Self Bondage

I tired lots of self-bondage but can't seem to find one that works the best.

I always seem to get out of my bondage with ease. I would like to find a way to tie myself up so that I can't get loose so I would have to wait for my roommates to come home and find me like that and hopefully they would let me loose.

Any ideas please, I'll take any and all.

It's hard to find someone that will place me in bondage without paying them an arm and a legg so I practice self bondage a good bitt.

I will place my keys in a room at the far end of the house and then go to the other end and start my self bondage by plugging my backside with the largest dong I have so it can't slip out and then put leather cuffs on my wrist and ankles as well as nipple clamps on my nipples.

Next i use chaines to connect my ankle straps together and my wrist so i am hoggtied with my arms behind my back chained to a leather collar i have placed around my neck after i put a rubber hood with nose and mouth holes on so i can't see.

I have to inch by inch work my way through the house to the other end to find the keys that era on the floor so i can get free.

Well I've used ribbons and clothes to tie myself up and my fiance. You can get them almost anywhere. I got a bag of different sizes all of about 2 feet in length. I can tie them in a slip knot which tightens when strained and can easily be loosened to allow escape. I hope this is helpful.

Self Bondage

Self bondage can be addictive, or so I am told. I have been experimenting for several months now and generally laugh at the documented misfortunes of others; perhaps not a good idea as God, fate or what ever will usually pay you back.

I had set a time and date in my head which had had to be changed several times due to family not being where they should have been. After reading quite a few stories I “borrowed” pieces from some and planned my session. Working on the 5 “P” principles, Poor Planning makes for Piss Poor Performance I tried each piece of equipment, modifying as I went along.

The date arrived and after ensuring the family were away and the doors locked I started. I laid out all my “toys” on the bedroom floor. The first task, after removing my trousers was to apply some KY to a cold peeled banana and push it into my rectum. I had experimented with butt plugs before but never fruit. It slipped in easily although my sphincter tried to expel it at ever opportunity. Once in and the sphincter closed the sensation felt quite strange, my bowel felt cold and full. I then inserted a variable vibrating butt plug covered with a peppermint flavoured condom which gave another sensation. Although it was in place my sphincter kept trying to expel it, perhaps my bum hole is larger that I like to think. Once in I taped on a medium size Depends diaper and a pair of plastic pants. Well I didn’t want any accidents on the carpet. Checking that the butt plug vibrated I turned it off and put my trousers back on.

I didn’t want to be able to slip out of the diaper so I treaded one of my chains through the belt loops, down between my legs and used a small padlock to hold it in place. The chain felt tight but I wasn’t able to slip it over my hips and it also gave the butt plug some support. I could feel my bowels trying to expel the banana and butt plug but so far everything remained in position.

Next I took two heavy dog choke chains and slipped one on each ankle pulling each one tight and attaching another padlock to the chain and a spreader bar. With the spreader bar in place I found it even more difficult not to “push”. Resting on my knees I used another padlock to attach the leg chains my chain belt, in addition I used the remaining chain from between my legs to loop round the middle of the spreader bar and lock it securely to the chain belt.

Resting on my knees became rather painful but I didn’t want to lie down just yet. I buckled a ball gag in place, I don’t know why really as I’m not very comfortable wearing them, but perhaps that was the attraction. Even though I had only just put it in my jaw started to ache, all psychological I’m sure. After this I put on a light weight eye mask and then a leather hood which laced up at the rear which also had a buckle to further hold it in place. I had intended to add another small padlock, pushing it through the eyelets but changed my mind at the last minute. I keep telling myself that it was because I couldn’t feed it through the eyelets but it truth I chickened out. Groping around a located two scarves, one of which I tied over the existing eye mask and hood to ensure a total blackout and the second to push the ball gag further into my mouth.

With all this accomplished I turned the vibrating butt plug onto auto which gave a random sequence of vibrations, the control unit I slipped into my trouser pocket.

The final piece was to put my adjustable Darby handcuffs on behind my back. This was easier said that done, the first wrist was easy but the second took a while trying to hold the cuff in place whist turning the key to lock it. This accomplished I fumbled and dropped the key. I had intended to use an extending key chain attached to the door and when released would “fly away” leaving me to struggle to retrieve it but again I changed my mind.

