Who prefers male gynecologists and why?

I have had both and prefer a male. I have many gay friends and family members and I'm perfectly OK with it. Whatever they want to do in their bedroom is fine as long as they don't push their preferences on me. That being said, lesbianism is exactly the opposite of my preferences!!! With a woman gyno, there is a difference I can't explain, I just feel it in their bearing, manner, touch or something that makes me uncomfortable. (Maybe this is why your wife can't explain it to you.) Several times I have felt this only to find out, later, they were lesbians. Even though the gyno exam isn't erotic in nature, your sexual organs are being spread and examined most intimately! Just knowing that a woman was doing it creepped me out because, to me, it feels so unnatural.

It was very interesting reading the previous 2 posts and how experiences can lead to very different preferences. As I've posted before, I've received intimate exams from both male and female doctors. The quality of care and examining technique of both genders in my experiences were equally professional. The main difference is that I feel like I have to be more on my guard when being examined by a female because I want to avoid any iota of impropriety or unnecessary exposure. I think this caution causes an even stronger awareness of the nudity and physical touching since I'm focused on both the doctor and myself. With a male doctor I simply don't feel like I need to be cautious regarding my disrobing and my nudity.

I really don't have a preference either way. As long as the doctor is gentle, through and does everything well without making any mistakes for me the sex of the doctor really isn't important.

I would definitely prefer a male doctor, though I'm not quite sure why. I just feel funny about having another woman looking at and touching me in such intimate places.

I feel like that sounds very homophobic, and I really don't intend for it to 😕 It's just what I feel comfortable with in myself, I guess.

You need not justify why, it is your body and your preference. Whatever it takes to make you comfortable and feeling like you are getting good care.

I agree with most women a male gynecologist is more sensitive to a woman than a female, they seem to have a better bedside manner than a female. I have had both female and male but prefer having a male gynecologist to a female gyn in fact I now have a male gyn and have been his patient for quite sometime. 😃

My wife has a similar experience can find the experience quite uncomfortable

I have seen 3 different male gynecologists and 1 female. I did not find the female nearly as caring, gentle, or concerned about bedside manner as any of the male gynecologists. Though it may have simply been my luck of the draw, I have stuck with male gynecologists ever since.

I have gone to a female gynecologist for a very long time. It’s fine and there are no problems. But I can’t say it’s enjoyable in any way. However, when I think of the possibility of switching to a male doctor, it immediately becomes sexual for me. (Please don’t judge.) I don’t mean to feel this way.

So while I’m tempted to switch for the excitement factor, it’s probably for the best that I stick with a female.

I prefer male. I’m a BBW so I usually feel less self conscious in front of a male doctor. Also they tend to be more dominant and less gentle.

Males are more gentle and caring. When seeing male doctors by state law have to have female present. So females cannot come back a get the doctor in trouble.

@Firegirl911 said

Males are more gentle and caring. When seeing male doctors by state law have to have female present. So females cannot come back a get the doctor in trouble.

@Speculum_Lover said

I prefer male. I’m a BBW so I usually feel less self conscious in front of a male doctor. Also they tend to be more dominant and less gentle.

OBVIOUSLY there are no accurate generalizations on this and some are more gentle than women and others are not.

Why does your obesity make you less self conscious in front of a male than a female doctor?

I prefer male gynos, they are so much more gentler. I love the feeling of a good doctor spreading my labia and inserting the speculum on an angle, rotating it and examining my cervix. Its so hot when they get a good view of my cervical os area

I didn't get to choose my gynecologists. I had only men until I was in my 30s so it became the norm. I've been fortunate. I've never felt uncomfortable with any gynecologists. Now I've decided that it doesn't matter.

I like a male gynocologist… its my naughty self who enjoys the thought that maybe just maybe he'd do something naughty