Do we like to be in control or be controlled?

If you had a choice of being the AB or being a daddy, or dom, what do you like?

I'd definitely prefer to be an AB...in fact, it kinda happens naturally whenever anyone dominant (even if they are younger than me) starts treating me that way...it just triggers that AB inside me. 😉

Either way i guess for me. i lean more twoards submissive but i do have a dominant side also

I would say it's about the same for me, as Mamasboy said. I could like both.

I too am a lot like Mamasboy. I have a dominant side but also have times when I wish I had a woman to dominate me.

My gf makes all the decisions on when we have an ab session. and she is always the boss, never the baby. This can get extremely embarrassing, depending on the circumstances. But if i complain, she checks that i am excited, and if i don't stop complaining things just get worse. So i don't "like" to be controlled, but i have come to love it.

I like both fantasies.. but I've never found a real partner in this (either way). My last gf used to diaper me, but I had always the feeling, that she didn't really like it. What a shame! It could be such a cool game!

I like both but I prefer to dominate rather than to be dominated.

I am to be controlled. I want her to diaper me and make me dress like a baby and then embarrass me any way she sees fit . thats my game I would love to have this happen to me some day before I get to the age where most people would say , " That poor old man has to wear Depends, If I get that old just shoot me. "

I allways want to be controlled...when i get changed and fed .When its time to wake up ,when its time to put on my Lil girl dress..i love to be the passivise...

I'd like to be the naughty impossible to potty train toddler but in fairness I'd also would like to be a daddy to naughty baby girl

Well me personally i am a bit of a primarily Dominant switch, i only feel comfortable acting as a submissive to certain ppl, and they have an aura about them that makes me feel comfortable quickly with them. If you read this and you want someone to Private message with and tell you what to do, i have quite a bit of experience as a Mistress dealling with AB/DLs.

I would be both

I think being diapered or being put in diapers is empowering for your self and for the person doing the diapering. The liberating feeling of doing what you want, when you want plus the pure pleasure of just doing it. For the diapering person its the controlling connection and they know that they have your total attention, trust and love during the process.

I'd prefer to be the baby. In all my fantasies and stories, I don't think I've ever portrayed myself as the daddy. So I think I lean submissive, because it's usually me in a little brother/big sister relationship, or a kid/babysitter kinda thing.

Definitely the daddy or dom. I absolutely love caring for girls

I like to be forced to do stuff period i am that type of guy who lets girls control me they can do what ever they want to me because i like it very much because it makes me feel pain that reminds me that i am human like all of you so i treat people better.

It depends on if it was a boy or girl controlling me.

Oh a diaper wearing AB for sure. Isn't that why we wear diapers - to give up control? i have enough responsibility in the real world.

Depends on my mood really, I think id really prefer to switch depending on me and my partner's wishes...

Although, Id probably wear Diapers even while going Dom, lol...

I would like to be controlled I'm almost always willing to try some thing new 😃

Diapered sub, baby, bottom whatever the role is that is controlled.

Typically I wish to be in control. Those particulars that I fancy and practice upon myself are all things I would prefer to be doing to another, "subject' as it were. Understanding the sensations and head space from the receiving end only makes it that much more erotic when performed upon someone else.

That being said, I also imagine that playing the bottom role could be fulfilling as well. Although, I feel that my stipulations are much more rigid in that if I'm not convinced of their power over me (the dominant-whomever it may be), I'm not going to be able to play along. So realistically, it would have to be someone who didn't require coaching as to what to do, otherwise the appeal is gone.

Defiantly be dominated.... You get many benefits... hehe

I've always wanted to be the AB, to be controlled, etc. But as I get older, I sometimes see the attraction of filling the daddy/dom role for someone else.

I enjoy diapers but don't really have the desire to be babied. However, not really having the desire to be babied doesn't mean that I'm opposed to it. If the right woman wanted to baby me, I'd definitely go for it. The same could be said about other fetishes as well. My preference would be some mutual diaper play, some wet diaper grinding and maybe some spankings for her but I'd be willing to cater to her fantasies if she'd cater to mine.

I am exclusively dominant. I came upon diapering to cement my authority quite by accident, but after several years of trial and error have found that it is Extremely Effective!

I always want to give up my control but sometimes doing what I want and actually giving up my control is hard. i need a good dominant woman to 'help' convince me 😁

I need to be controlled im just a bedwetting boy

I enjoy to be dominated but only to females I feel I can trust. I have been a master and a daddy (females only) before but I like being the baby more.

I like to be controled amd control the woman i with