Forced feminization

Would love this. Goes well with chastity play

My fantasy is to be subjected to the sort of treatment mentioned in Post 86 by Miriamvee, slowly but surely falling under the control of a dominant woman who would feminize me. I can do much of this on my own, but the idea of having someone else take charge and command me takes me to an entirely different level.

It started for me at about 10 years old when I would take my Moms dirty panties out of the laundry hamper and wear them. I loved the way they smelled, sweat with perfume but thr crouch had that women smell.

I was caught by my sister at about 14 , she told Mom. I was punished for invading there privacy ( I was wearing Mom's paties with Sis's bra and dress. ) . So Mom punished me with a belt spanking.

The next day she took me to buy my own stuff. We went to J.C.Penny , and In the ladies dept. She made me pick out and buy me own panties bra and hise. She gave me discarded clothes from my sister and her closits . I was not alllowed to touch there stuff.

Now in my lifestyle as a cuckold in chastity, my current wife makes me wear girl clothes at home, and,akways panties and hose out of the house under my male clothes. The panties do aid in holding my cb 6000s in place.

Years ago, before cell phones, I called a dominatrix that I found in an alternative newspaper add.

We make an appointment for a session. But she had a task for me. I had to go to a store and buy pink nylon bikini panties and I had to wear them to the session and show her I was wearing them when i arrived. I went to a K-mart and bought the panties. Felt very embarrassed, but also turned on. I had to go into the men,s room and into a stall and put them on. That really turned me on. It turned out to be a very good session. Spanking while wearing the panties and then butt plug training.

One of the very first outfits I bought was a Ann Summers maid dress, it felt so good at the time buying it, even the girl in the shop was not surprised when I ask for it in my own size

When I started wetting the bed she decided that diapers were the answer so can't wear panties...

Why not? I wear diapers and panties under them quite often. I will always wear diapers 24/7. When I want to wear panties they go on first and then the diaper. If your wife knows you like panties, that's even better. My wife doesn't know so I can't pee in my panties and diapers due to the laundering issue. If she knew, life would be easier in that regard. Anyway, I wear both at the same time and really like it.

For me, "forced feminization" is sort of a misnomer? Most of the stuff i read here is guys fantasies of being feminized, not something that is "forced" on us.

For me, feminization is more about a Dom/mate discovering and surfacing something buried in me, something that i've been conditioned to hide. In many cases, so conditioned against it that it's not something i am conscious even exists. i think a lot of the fantasies some guys have for "forced feminization" isn't so much about forcing something into existence, but removing barriers and exposing something that already exists. Which is not to suggest that there is no resistance or embarrassment or humiliation involved. For me, all three (mostly the latter two) exist, but i see those feelings as also conditioned into me, which is why emotions like embarrassment and humiliation associated with things like feminization can be so erotically arousing for me, there's simultaneous recognition, affirmation and exposure of things that my feelings have also been conditioned to reject, feel shame and guilt about. Feelings are deep seated, one can reason all one wants about them, but they remain intact with all their power to be used and influenced.

Personally, i derive nothing from trying to surface or "feminize" myself. It takes another Guy to be able to surface, expose and control that in me. The few that have done it get to the core of domination from my perspective, because they naturally elicit submission at the same time.

This is a very interesting subject! my wife used to dress me us and we would even go shopping together with me wearing my sex, silk and lace lingerie. At home she would even have me wearing dresses and skirts with silky blouses. Those day are long gone as a lot of her attitudes have changed.

While out at the bar/restaurant the first of the year, we started chatting with the couple that sat next to us at the bar. He also played golf so we had that in common. Women can always talk about cloths, hair, and such. Anyway, i moved from my wife's side to beside the gentleman as i could hear him much better. From golf to some other sports to woodworking. We talked a lot about many things. He made note about a two women on the other side of the bar and how sexy they looked and their mannerism's. Lots of other guys were always coming up to them and chatting while they waited for their drink. I made a comment on how easy it was for a women to be approached by men, but not really vise-versa! He commented to me in a softer voice that it's because women wear makeup, smell good and really look good. i thought about his comment and then i added that their lingerie too might have something to do with it too. He chuckled about the two ladies, one wearing a dress and the other a skirt and blouse. Both were lower cut and made them quite attractive and sexy. i thought about what kind of bras they were wearing as well as to what other lingerie. AT this point our conversation was all about women's lingerie and how silky, lacy and how smooth if felt. I ask him if he ever wore lingerie and he answered back slowly that he has on occasion. I told him that i have also and really enjoyed it. WE both smiled at each other and went on with our drinks. Our table became open and we asked them if they cared to join us for dinner. The four of us had a great evening and exchanged phone numbers and e-mails. We all went out together numerous times. All being retire the wife's went shopping together while us guys found for a bar for a drink.

numerous times our conversation returned to lingerie and we decided to get together and cross-dress for each other. A few days later we met, undressed in front of each other and proceeded to dress up in our lingerie for each other. I t was wild to say the least! The civid-19 thing started to get worse in April and all both decided to stay safe. We chat on the phones or e-mails, but i know that i'm interest in getting back together.

