How did you discover that you were a AB?

So, I know that I am a DL, but I'm confused as to whether or not I'm a AB. How did you figure it out?

Don't worry about labels to much Princess. Be what you want to be, and do what you want to do. But, to put it simply a DL, Diaper Lover is someone who just enjoys wearing their diapers and not much else. If you are and AB, Adult Baby you enjoy wearing baby clothes, acting like a baby, being treated as such, maybe talking like a baby. In general doing things a baby would do and using stuff baby would. Sometimes it's as simple as just wanting to feel like a baby, you might be wearing just your diaper, but feel like a baby. You don't have to use all the things I mentioned to be an AB either. And on the same note some DL's like things like pacifiers, but not he whole baby thing. Hope that helps clear things up for you? Now, weather you're an AB or DL, go have some fun! 😄

Uhhhh probably when i was a dl and started roleplaying more and thought i could do this 24/7

I guess it just sort of followed. I loved wearing diapers at first and almost the same time I felt that being a baby would make wearing diapers alright. And if I were a baby then I could wear diapers in front of every one with out worry of how old I was.

Besides being an adult baby is the only way cause I haven't figured out how to cross the time continuum to get back to when I was 3.

I just knew, got the feeling that I wanted to wear diapers then I wanted a something a little more, I just liked feeling little using whatever makes me feel little, pacifier, bottle, teddy... Having my bf/daddy change me...

If you dont wanna do things like that then your most likely DL. 😃

I dont know ive just for some reason loved baby diapers all my life. no idea why really.

For as long as I can remember, I wanted to be like a baby. I started having "accidents" in my pants again before I was 8 years old. It wasn't diapers, but I knew toddlers had accidents in training pants, so I pretended I was wearing those. At first I got caught when I had my accidents and even spent part of the summer (age 9) in diapers as punishment for getting caught pooping in my pants. As I grew older my accidents continued, but by then both of my parents worked evenings and I got better at hiding my activities. I also got my first diapers and waterproof pants.It was also around my late teens when I bought myself a baby bottle and pacifier. All of this was long before PCs came along, and to quote DPF, "I thought I was the only one" with these feelings. Of course, logically, I figured there just had to be others. When I first discovered Forum magazine and some of its more out there cousins like Variations, I started to read about other people that liked to wear and use diapers. When I got my first computer and went on the internet for the first time, I searched for "Adult Baby" and a whole new world opened for me. Of course the first thing I found was DPF. After that I found others including Bittergrey,s Den and I learned that I was an Adult Baby

As you i was confuised whether i was a diaper lover or an ab,

i still think of myself as a dl even if i like the whole idea of being babied, my girlfriend thonks its horny the diaper wearing bit, ive tried the baby routine a few times and she seems ok with it, i dont think i can go the full regesstion its just a bit of fun every now and then. i would stay a dl.

I have always loved diapers but I didn't know this whole thing existed until one day when I was watching Law and Order (a t.v show) and they had a suspect who had a nursery and they mentioned AB.

Just do what feels good and enjoy! labels dont mean a thing!

It was when I first stated masturbating. I would hump my tighty-whities on my bed. I remeber watching pampers and curity diapers (Endorsed by Juliet Mills from Nanny and the Professor)with the baby crawing on the floor wearing only a disposable curity diaper. A voice over in a babish voice " If diapers are to keep me dry. Here's the brand you ought to try. Later in my senior year of high school, i bought a box of Huggies and taped 4 together to form a diaper to fit me. a week or two after this i learned of Adult diapers. while at ahospital suppy store. They were the thin flat old hour glass pAPMPERS STYLE

Nice story Diaperlanes, thanks for sharing it with us here. I'm sorry you lost your bf baby. But, there are plenty of cute big babies out there! Hope you find the right one for you. 😉 I gave you some karma! Be good! 😁

I'm probably a toss up. It just depends on my mood, and the amount of stress throughout the day.

For as long as i can remember this has always been a part of my life. as a child of five or six i would sneek off with my baby nieces diapers and wear those. growing up i was a huge bedwetter, when i was 12 i started to buy my own from the store sneek home and so on. Then when i was 18 i was run over by a car to which hey my bedwetting started up again so i started buying again and wearing as often as possiable. here i am 26 years old and having to wear 24/7.

I first realised my desire of the dl/ab life when i was about 10. i would steal diapers from school and froma friends house. i likes how they looked and how they felt now i cant find them like that anymore and i cant afford mayso i switched to cloth diapers. it makes me feel good to be in them.

For me I'd have to say 16 thats about wen I can to a realization about everything. It gos into a personal topic for me but lets just say I never had a mom so now I'm looking for one.

Since i tried on one of my little brothers diapers

I've had this fetish for as long as I can remember... I like to tell people... ever since I was potty trained ;-).