At this point the stupidity of my situation struck home, I could find the handcuff key, which if anyone knows about the Darby cuffs they usually only come with a single key, no get out clause if it gets lost. Rolling onto my back, stupid thing to do I tried to locate the key but all I did was to nearly choke as I couldn’t swallow. I rolled with a great deal of difficulty onto my front and although I still couldn’t swallow I could at leas drool forwards. I still couldn’t find the key so had to locate the small padlock keys. I had eight separate keys scattered on the floor but a complete set on a key ring which luckily I found first. Selecting the correct key behind your back and in the dark isn’t easy, but that is part of the fun except for panicking at not being able to find the Darby key, and to make matters worse I couldn’t reach the hood to take it off and remove the blindfold. I eventually managed to release the ankle locks and lay with my head forward drooling on the carpet. My anus wanted to push and trying not to crap myself was difficult, multitasking isn’t one of my strong points and my wife will readily agree.

With my ankles free of the chains and the spreader bar I tried to reach the buckle at the back of the hood, eventually I managed to free it enough to push it up slightly with my knees, I didn’t want to put my head that low as it was beginning to smell down there. With a small amount of vision I tried to find the remaining key which I eventually found under a towel which I had moved during my struggles. With the key in hand I relaxed and the contents of my bowel emptied into the diaper. I could feel the warmth of the banana against the cool or the peppermint condom. Kneeling forward to reduce the risk of choking I could feel the warm contents pushing towards the front of the diaper. I hadn’t used a diaper except for peeing in before, well not since a baby and I don’t remember that; it wasn’t as unpleasant as I though it would be.

Once the hand cuffs were removed I was finally able to remove the ball gag, I wasn’t sure which gave the greatest relief finally getting rid if the banana or the ball gag.

After cleaning up and showering I have reached a conclusion regarding my experience, don’t laugh at the misfortunes of others because natural justice will make you pay and stick to the 5 “P”; clearly I didn’t and although I didn’t piss my performance was crap .

Take care and play safe.

Although the icewater locks are somehow not as erotic as a full rope tie, they are the only truely sure answer to a guaranteed release. Anyone desiring the snug sensation of ropes can easily adapt these locks into their roping, and remove the ability to loosen a slipknot. This also means that the only way to ruin the excitement of being bound by squirming out early, is to find a way to warm the lock more rapidly. I recommend testing the lock to prior to its intended use to know how long you will be held captive, then plan your roommate discovery fantasy accordingly with their anticipated return home. Hopefully they will respond by relocking you inso you cannot escape, then use and humiliate your helpless bound holes for hours! Good luck, and I hope your roommates find you early, and fuck you into unconsciousness!

This is a technique that ensures that when you are doing self bondage that you, in fact, STAY restrained for the amount of time you planned for yourself.

Around sunset, restrain your legs and optionally one arm with chain and a padlock that unlocks with a master key OR combination in a carpeted room to an immovable object. It MUST be this type of lock and the room must have no artificial lighting or it is all turned off. When sunrise arrives, you can see the combination and set yourself free. If you become a pussy and can't tolerate being restrained as long as you originally planned (until sunrise) or an emergency ensues, you can use the key, which you can obviously use in the dark. The caveat is that the key is at the bottom of a large tall vase completely filled with motor oil that will spill all over the carpet if you reach in to get the key.

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My wife called today to tell me that I must be nude on the sofa, gagged, handcuffed, and with legs bound to the spreader, when she gets home. She didn't include the large ass plug in her fairly usual request! I know that she has another boy on the side, and I am wondering if this is the evening that I will finally meet him! Worse yet, history has proven that if I am not 'plugged', I get filled with cum. I'm not sure if I should be excited, or frightened!

Well, anyway, IF she fucks another man tonight, or has him fuck me, I hope he is damn huge and humiliating to me!

I am now tied for her arrival, and must log off to lock my hands behind my back. I hope she lets him cum in, or on me, and I will be thrilled to watch her orgasms with him!

I usually go into my special drawer in my dresser and search for which straps I need. I have collected old belts, purse straps, calibers, padlocks, and luggage straps.

