Forced feminization

How can the feminization experience be 'forced' if the person relating the experience describes how he enjoys wearing the panties and doing housework?

It seems to me that people realize that cross dressing, wanting to be submissive, dominated, or playing/acting out a feminine role is regarded by most of society as shameful, disgusting, wrong, immoral, perverted, degrading etc. And many cross-dressers who do it by themselves are too shy or scared to actually have someone else see them cross dressed for fear of being thought a pervert or at least a weirdo. So if a man is 'forced' by a woman to cross-dress, be a lady's maid, sex slave etc., then it's "not his fault" that he's wearing women's clothes.

For a situation to really be forced, a 'regular' guy who never cross dressed voluntarily would have to be submissive enough to accept having a domme tell him he had to wear women's clothing.

In the nineteenth century, maybe early 20th century there are tales of boys being dressed as girls as punishment, probably true.

Personally I like tales of 'forced feminization,' projecting myself as the 'victim.' But any real life 'forced fem' wouldn't be real, since I actually like cross dressing.

Never done it, but also enjoy reading about it - especially when it leads to a punishment and purging.

I would love to be caught out in a semi-public situation, where somebody noticed, for example, that I was wearing women's underwear, and would then compel me to dress or be dressed and have sex with men, perhaps for money that they would keep. I would start by giving blowjobs and then be bound over a chair and taken from behind by several different well-equipped men.

My wife insisted I was a latent homosexual and tried forced feminization on me. She would make me wear panties, garter belt, nylons, bra, house dress, high heels and wear lipstick and then clean house. All the shades had to be opened for everyone to see in from outside. It was a big turn on for me to dress that way and she knew it. She would shame and taunt me and call me faggot, fairy, deep throat, cocksucker, drag queen. I liked it so much she convinced me I was homosexual or at least bisexual. She would paddle me and humiliate me some more if I didn't dust or vacuum the way she liked. If I didn't clean the toilet suitably, >😢 I was dealt with even more sternly. She would blister my bare ass with a leather strap, and I was pegged with her 10 inch jumbo dildo. 😉 The pegging was painful at first but when she realized I loved that monster dick savagely ravishing me, it was assurance to her all the more that I was homosexual just as she suspected.

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How can the feminization experience be 'forced' if the person relating the experience describes how he enjoys wearing the panties and doing housework? ...

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I think that psychologically the fact that it is "forced" takes away the guilt associated with wanting to crossdress.

It took me a very long time indeed before I was able to actually take that step myself.

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I think that psychologically the fact that it is "forced" takes away the guilt associated with wanting to crossdress.

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I don't have any guilt about wanting to crossdress - I enjoy it. For me the "forcing" is part of submitting to someone else's will, of being a "sub". Putting on panties and a bra gets me into the mindset of being submissive, of seeking to be humiliated and hurt, all of which I need from time to time.

If only I could find a couple to force feminize me!

Forced Feminization is now one of my favorite things to do. First time it happened was with a girlfriend, we were talking about kinks and she turned to me and told me to put on some of her clothes. Made me wear a thong, bra, short skirt and made me clean the entire house. I enjoyed every time she made me wear her clothes, but I'd never tell her that

I'm lucky in that my wife and I like to switch roles, when she's the dominant I'll be dressed in panty, bra, garter belt, stockings, she has added a pink dress and we are into chastity devices. The feeling being crossdressed & in a chastity device is unbelieveable, what a turn on and always leads to such a case of blue balls that you can't even touch them, what great sex we have later on.

Forced feminization would be fun, however it would kinda depend on who is forcing me to crossdress.

We recently attended a wedding of a good girl friend of miss L we were both drinking champagne that evening we were both feeling great after the wedding we headed right home we had our own bottle of champagne chilling in the frigerator miss L gets really frisky when she starts drinking champagne miss L was dressed really hot that evening she had on a short black dress on black garter and black stockings and a beautiful pushup black bra I actually told her how hot she looked she agreed and told me she wanted me to look just as hot she got up and went to her lingerie closet and pulled out some lingerie for me to wear but first she has me strip down naked and bend over the bed she pulls out a big butt plug out of her sex toy dresser lubes up my ass hole and slides to big butt plug into My asshole getting me rock hard she hands me my black high waist open bottom girdle a pair of black thigh high nylons stockings and a beautiful pushup black bra she had a surprise for me she had ordered a pair of silicone breast they were size DD she stuff them into my bra she looked at me and said now were getting there . she pulls out a pair of high heel pumps for me to wear this was the first time we took it to this extreme we continue drinking champagne and getting pretty messed up she had me walking around the bedroom telling me that I look like a dirty little slut she gets up and runs into the bedroom and comes back with her makeup case at this point I knew we were taking it to another level she had me sit in front of her I still had that big butt plug in Me I was sitting on it squirming around she began applying her makeup on my face she use the real deep red lipstick on my lips she even put eye makeup on me she told me to walk over and grab whichever wig I wanted to wear I stumbled over in the high heels and grab a long brunette wig she had she grabbed it out of my hands and put it on me she told me to close my eyes and stand up she grabbed me by the hand walk me over and told me to stay there she told me to open my eyes and I was facing our closet Mira