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I love doing it. I like to wear a men's work uniform like a janitor or a mechanics. Have a beer and a cigar. Dress some sissies up. Bring my dinner and get me another beer and light my damn cigar

Forced and put in bloomer panty at 11 y.o. by aunt when caught in her lingerie drawer. Bloomers were bright banana yellow silks and was punished by wearing them around house for her satisfaction until told several hours later I could remove them but was also spanked prior to their removal across her seated lap with p army down just below bottom butt cheeks.

I was given the choice of these disciplines or it was to be reported to my parents so I chose my punishments by her. This definitely led to my panty fetish even more so than it was previously at that point. Very memorable experience even 56 years later. Fretter

For me, "forced feminization" is sort of a misnomer? Most of the stuff i read here is guys fantasies of being feminized, not something that is "forced" on us.

Yes, agree, feel the same way. It's all role playing..

One of the most tantalizing things to be forced into.

Feminization or just being forced into a crossdressing scenario including regression sets me off. I have outfits in my closet that fall right into this kink. Short pleated plaid skirt with white cotton blouse and yes thick punitive diapers and plastic pants. My roommates added a pair of white tights and Mary Jane shoes to my outfit. The tights added a little more control to the diapers and made them so much more visible below the hem of the plaid skirt. As I walk it makes it look like I have made a large deposit in the seat of my diapers. Oh yes one other item they have added, a pacifier gag with an oversized nipple that fills my mouth. All I can do to not make sucking sounds on that pacifier nipple.

Diaper changes are a snap with only having to lift my skirt and slide the plastic pants and tights down. Imagine the embarrassment of having your skirt lifted and being diaper changed like a toddler.

My upper floor deck wraps around the front of my house. I like spending time out there dressed like this. I have had neighbors ask if I have a new roommate living with me. If they only knew the full story they probably would never talk to me again.🤞

I have no special fantasy about forced feminization though I enjoyed one ex-girlfriend's kink, which was to make me wear black stockings while we have sex. She was very aroused by it and me too, without feeling being feminized at all.

I don't know if she had the secret desire of being more taken by a lesbian girl, or to make me more androgynous as a male or else.

If I'll meet her today, I would like to experiment more into a kind of “forced” bisexuality, without necessarily being “forced” feminized.

If I'll meet her today, I would like to experiment more into a kind of “forced” bisexuality, without necessarily being “forced” feminized.

From reading and all, I wonder if the ‘forced’ part of the practice isn't more of an excuse used by men to rationalize/cover up their innate desires. If they are ‘forced’ into feminization, then it isn't really their fault is it? They can attach the onus onto someone else and yet still enjoy the experience. Which, deep down they mostly do long for. I really can not conceive of any situation where being forcefully feminized would last long. The male either truly wants it to happen and enjoys it in some way and then goes along. Or he doesn't and that is that.

It is somewhat akin to ladies having ‘rape’ fantasies. In those kind of scenarios they can end up having sex but then shift the perceived ‘blame’ onto someone else.

@agracier Yes - agree that it's all an excuse… I liked what you said…

@agracier I agree with your first statement, however, watch out for your last statement “It is somewhat akin to ladies having ‘rape’ fantasies. In those kind of scenarios they can end up having sex but then shift the perceived ‘blame’ onto someone else.”

Yikes! the pen is mightier than the sword! I've read many of your comments and I know you mean well, so I hope that statement does not get misconstrued.

The closest I have come was a gf who tell me what to under dress in when we went out or I went to her place. She would also often want me to have eye make up on too.

Yes i miss her

The closest that I have come to being feminized is one time when a girlfriend and her older sister made me put on a pair of pink panties and a pink bra that had the cups stuffed with cotton so it would look as if I had female breasts. The cotton was arranged so that you could hardly see it and all you could tell was that it looked like I had breasts like a female. They made me stay that way for a full three hours as they teased me about. I did wear a dress once for a hallaween costume. I was fully dressed a woman and my wife was fully dressed as a man.

I don't know about really being forced as something a kin to having a gun to your head. My husband has for as long as he can remember back always been raised as a girl, in a boys body. He was home schooled till his senior year in high school. Then he was sent to his grandmother's home for high school. He knew everyone in that school thought he was gay, queer, or something.