At the leg of my bed, I have a tie down already in place. I drape this over the edge of my bed, and connect luggage straps to it. These straps drape over the other side of the bed in an upside down V shape. This is the shoulder harness. Next, I wrap an old dog collar around a longer strap and the collar buckles around the bed leg. This makes a crotch strap. A strap to secure my waist goes behind the leg of my bed. That will be fed through the crotch piece. Finally, a strap is placed behind the bed leg and will buckle into the shoulder harness. The shoulder straps and this last strap are the same and holds me back against the bed. *I sit on the floor to buckle the straps tightly around my chest, hips, and between my legs. Sometimes I tie my shoelaces together. I would Love for someone to restrain me like this. It is just like a five point harness. 😃

Can be every awkward trying to do oneself. Need to have 3 hands at least

Can be every awkward trying to do oneself. Need to have 3 hands at least

NO, you don't. It's actually very easy. You just have to be a little clever.

See my other post three posts up this thread.

Can be every awkward trying to do oneself. Need to have 3 hands at least

Like Switchablesusie said, it is very easy, but it takes time to find what works for you. there are some excellent SB websites - check them out and let the creative juices flow, but always safety first.

I like fridays inventiveness !

Only tried self bondage once

i anchored an extra long dildo at the end of my bed my jamming it between the matress and the frame (extra long so it stays solid but leaves some room for penetration still)

then (at least attempted to) tie my arms behind my back with bungy cord straps (maybe should have looked up some tips on how to tie myself up first lol) then rammed myself on the dildo to try to feel like i was in submission

honestly it was a while ago and by the time i set all this up i only had a few minutes to try to enjoy it before i had to clean up and go to work so i don't think i can judge it well yet

i can tell ya it really mellowed me out having something that intense before work though, should try it again when i have more time...

Have to be so carefull with self bondage could be dangerous if it goes wrong ? !!!

Try using handcuffs, a chain , a pad lock & some rope. First put the keys to lock and cuffs on a table were they can be found. Than use the rope to tie your knees and feet together the loop the chain though the rope on your ankles. Gag yourself with some duct tape. Cuff you hands be hind your back loop the chain through the your cuffed hand and lock it. Your bound and gagged until your friends find you.

Note if your think you may be bound for more than a hour or so. You may want to ware a diaper.

Padlocks are great for self bondage. I put on locking ankle and wrist cuffs. I then use chain and a padlock to secure myself to something. The chain needs to be long enough so I can reach the padlock but short enough to make the bondage restrictive.

I'll put the keys on a key ring. I put a piece of ice in a stocking, slide the key ring over this and then tie the stocking tightly to something out of reach. I then tie a string to the ring and the oter end to my wrist cuff.

When the ice melts the keys are released and I can use tue string to pull it to me.

For safety I have a spare set of keys also tied to a string attached to my other wrist cuff. These keys are tied to a jug filled with cola, positioned on the edge of a desk with a pile of expensive coffee table books open on the floor beneath.

If I really need to get out I can pull this string to get the keys but it means I will ruin the books.

Play safe!

When I do self bondage I usually use wrist cuffs that I can use a short chain and padlock the cuffs behind my back. I do it as I am self hogtied and that makes it difficult to to crawl but possible. It is even better if I am hooded or blindfold is used. I do it at one end of the house after leaving the padlock keys on the floor in a room at the other end of the house. Being hogtied this way unable to see make it hard to tell what way you are crawling and you can get turned around so you had better not wear glove as you need to feel your way around to get to the room and the keys for release.

I have large,3"electromagnets ,150+ lbs.holding power, and the cuffs,both leg and wrists on a timer. if the electricity go's out, I'm out. No BS of ice melting or some of the other BS with self bondage stuff.

I have large,3"electromagnets ,150+ lbs.holding power, and the cuffs,both leg and wrists on a timer. if the electricity go's out, I'm out. No BS of ice melting or some of the other BS with self bondage stuff.

Why is it BS? Good for you on your electromagnet cuffs. I'd love a set myself but at present don't have the capacity to build something like that. Doesn't mean the way I choose to approach self bondage is BS though. Check your attitude.

@Rubbermark. I'm sorry . I was referring to MY experiences in self bondage and the ice lock stuff. I meant no offence towered you and you practice!!!! cool ?

I would think if you locked your wrists into handcuffs locked onto opposite bedposts, you'd definitely need help, just simply because your hands would be so far apart, that once locked in, you couldn't free yourself

Whilst this would technically meet the description if self bondage I'm not sure it's really in the spirit of it. I always consider self bondage to be a situation where you are able to free yourself given a certain circumstance. Having to be rescued doesn't really fulfil that for me.