I couldn't believe what I look like I had a pair of fake titties on the nipples of the breast were sticking out of the bra she was standing behind me she reached around and grab my rock hard cock with both hands

told me to spread my legs she slid a big strap on right between my legs it was so long it push right against my balls and past my cock look what I'm going to use on you it was a huge flash like dildo 3"x16" with a big pair of balls on it she first had me get on my knees and told me to shove it in my mouth she wanted to see my nice red lips sucking on her big dildo I begin sucking on it the best I could force it down my throat all of my red lipstick was smearing all Over her big dildo she told me to stop and stand up and handed me a shot glass that we keep in our sex toy drawer she had me stand in front of the mirror and watch myself jerk off into the shot glass filling it up with my hot cum she had me go back down on my knees in front of he and she began stuffing her big dildo back down my throat with the dildo in my mouth she begin pouring the hot cum down the dildo into my mouth she kept on telling me that I was being a good little slut for her telling me not to swallow it she enjoys watching the hot cum smearing it all Over her dildo she pulls the dildo out of my mouth and tells me to spit all of my cum all over it and leave it nice and wet has me bent over a chair facing the mirror has me spread my legs and pulls out the big butt plug she grabs 1 of her suction cup dildos and sticks it too the mirror facing me and tells me to suck that big black cock making me force it down my throat .

and begins shoving the cum covered dildo into my asshole she slid the hole 16" dildo in me in one shot fucking me the hardest she ever has she was holding me by girdle pulling me into her as hard as she could feeling the dildos balls slapping on my balls the experience was incredible I was rock hard by this time she pulls the huge strap on dildo out of my ass she takes the big butt plug and shoves it right back in Me she must of had at least 3 orgasms during this episode she begins laying on her back on the bed

with her strap on still on she tells me to fuck her now I begin to lick her hot wet pussy. with her big dildo dangling over my head l slide my cock into her wet pussy she's telling me to jerkoff her big cock

making her reach orgasm a few more times this was 1 of the hottest sex night we've ever had she made me sleep with the butt plug in Me and all dressed up in drag this was the first time we took it to this extreme with the forced feminization I can honestly say I enjoyed it very much the feeling of the girdle and sheer stockings on my legs all night kept me horny not to mention the big butt plug in me all night

I remember telling a former girlfriend that I'd like to try anal sex with her. On our next date, she told me she was ready, and to get undressed and meet her in the bedroom, and bring a tube of KY. Hoping to finally have the chance to fuck her tight little ass, I hurried in, but when I opened the door, there she was with a sly grin on her face and nothing on but a long, slender, purple strap-on around her waist. She said that first, i had to play the part of the little girl with the "tight ass"! She commanded me to hand her the KY, kneel down, bend over , and get ready to be fucked in the ass like the little girl slut I was. Wow, as soon as she eased that purple cock up in ass, I shot the biggest load of my life all over the floor!

MRS L lately has been treating me like a real dirty slut, really pushing it to the limit and she's enjoying it just as much as I am here's a list of a few things she's been doing to me forcing me to dress like a little slut, like crotchless pantyhose, open bottom girdles, Thigh high stockings, garter belts, starting to put makeup on me, making me eat my own cum, Fucking my ass with fat cock, dildos, teaching me how to give good blowjobs, sucking my own cock & cuming in my own mouth, Saturday night walking around Chinatown with crotchless pantyhose on and a butt plug in my ass under my jeans and I'm loving it more and more everyday.

Wow! Lucky you! I'd love force fem but I'd settle with my wife treating me like a girl friend, doing nails, shopping and then having wiiiild sex together!

When I dress up I love feeling slutty! I like to bend over and touch my toes and dance to some raunchy rap songs shaking my ass...so good!

You are so lucky!

My neighbor girl friend always made me take of her shoes and sweaty socks and smell, lick, suck and worship her sexy feet! I will never forget it and I owe my foot fetish to her!

This morning for Valentines Day MRS L she had me put on a vintage high waist open crotch girdle thigh hi pantyhose a tight steel cock ring on. Add our 2" njoy butt plug in my ass and send me off to work .wishing me a happy valentines day

My wife when she has some her female friends I have to serve as a slave.

I am a male that was (force?) femed by my Mother. My Father died when I was 7. At first my Mom got me into playing little games that required me to learn what at the time (40 years ago) were considered girls skills, like sewing and baking. Of-course I had to wear a frilly apron while doing it. This was her first step. I didn’t like baking all that much, but, I did like eating what we baked.

I hated sewing. I helped my Mother make several dresses that she wore. One day we were making a little girl’s dress and I wondered if we were going to give it to someone. It was only when it was nearly completted that I realized the truth. My Mom held the dress up against me to see if it was the fight size. At that moment it hit me, the dress was for me. My Mom then told me that she loved me very much, but, had always daughter and now that my Dad was gone she would never have one. She then asked me to put on the dress and pretend sometimes. It wasn’t long before I was wearing little girl dresses (along with panties, ankle socks with lace trim and Mary Jane’s) around the house most of the time.