He went to college and after the first year he did 90% online. He had to test out each grade in home school and he was able to beat all other students by a big margin. But he wore panties and his clothes buttoned on the wrong side for a boy. He never realized he was forced. Just that was the way he had to be.

Now he is feminine almost all the time. I think he is happy. But I know he has no idea why.

@Nancy 2021

… his clothes buttoned on the wrong side for a boy.

is there a right side and a wrong side? I doubt that I would ever notice such a thing. I've certainly not noticed it before.

YES

YES

And it’s why while wearing a sports bra, panties, women’s (my) shorts and women’s (my) Vans in public I wear a T-shirt.

Women‘s blouses and coats button opposite of a mans. Most won’t notice but in my own town in public I “blend” gender lines. In other cities or places I can fully be me.

is there a right side and a wrong side? I doubt that I would ever notice such a thing. I've certainly noticed it before.

Women's clothes usually have buttons on the left side. Look at clotges the next time you are out in public.

Though with gender lines blurring and being removed, past rules may not apply to modern clothing designers and creators.

is there a right side and a wrong side? I doubt that I would ever notice such a thing. I've certainly not noticed it before.

@agracier

Look on your shirts or jackets, the buttons will almost certainly be on the right side. Look on a woman's coat, shirt, or blouse etc and the buttons will almost certainly be on the left. It's been like that for centuries, something to do with men drawing weapons with their right hand and women being dressed by their servants apparently…

I get turned on by the thought of fucking a guy who has never been fucked before but wants to be fucked like a bitch. his mistress calling me in to fuck him stupid. showing him what it feels like for a man to use his asshole like a women's pussy!

i often watch femdom movies like that. another thing that gives me the horn is coming in a mans face and humiliating him. giving him a cum facial against his will.

Is there a right side and a wrong side? I doubt that I would ever notice such a thing. I've certainly not noticed it before.

I always thought there was a reason for right or left button side.

Whatever hand you use to button or unbutton, you would feel natural using that same hand on the clothes of the opposite sex.

Make sense?

My wife started me one evening by asking me how would you like to get in my panties? Well that was a no brainer until we got to the bedroom and she slid her panties off and said here they are put them on if you want some sex. Needless to say the sex was fantastic and laying there she said you were so sexy and liked be in panties i think I’m going to get you some of your own. In no time she had me my own pantie drawer. Then she said I have a surprise for you tonight and when I went to the bedroom she had laid out on the bed a babydoll nightie and said you are going to look so sexy in this and you will love it. I said I’m Not wearing that and she said please for me, you already wear panties and it’s just a pair of panties with a cute top. Well the Genie is out of the bottle now and boy has my life change.

A few times, usually with a latex or heavy rubber vibe. It's not something I'd consider in public - maybe at a fetish event with a hood/mask - but not around the vanilla world. It's quite the experience to go fully Fem in rubber… heavy breasts, a fem mask, tight corset, heels, etc. Opens the mind definitely.

I've dressed Fem in normal clothes privately only a few times. Doesn't do much for me… I need the forced nature of the rubber experience and a pro Dom pulling on the laces, so to speak. Then of course, being pegged… pushed to the limit or beyond.

My ultimate fantasy would be to be fully suited up, masked, fully plugged and have to take alcoholic drinks through an enema arrangement at an event.

I don't think I was forced into feminisation. I think my wife , well my girlfriend at the time brought out the inner me. My background might have helped. My mother was a dominant figure in my life , my sister a year younger then me was always put incharge when Mom was not around. Mom said girls were more mature. No father around for a role model, he left, my mother blamed all men for my father's actions.

I had a panties fetish from about 10 years old. I mean I had no idea about sex, or why I felt so good when I sneaked a pair of my mothers panties out of the hamper , and wore them.

So when I met my wife she didn't have to push me to heard to wear panties, to shave my legs and underarms. To try on dresses.

Then one night she as m Ed me to do her a big favor. She told me she had a gay friend who went through a bad break up. She asked me to spend his birthday with him. She said she wanted me to please him, like she pleases me. She asked me to be brave . I did, I came home the next day a girl .

I was working a lot in Japan in the early 90's and had a Japanese girlfriend. One day while staying at her friends apartment in Fukuoka she was playing with my face and hair then posed a question of weather I would let her make me up to be a girl. I responded with yes she can do what she wants to make me up to be a girl. Wow her reaction was of pure joy and excitement. Well we never had the chance to satisfy her request. This sparked a kink in me of something like this really happening again. I really don't feel the need or burning desire to pursue this feminizing on my own. What I would like to see is a woman getting excited and really turned on by making me up to be feminized. Who knows the aftereffects might get me all excited.