I had a mix of fantasies, one was S&M, the other was ABDL. Needless to say, when they all came together it was the perfect storm. I still remember when I finally got a hold of a Penthouse that had an add in the back for AB fetishists!! Suddenly I realized that I was not alone! There were others out there that also enjoyed this same kind of kink. I have come to realize that this is something that I will live with for my entire life.

AB or DL? I think if your an AB you actually want to be regressed to an age of infancy and to live the role of a baby... whereas someone who is a DL enjoys the idea of wearing diapers no matter what their age. I enjoy all aspects of it. But in my wildest dreams I would like to be an adult who is forced into diaper wearing/use by a femdom.

Always had urine trouble, very few times dry the whole day, until almost teen, but found I loved the warm feel of pee going into a diaper, than when put back in them as Adult I tried pooping and the feel of it exspanding the diaper out and smashing against my butt, OMG. I was in love

While talking to an online doctor about different treatments when diapers came up. The topic of forced infantilism which intrigued me. I tried solo with instructions I'm still pretty shy about it but feel better about it if I have less of a choice

For me it was after i didn't have to wear them for wetting the bed at night. back then we didn't call it adult baby you keep it to yourself. i dint understand it until later. i miss the feel of the diapers and plastic pants. i started having trouble sleeping worried about everything. until about a year later day i put them back on. sleep the night like a baby and yes wet myself. it was hard to be "baby" in our house my dad disapproved of me in more than one way, least was my immaturity.he would always go "grow up and act your age". ha ha i had the last laugh.

Probably about 12. Was very lonely... on tour with a group. I found some diapers and a safe place to lay down. The security and warmth of the diaper took over. I'm now 42 and just in the past two years I have started using the diapers for other then peeing. About 5 years ago I was into AB now so much

I'm definitely more DL than AB, but I do tend to talk to myself in a babying, soothing way when I am getting into my diaper. It feels kind of relaxing, kind of naughty to be acting that way, so I guess I do get turned on just the littlest bit.

I've always been an adult baby. I love being in diapers & plastic panties and wearing my baby clothes. It is who I am

I think I always wanted to be baby and for a whole bunch of different reasons: 1) That I was pushed by rather harsh potty training efforts and way too early and later as I read baby care and how to toilet train books and the effects of to harsh and too early potty training,I realized that my reaction of with holding and clinging to the diapers was understandable. 2) That 21/2 years later my first brother came along and I was jealous of the attention he was getting, 3) I just love the feel of wearing and wetting cloth diapers and plastic pants. 4) I saw how other mommies and young girls and babysitters would look at and bounce babies and toddlers on their knees and how they would pat the plastic pants and pull back the back of the diapers to check for poo and I decided that I wanted that.Also I was very shy when it came to girls and I guess I thought that girls would like me more and think that I was cuter in thick cloth diapers and pink.yellow or baby print plastic pants. 5) as I got older I found a book titled "Phsycosexual Infantalism" by Theodore Steckel, a student of Freud,who wrote that people into age regression were people that were babied and mothered too much(which I think is bullshit) and later found mags like Penthouse and Forum, and Variations and found that I was not alone in my wearing diapers,plastic pants and wanting to feel like a baby. Years later as I was passing a computer café I got curious and asked one of the workers how to use a computer,he showed me and when typed in Adult Babies a whole lot of AB/DL web sites appeared(seemed like thousands). After a few years went by and one by one they seem to disappear except for pay sited and at the time Diaper Dreams,which since then has become this site. When I first came upon this,I was just curious and looked at the few AB/Dl photos that were there, but if I wanted to see more I had to login and either respond to the topic that were here or add a new topic of my own and I also needed to pile up points in order to see all the photos. The thing is that the more I responded the friendlier everyone was so now I stay because I think this the best and AB/DL friendliest site on the net. So that I don't ruin anyone's' eyesight by reading anymore,I will leave you with my opinions of how I discovered that I was An AB and how I came to be on this fabulous site Bye Bye

Dot know how it started but was always interested in diapers.

I was always into diapers at an early age. but as i grew older the baby feeling kept growing & growing & couldn't explain Y i'm having these feelings . wasn't till the late 90's i was watching the springier show where a group of AB's was on. after seeing the show i knew i was 1 of them & thanks to the show made me get a PC & find out more. rest is history but learned to be happy what i am instead of being embarrassed

When I bought a size 5 pacifier, a onesie, want to wear a bib, drinking from a bottle, going to bed with a bottle, not a baby blanket but holding the brush I get spanked with under my pillow, getting excited when called a 2 year old or big baby & telling my wife YES I AM!

There's a lot of overlap between the two, and most of us are somewhere in the middle. But like anything else, you figure out what you like / dislike by trying various things.

When my wife and me had been together a year-old her her tits were such a big turn on and I fantasised drinking milky out of them. She supprized me months later by self inducing lactation. And it went from there

But my wife is the only person that can satisfy my need. I do use pacifiers and bottles on my own but she's the only one that can for-fill what I need.

I don't know what made me want and need this but I do and it's a huge turn on for me.