In time my Mother even began to take me out dressed as a girl. We would drive to a town about 50 miles from were we lived, were nobody knew us, and have Mother - Daughter afternoons. My hair was long enough to be restyled into a short girls haircut. I was a kind of delicate looking boy so it was not hard to pull off the act. I worked real hard at it because I was always afraid that someone would see through my disguise and realized that I A BOY IN A DRESS.

This went on until I was nearly fourteen and got to big and boyish looking to get away with it without heavyweight makeup.

My wife has a fantasy of finding another guy who would be submissive to her as well as myself.

She would dress me like a sissy slut, with very red lip stick & make me beg him to spank me to tottal submission.

After the spanking I would have to thank him, & beg him to let me suck his cock.

After face fucking me i would suck him hard again, so he could fuck my ass balls deep with my wife holding my legs over my head.& telling me what a good cock sucker sissy boy who needs a good fucking I am.

The first time I was forced to wear panties was by an older teenage boy in my neighborhood, he wouldn't let me suck his cock unless I wore his sisters panties and training bra. He would call me his sisters name. I would have to put the panties and bra on and parade for him for awhile. The first time it was odd feeling and humiliating but I began to be turned on by servicing him being a girl and dressed like one. I still wear panties for men now.

I would love to meet a girl that that would dress me up as a maid and make me do the housework. And get a good spanking if its not done right

I wouldn't mind once to amuse my lovely lady by wearing a short, ass-baring skirt, some lipstick & a halter top while sucking off a stiff cock. She would then have him bend me over, push up that skirt and insert his saliva slickened pole into my horny, waiting hole as i moan testimony to my pleasure. She will make me blush with her cruel taunts & humiliation. That's when i come for her. She knows that when i get the humiliation blush of shame on my face-in my eyes; that i'm her puppet. I will do or promise to do anything for her if she will just release my swollen cock & balls from the band that she has constrained them with. He pushes his hot meat in & out of me rythmically. I adjust to his movements and a groan escapes me. She notices. She asks me how i like it, and warns me not to lie to her. When i hesitate, to gather my thoughts for response, she cuts me me off, saying,"I think you really LIKE being a girl. If you're honest with me tonight, I think you will get to cum."

My X , had me dress as a Maid in a complete latex outfit. I had to serve her for an entire weekend , and do whatever she demanded

I was made to cook her meals , serve her wine , and bath her at her will. I

was also made to service her sexually as she demanded.

This whole weekend was the result of a lost bet , over a football game.I must admit , that I enjoyed myself , and this practice became a monthly ritual, along with me being forced to wear silk panties at all times;..

@wetpants51

How did you find cooking in latex? Did you have latex gloves? I've always found the gloves the most challenging part of doing domestic stuff in latex. I still absolutely live it though.

I went through a phase with my wife where I wore women's panties and stockings. It was Ok, I dealt with it, but was not excited by it. I got some pretty hard beatings while dressed as a women, we made love and I got enemas. We don't do this anymore, but I would if she wanted to.

A few times my wife held my legs over my head, to see if I could suck myself, she made me admit that I would love to suck a cock, then made me masturbate into my mouth! It was great! I would like my wife to bring home a man who would spank me for her, telling me that he will stop, only when I am spanked to total submission to both of them.

This last post reminds me of once when I was playing with a woman who wanted to dominate me. She tied me so that my knees were over my ears, then rolled me onto my shoulders, and tied my ankles to the bedposts. As if that weren't humiliation enough, she then used the Hitachi against the head of my cock until I came into my own mouth. Surprisingly, though I didn't expect to, I loved the smell just before I came, and the taste and texture of my thick semen on my tongue and the roof of my mouth. She went back to her husband shortly after that, (it's a long story, but involves him crying and ultimately being seen out in public with white socks and black Mary Jane flats) so I never got the chance to try it again with her. I have tried to do that to myself several times, but can't bend over far enough, and am afraid to try self-bondage because I might not be able to get out. LOL

My gf knows I like wearing womens lingerie and skimpy sluty clothes. She has also done my make up and painted my finger/toenails and treated me like the slut I wanted to be, taking me from behind with her 8in strapon. I told her my fantasy was to be dressed bound and blindfolded and have her invite two guys over to make me a real bitch. That would be heaven for me

One of the tenents of kinky play is "safe,sane,& consensual", so those who ask how "forced feminization" can be forced, the answer is that it can't. However, much of the interaction between a Dominant and a submissive is based on shared fantasies, so some of the realities are ignored for the pleasure of living out the fantasy in real life.

Submitting to Master/Mistress is just that. Some times we obey reluctantly because we aren't crazy about the act, and sometimes we obey reluctantly to increase the pleasure for Her/Him which,in turn, provides more pleasure for us.

So, those who don't like or disagree with the term, "forced", just think of it as another form of role play.

My wife found out that I were her clothes when she is gone, now she makes me wear them when she is home and invites her friends over to see her sissy husband.