone else is reading your fantasy and enjoying it just as much as you are.

I've never known anyone that regreted joining. You can finally 'scratch the itch'!

I too lurked for quite some time, then took forever in posting, but glad I eventually did 😃

Agreed. I am pretty new here (by any standard) and have felt welcomed to the group. It is quite the collection of people / topics / fets. I lurked as a guest for awhile before I made the plunge just to make sure that is this somewhere that is safe and worth spending some time contributing.

My vote is... when in doubt check it out. Glad I did also.

I first looked around too before joining. I'm still new, so I don't know yet if I should be glad or not, but I feel this is a very open and welcoming community.

As a new member I would like to tell all new members and guests that Zity is the best introduction about, and thank the experienced members for the very good environment they have created. It is a great place to gain experience and advice at your own pace

I had been a lurker for a little while now. Have found some amazing content, as well as some very helpful hints/ideas/solutions that I decided to join today. I am looking forward to giving and receiving all that I can.

Welcome to Zity kiwiguy; jump in with both feet and enjoy the fun. Everyone here was a "newbie" at some point, so don't be bashful-the more you contribute the more you take away.

I joined two days ago and everyone is lovely 😃 its such a great site, join guys!

I joined a long time ago but just recently became active on here. It's great to meet so many people who share their fetishes. There were times when I thought I was "the only one" who liked this kinda stuff. So come on in and say hello! You don't have to give your real name its all very discrete.

Yeah join! I'm glad I did!

I was hesitant at first too, but then decided to join anyway. And I'm kind of new, but feels it might be worth it...

I waited a little before joining. But as I followed the postings I felt that there was no need to "lurk", so here I am.

I guess the reason for a lot of people - including myself - is feeling like you have little to contribute. In the UK our gyn exams are very different to in America. The first time a doctor will usually examine down there is for a pap smear at 25 and then at 5 year intervals after that. And they will simply do a pap smear, nothing else!

Plus it all depends on what the guest is interested in. I used to mostly - and still do somewhat - read the stories rather than write in the forum. A lot of posts ask about experiences rather than fantasies and when you're just starting to explore the area there's really little to say! So it really seems pointless to join as a member when you don't really have much to say!

Don't feel you have little to contribute, just being there to bounce ideas off others is great. Say what it is is about the various aspects of the site that you like. It's not just about being a specialist in a given topic, it's about unburdening to other like minded folks that you feel a certain way about stuff. Being in the same time zone as you I would love to hear your questions and experiences, especially on chat, although in my limited experience, the topics tend to be "above the waist" in the real time conversations and much more open on posts. But you're right it is an amazingly liberating site.

Come on in. The water's lovely.

I finally joined today after years of lurking. I feel like I know some of you already just from all the posts I've read.

*whispers* I maybe have a little crush on Mashie :S

I agree. All the guest should join. Good group of people around here that you can learns lots about MedFet around!

CDA you are right on the mark. I, too, lurked for a while as a guest. It does take some amount of courage to open up on a forum like this.

Macca is right about your opening being well done. I have read several of yout posts and they are well thought out.

Welcome to the forum and enjoy the experience.

Thanks, guys. Hopefully a few more folks will think it's fine and safe. FWIW, I've only had two private messages and both were lovely, welcoming and not at all creepy.

I'm another one of those guys who lurked for a looooong time and finally pulled the trigger yesterday. This board is just so awesome in so many ways. Let's face it, our little fetishes certainly aren't the most common ones. To find many like minded people and have a decent sized repository for stories and pics is a fantastic find.

Agreed, I was reluctant to sign up the first time, but I've found nothing but good things. Everyone's so friendly and open