Bondage is bondage. Self bondage should be as secure as any other type.

That's why I like the method I suggested above. There's no fooling around. Once your locked in, your locked in and can easily release yourself if you are willing to pay the price of the mess and ruined carpet or whatever.

I'm not disagreeing with you Susie. Self bondage should be totally secure. However, using handcuffs to lock both hands out of the way doesn't present many options for freeing yourself when the allotted time is up.

^^^^ I never said two hands. I said ONE hand and it was optional.

With a leg or two chained up, you aren't going anywhere.

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I have done several different methods. The first one was bent over a saw horse, nude. I inserted a butt plug enema nozzle attached to a full two quart enema bag. The flow was held back by a clothes pin holding the hose doubled. I tied a string to the cloths pin and tied the other end to a chain stretched between two of the saw horse legs on the side where my hands would be. When I was ready I secured my ankles to the saw horse legs, put wrist cuffs on my wrist, bent over the horse and locked the cuffs to the chain. The key to the lock holding my wrist in place was mixed in with a number of keys that I would have to struggle to reach. Then I used the string to pull the cloths pin off the hose staring my enema, I tried to wait as long as I could before I started to try and get to the right key. By the time I got loose the bag was empty.

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I am fortunate to have a Bi, switch, kinky lady partner who loves to play. However she lives two hours away so we have to plan our play time in advance. Most of my experimentation with self bondage was before we met. In addition to my previous post I also used an ice cube set up on several occasions. I have a free standing work shop about 150 ft from my house which is set back off the road in a wooded area. However part of the shop parking lot is visible from the road and lighted by a security light. During the day I froze two short pieces of string in two ice cubes formed in the bottom of paper cups. Late that evening I set every thing up in the center of the shop building floor. I placed a large cushion in the center of a shower curtain spread out on the floor, positioned chains secured to immovable objects so that I could secure my legs spread and hobbled about 12 inches apart and then lay over the cushion and secure my wrist cuffed together in front of me so I could not move or get up. Next I positioned a stand in front of me so an ice cube "release" would be positioned over my hands to hold the lock key for my wrist cuffs and a stand beside me to hold the full enema bag. I next put the enema bag, a chain thong I had made to hold the enema nozzle locked in me, and a key for the hobble chain lock I left in my set up in the shop.

When I was sure i had everything ready I waited until dark, took the two ice cube "releases" out to the shop and hung them in place on the stands, went back to the house. stripped, went down to the basement bath, filled the enema bag, worked the hose through a predetermined link in the chain thong (the chain was small enough that the hose would slip through but the enema nozzle would not), attached the nozzle, inserted the nozzle,worked the chain thong in place and locked in on tightly. I could not get it off or the nozzle out of my butt easily without the key.

When I had the nozzle locked in place I left the key to that lock in that bathroom, went outside, locked the door and placed a key to the door in a place where I could possibly be seen from the road and then carefully made my way out to the shop, nude, barefooted, carrying the full enema bag with the nozzle locked in my butt

When I got to the shop I made sure every thing was exactly as needed, hung the enema bag from the stand, doubled the hose, put a clothes pin on it to stop the flow, made sure the flow clap was open, tied a weight to the ice cube release and a string form it to the cloths pin. When the ice cube melted enough the weight would drop and my enema would start.

Then I tied a key to the wrist cuff lock to one string in the other ice cube release and hung it form the stand above where my wrist would be.

Next I knelt behind the cushion,hobbled my ankles and then attached the chains to my ankles. One last look to be sure everything was as it should be and then I attached four cloths pins to my scrotum and quickly laid over the cushion and locked my wrist in place. I was now laying over a cushion which elevated my butt, stretched out and waiting for my enema to start.I knew the ice cube release would drop the weight and start my enema before the key would drop, which it did. When I heard the weight hit the floor i could not help but squirm and try to rub my hard cock on the cushion and then I felt the first surge of the enema flowing into me and all I could do was take it and look up at the key I could not reach. Some time after the bag was empty the key finally dropped and I was able to free myself.

I then had to make my way back to the house. nude, hobbled, carrying the empty enema bag, with the nozzle still locked in my butt and and with two quarts of enema still in me while trying to listen for traffic on the road when I came to places where i could be seen.. It was quite an experience.

We plan to do it again but this time my lady, and hopefully some "assistants, will put me in place and leave me there until I can release myself and make it back to the house.