Holding the cheeks open for enemas and anal activities

This sight is a turn-on for me, when my beautiful gal holds her bottom cheeks open for better access and my viewing pleasure. She is quite hairy but I accept this totally--it took a while and even turns me on now. What a waste of time and energy trying to change someone. Accept what you have.

Does anyone else like to see this? It seems to work best while your partner is on all fours.

Perhaps pillows could be used to prevent a perilous predicament of positioning.

As for spanking, well, spanking and enemas go together like hot dogs and mustard. Wait, doesn't spanking go with everything? And a pat on the plump cheeks should be preceded by the portent of punishment.

Having a man 'make' me get an enema, somewhat restrained, is what I love most, too; but two men - that's really exciting for me to think about!

One of the best views in the world is to spread the cheeks and watch the lubed nozzle slide in and out of the waiting hole.It makes it even more erotic to see a few drops of water seep out around the nozzle.

Cheeks can be held open indefinitely with just a small amount of duct tape going from the inside of the cheek to the outside.

Duct tape, huh? What next--are you going to tell us to use WD-40 for lube? 😁 You would HAVE to call that a MAINE enema. To those not familiar with Maine humor, duct tape and WD-40 is the answer to several questions and the punch line for many Maine jokes.

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Cheeks can be held open indefinitely with just a small amount of duct tape going from the inside of the cheek to the outside.

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Wow! Make sure you get a bikini wax before trying that. No sense in getting all medieval about it. 😃

I like it when a man lies on his back; a pillow under his hips, his legs spread and his knees bent and towards his chest (he can support them on me if he needs to.) That way I can get up close and personal with his genitals and his tush. I love being all up in the pink. Maybe it has something to do with his vulnerability in that position. Just thinking about it gets me hot and bothered.

Yeah

That's the way to do it - on all fours. Alas - sometimes I forget to fill her up - instead I rimm her or eat her out.

But in the end :😃 she will demand her rights - a jolly good enema of tepid water, table salt and some glycerin. And if it is the evenings first - then I'll ad some scented soupsuds. It smelles betetr than shit.

And believe me

she'll return the graces, when she has voided as I suck her tits

I use cloth medical tape... it's a little easier to remove.

When giving an enema I like using positions that naturally spread the cheeks my favorites are knee - chest or knees and elbows on laying the back with legs up and knees flexed. I you have a third person they can help by hold the feet up and and rubbing the soles as the water flows in.

Have use duct tape on many things, butt never on a woman's cute fanny. Spoils my view, plus ouch! when its ripped off sticky glue too

I love being ordered to hold my cheeks open. My ex boyfriend would make me reach back and seperate my cheeks for him while he probbed me. Then he'd yell at me to relax. As if! It was humilating to know that I was so exposed to him and that I was doing it myself.

Of course, I was across his lap, not on all 4s. I can see where that could get painful in a nonerotic way.

I love to see the exposed anus as I insert the nozzle. It turns me all the way on!

I love to make my girl hold her cheeks wide open as I spend a very long time lubing and goosing her, She loves this and it makes her crave much more.

The first time a boyfriend made me hold my ass cheeks open for him was an absolutely huge turn-on. After that, he always made me spread my ass for him while leaning onto the bed so he had better access to fuck me in the ass.

Yes, tape work wonderful for this, but I prefer the white medical tape to duct tape. It's too utilitarian. It does come in some wild colors not though.....

Hard to imagine that anyone would NOT like this! 😃

I've heard of the butt being compared to the 'seat of understanding'. The experience of 'holding the cheeks open' definitely prepares the mind for what is to come.

I love the sight of a woman holding her cheeks apart.

Yes wet pablo ...i agree with everything said so far....but the best thing is when u have 2 or 3 girls spreading their cheeks apart for u at the same time!

I want my ass cheeks spread far and wide, would love to have my anus exposed, i have been looking for a ass cheek spreader but no where to be found, just anus spreader, i seen posts where they use duct tape, i am going to do that, i am getting excited just thinking about it, would love to have anal sex but cant find the right partner as i perfer being fucked in the asshole>

I want my ass cheeks spread far and wide, would love to have my anus exposed, i have been looking for a ass cheek spreader but no where to be found, just anus spreader, i seen posts where they use duct tape, i am going to do that, i am getting excited just thinking about it, would love to have anal sex but cant find the right partner as i perfer being fucked in the asshole>

@gail I’m SURE you can find a partner, but for spreading the cheeks, duct tape might leave glue and pull on/out hair. The blue painters tape works very well and will be easier to remove. I once spread my subs cheeks with it and it perfectly made her asshole exposed and easier to penetrate and photograph!

I want my ass cheeks spread far and wide, would love to have my anus exposed, i have been looking for a ass cheek spreader but no where to be found, just anus spreader, i seen posts where they use duct tape, i am going to do that, i am getting excited just thinking about it, would love to have anal sex but cant find the right partner as i perfer being fucked in the asshole>

I would love to hold your cheeks wide opened, while doctor (you pick male or female) slides proctoscope deep down into your rectum and explores your cavity.

You can't really hold your cheeks open when you self administer.

Using knee-chest position I DO pay attention to how far apart my knees are. Too far, it's hard to stay in position, too close and it's hard to insert anything.

In Simms, it's easier all around if you can get that right knee as close to your breast as possible, and the left knee at a 90-degree angle

Moms, mine included, knew the diapering position is best for opening up the rectal area without resistance.

One of the hottest videos I ever saw was "Madam X" from the Collector. There is a point where the curvy mature redhead being enema'ed is laying face down on a bed. She reaches back and spreads her cheeks wide, submissively waiting for a slow nozzle insertion. Used to take me over the edge ever time.

I am always pleased to reach behind and spread for a woman. Hasn't happened but for imagination for a long time but one can hope.

Holding your cheeks open for another is very exciting. Similarly, seeing another do this for you is exciting too!

Buttock-spreading can be used by enema partners or in a sub/dom relationship.

The correct self-spreading technique can be taught (45 degrees up and out). It can be adopted in naked corner-time, and a sub can be instructed to spread when walking (though some slippy clothes make it tricky).

At meal times, spreading should be performed when one sits down, and sitting will keep the spread. And smile! Your partner will love to know that you are spread out.

As I matured when it was ' enema time ' with my mom we both became more engaged as to interaction with my enema . I always wanted to ' help ' even as the receptor at any juncture of the enema I could . I recall when all was ready and I assumed the ' left side Sims position ' , on the bathroom floor or on her bed , I would reach back to my hips and with my right hand slowly raise my right buttock to make my anus most visible for mom to make her gentle , slow insertion of the enema syringe rectal pipe . Later , when we did the ' rinse enema ' I assumed a ' knee chest position ' over the rim of the bathtub or on the bathroom floor where I could separate my buttocks with both hands thus presenting for full display my anus for my warm water fill . In both positions as per above ' holding the cheeks open ' worked for both of us as we began our enema journey of the day and over time heightened a growing erotic enhancement for me .