It's been years since my last post and my perspective has changed a lot since then. The words or phrases is quite extensive so I'll try to refrain from creating a list and focus more on what these phrases and vocabulary really mean to me.
Getting down to it one major aspect to keep in mind, as far as, how to handle a big toddler like me. Is I'm an adult who loves being treated (some times against my will) as though I actually were a toddler or little boy; who is in need of a woman's firm caring hand behind my bottom. Focusing on words or phrases that put me into that submissive little space is the best way to control me without to much of a fuss. I love/hate it when I'm constantly reminded that while I may be an adult deep down she and I both know that I'm still a little toddler/boy who needs discipline and care. The diapers play a huge part in how my mind has bonded them with the sense of care and dominance I have come to love.
Care in the sense that my caregiver is fully in charge of my well being. She knows what is best for me even if I can not see it. Her firm hand is forever guiding and molding me.
Eamples: "This is why you need diapers!", "I think you need much thicker diapers since you as such a big baby.", "Sweetie you just can't be trusted to be out of diapers! There is nothing that will change my mind on that. You'll just have to deal with it.", etc.
Dominance in the sense that my caregiver has the absolute authority over me, to control me how she needs to in order to correct my behavior or even change my view point to help with my care.
Eamples: "If you keep fussing I'll give you something to fuss about!", "Do I hear complaining?", "Are you arguing with me?", "You still just a naughty toddler/boy who needs a strong woman figure in your life." "I'm going to spank you because I feel you need it.", "Young man the adults are talking!", etc.
There is just far to many combinations that can be used to put me in my place! The general idea is to keep me under control with minimal effort. Just by saying the correct words and phrases one can have me whimpering with my head down in seconds. There is also the level of respect that needs to be maintained to. Treat me like shit and I'll treat you just the same. Treat me with respect (while also maintaining a level of authority over me) and I'll show respect back. It's not just the knowing I'll be punished it's also the respect I have for my caregivers that gives them the freedom to control me as needed.
But that is just my understanding of the power of words and phrases as far as how a person can take control over me with minimal effort. Just keep in mind this doesn't mean anyone can do it. If I have no wish to partake then there is nothing you can do to change that. I got lengthy again! I'm sorry, I tried to make it short honest! Well I guess if you can't explain something then it's not really that important now is it? Thank you for taking the time to read!