How can the feminization experience be 'forced' if the person relating the experience describes how he enjoys wearing the panties and doing housework?
It seems to me that people realize that cross dressing, wanting to be submissive, dominated, or playing/acting out a feminine role is regarded by most of society as shameful, disgusting, wrong, immoral, perverted, degrading etc. And many cross-dressers who do it by themselves are too shy or scared to actually have someone else see them cross dressed for fear of being thought a pervert or at least a weirdo. So if a man is 'forced' by a woman to cross-dress, be a lady's maid, sex slave etc., then it's "not his fault" that he's wearing women's clothes.
For a situation to really be forced, a 'regular' guy who never cross dressed voluntarily would have to be submissive enough to accept having a domme tell him he had to wear women's clothing.
In the nineteenth century, maybe early 20th century there are tales of boys being dressed as girls as punishment, probably true.
Personally I like tales of 'forced feminization,' projecting myself as the 'victim.' But any real life 'forced fem' wouldn't be real, since I actually like cross dressing.