I actually don't have a preference. But after having exams with both, I prefer a male, it's just a bit more exciting I guess... and I feel like that the male doctors are more gentle (just my personal opinion). And having a male as a doctor just gives me this feeling of secureness and being taken care of... don't really know why though. Maybe it was just because the female doctor I had was a bit rough and really fast with the exam, she didn't really bother to talk me trhough it or explain anything... felt kind of rushed through the exam
I've always been used to being examined by a male doctor. I think that it is more to do with the person than gender.I would prefer to be examined without an assistant. If there is one then it would be female because of my gender.
Hmmm I just lay back and focus on the sensations, so it really doesn't matter to me if its male or female. I'll have to think on that. When playing, definitely prefer male, but wouldn't mind having a female assistant.
When I first started having pelvic exams at 14 years old (irregular menses issues), I was horrified at the thought of a male examining me, so always saw females. Then I had to have an ovarian cyst removed, and the only gyn surgeon was male. I was embarrassed, but also discovered that he was very gentle with me (I was still a virgin). As I got a little older, I've noticed that a lot of female practitioners are not as empathetic and can be kind of rough during an exam. Therefore, I now prefer males, although I don't always get an option when I'm using military/VA healthcare. As far as the assistant goes, I prefer a female assistant, but don't always feel that having one in the room is necessary, although I understand why they are there.
My wife prefers Male gynecologists. She has said that male gynecologist are more gentile. She also said that she prefers a man touching her over a woman. Honestly, the second reason in more telling, as I think she likes spreading and be touched by a guy other than me at the guise of medicine. I'm fine with that, I think it's erotic anyway. No assistants please, that ruins the eroticism.
My wife prefers male gynecologists. She also says male gynecologists are more gentle and doesn't like being touched by women. Whatever the reason, the sex is good after the exam. So, I prefer her go to male gynecologists too.
Both my daughters use my gynecologist who is male. It just worked out that way. They could switch of they really wanted to, but my older daughter is in NYC, which is where my gynecologist is located, so it is convenient for her and my younger one has only gone once.
I talk and escort my wife often as i can to her gyn exam. Only 2 times she had female doctor and change agein back to male doctor. Told me male doctor more gentle as female doctors.
I do .Much more thorough with the exam. Better bedside manner and generally more caring and less rough than females.
Male doctors are the only men who've ever seen my vulva/vagina/anus. And they're the only men who've seen/felt my boobs. There's something exciting about that...
My reasons ; They most definitely have a better bedside manner .They are more thorough in their exams .When examining they seem to use a caring approach . Wherever I can and when I have the choice I will always choose a male doctor.Female doctors tend to be rougher in their approach especially when it comes to woman's issues.
I agree the Lady Doctors I have had examine me tended to be a bit rougher. Male doctors though seem to treat with more respect...The most uncomfortable internal I ever had was a lady doctor who used no lube that I felt on the speculum...and didn't bother to warm it.
To me it doesn't matter if the doctor is male or female, I've always had female doctors do exams on me but now I have a male gynecologist that tied my tubes, I feel really comfortable with him because he's really nice and friendly and he always goes out of his way to make sure he isn't hurting me and that I'm comfortable during my appointments with him, my best friend told me she prefers male gynecologists because their more gentle with her than the female gynecologists, she's had some bad/painful experiences with female gynecologists
They are easier to talk to, don't judge and I have always been more comfortable with male doctors. Nothing sexually motivated, just my preference.
When you have called to schedule an appointment with an OB/GYN group and do not request a specific doctor, do they inquire as to whether you would rather see a male or a female. Or, do they simply assign you to a doctor (which I imagine is based on list of the physicians in the group who are seeing new patients). Just curious. Thanks.
First and foremost, I choose the physician who is best skilled for my health and well being. I would not turn down a medical professional based on sex if the one best suited is not my personal preference. That would be irresponsible and stupid for me to do.I happen to prefer a medical professional to be male, including the physician, PA, NP, nurse, MA, CNA, tech, assistant, dentist etc. You get the idea.Why? I just do. It has nothing to do with kink or sexual orientation.Just my humble personal opinion.Andie
Ladies,For those of you who go to and/or prefer male gynecologists, do you ever wonder about what motivates guy to become a gynecologist?I'm sure many male gynecologists are professional who are gentle and have a good bedside manner but, as a male, it is hard for me to believe that men go into gynecology without being motivated (at least in part) by sexual gratification.
I usually pursue the doctor I want, think is the best, and one I think will be the best fit. That said I've not found a good woman doc in my area and really prefer a man ( yes, that part has probably got to do with sexual preference for me). I would go to good woman however. I'm finding someone new now ( new insurance) and will keep U posted.
My wife has seen a male gynecologist for a few years now and has said she prefers his bedside manner and gentle demeanor. She had a less than pleasant experience with a previous female doctor being too rough.
I have always had female doctors. I would not feel comfortable being open in front of a male doctor. Both of the doctors I have had were GP's but also did OB/GYN and peds. Both have nurses in with them. They hand them things they ask for and record certain things. My first doctor was sweet. I grew up seeing her. She would never give us shots, only her nurses. She said she did not want the kids afraid of her.
Had a male pediatrician, currently have a female GP, and a male OB/GYN.I think the males have a better bedside manner, but all personal current practitioners are absolutely fantastic at their respective specialities. Had one negative experience with a female OB/GYN, and never went back. Her bedside manner was atrocious, so I just didn't go back.I guess that's the bottom line, doesn't matter their gender, as long as they're awesome at what they practice. 😃
I've gone back and forth on this and still not sure if I have a real preference overall. Bottom line is regardless of gender, the doctor has to be good, caring, listen and take interest in me and my concerns and competent at what they do, that is first and foremost before gender.I currently have a male gynecologist, but have had male and female gyno's, and also recently switched to a male internist after seeing two different female family practice doctors for many years. Right now I do prefer a male gynecologist, as my experiences have been better bed side manner and definitely more gentle during my exam. I also think it has something to do with the first gynecologist I saw was a male. While I hated it then, it's not a big deal now. And from the fantasy side of it, definitely adds an erotic element for me.
Jill, you always have the most insightful and honest answers. Thank you for sharing this part of your life with us.
I have always had a female GYN doctor. I feel so much more relaxed with her rather than with a male Dr. Maybe because I'm a lesbian has something to do with it.....smiles.
I have had both, and I have had both make errors that have seriously impacted my life. Currently I have a female that is in a practice an hour and forty minutes away because she not only offers and is experienced in the services I need for my health, but she was willing to talk with me and answer a few questions to make sure she was the right Dr for me. I do not care if they are male or female, what I care about is how much they care about my health as a person under the care of their practice. My ideal Dr for comfort would be an older male with no assistant like it used to be, but it will never happen. I am learning to be comfortable with the new Dr and having her listen to me when I speak makes all the difference in the world.