Who in your life knows of your enema fetish? Who have you told?

How many of us are still in or mostly in the closet about this special interest of ours? Does your spouse, lover, parent, sibling, friend, doctor, psychiatrist, or anyone else know you enjoy enemas? Back in the seventies I shared Penthouse Forum letters about enemas with my then new wife. I was lucky. She was adventuresome enough not to be turned off and accepts my fetish even including it in our sex play from time to time. Other then her, no one knows of this interest of mine. Much has changed since the seventies. What has been the experience of others on this forum? Who have you told! Cyklopps

My partner knows and also enjoys enemas and I have told just a very few select friends but otherwise keep my enema fetish very private.....

No one in my regular life knows but I am making a new set of friends who do.

I'm guilty of hanging out in the closet.

One guy knows of my spanking fetish, but no one knows about my love of enemas.

Well since my wife passed away I have been more open. In fact since I'm having surgery soon I have to keep cleaned out.

Joklingly I've said to many, "You really find out who your friends are when you need an enema!"

It gets humerous results.

boxcar

Only my wife knows. She sometimes gives them to me

dbl

Four ex girlfriends though only three i did it with.

Hardly anyone. Most of the folks I know are, well, "prudes" when it comes to avant-garde sexual practices. So I keep this one out of sight--except for a few folks whom I tell. Of course, if some of you friendly San Diegans were to write, and then...

Anyway.

It's a great question, and I'm sure quite revealing.

No one knows that I know in "real life". I am so far in the closet I hate to have enema equipment with me on the road because of the fear of getting in an accident, dying, and being found out ...

For many years I would not sleep or lay in the Simms position because I thought everyone knew it was for enemas... Probably deep psychological signs of problems...

Besides my husband, who's a member here as well, and another friend who's into bdsm there is no one I can physically talk to about enemas or any of our kinks. (Some in our family are very religious and wouldn't look to highly on our lusty love.) So it's best to only share with those friends here on the site and in the chat. That seems to be enough to be able to talk openly about it. Thank you for letting me have that place to be free.

For many years I would not sleep or lay in the Simms position because I thought everyone knew it was for enemas... Probably deep psychological signs of problems...

Yep. More likely it's a sign that you just don't know how to relax and let go of things, and let the winds carry you as they please. "Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar". I've been sleeping in the Simms position since before I knew it had a name, much less that it was associated with enemas. Besides, I'm sleeping, who's to judge how and where I sleep? That's awfully pedantic...

As far as who knows, only those that should and those that haven't told me they know, but know anyway. So pretty much just you guys and gals.

My wife knows but she does not care for them, she will not take or give them. I have three real close female friends.

In my case my wife (since then ex-wife) thought it was genuinely weird, and wanted nothing to do with it. My point is, my experience is that in some cases the subject may be better left alone--which is, of course, a sad comment.

My ex-husband knows. Also, two ex-boyfriends, and most of my close friends (I have a bad habit of leaving the bag out and I don't hide much about myself. I'm not a very private person.)

My mom keeps bringing it up from time to time (never as much as when I was pregnant), but I just can't bring myself to talk about them with her. Since we both get sexually excited by them, it just feels too much like incest.

Just my wife and she does not care for them. That is why this site and the people here are imporant to me. Here I can talk to and discuss with, all the people just like me.

My ex-wife knows. It took her awhile to try one bit once she did she was hooked also. I leave my bag and nozzle hanging from the shower head so any body using my bathroom know I use enemas. Some ask me about it others just keep it to themselves. I've told a few close friends, told one and found out that he and his wife enjoy enemas have had some great times together since then. I'm not ashamed that I like them so I'll tell who I want to.

My first wife, before she passed away from cancer, would give me enemas whenever I asked for them, and once even experimented with me, and let me give her one, but it wasn't her bag. Yuk, yuk! My second wife won't have anything to do with them, absolutely zero tolerance, and in addition, perceives them as a competitor with her. No amount of talking will change her, either. Although I told her about my need for enemas before we got married, I guess she just didn't bother to understand the seriousness of the issue, or my need for them.

Our marriage counselor has said that I'd never be rid of the need, and that sex counselors even recommend "kinks" as a way to help marriages. That said, I would never again marry a non-enema woman, but at 78, the opportunity is not likely to present itself!

A small circle of friends and colon therapists.

Willyum, does she realize that the enema is just part of the sexual experience (I used to think that I ranked second to the enemas, but now know different 😃 ). If she were there with you having sex, it would be like a vibrator for her(is that making sense?). It isn't what is totally stimulating you, but accessorizes the experience.

My wife knows I take enemas. She does not like giving them. So as a rule I do mine solo and give to her whenever she asks.

Otherwise the enema equipment is kept out of sight if we have company. The subject is never discussed with others. My only exception has been in chat forums like this one.

My partner knows about my love of enemas, although she doesnt share in the enjoyment of them as yet, but hopefully one day will

My wife knows, but will have nothing to do with them. She can't believe I am so constipated(Ha). Only the friends I have met on the internet.

Jagson

People that have someone to share enemas with are so very fortunate. I have never felt that I could let my secret out.

I told my wife that i enjoyed taking enemas for erotic reasons and even thou she chooses to not join in with me when im taking them im glad that i told her because it did bother me that for some yrs i hadent told her. anyway i come in here and im on yim as denis and ill chat with anybody about my use and enjoyement of enemas.

For the longest time I thought I was craxy never told anyone but being on line have mentioned it many times and gotten good results. I have told the guys that I go out with and to my suprise a few enjoy enemas but had never talked about it to anyone. If you don't ask you will never anyone into enemas

I have discussed enemas with all my boyfriends -- I want to see if they would be interested in having one. Some have been very interested. Others have just had small ones to clean out their rectums prior to ass play. And others have found the subject 'disgusting'. Other than that, I would never tell anyone else about this fetish.

Well,

You folks now know. But nobody except a couple of professional providers know about this particular proclivity.

It is just so hard to broach the subject for fear of being thought of as "perverted."

My wife knows and gives me enemas on rare occasions, but I have never shared this info with any of my friends or relations. I have, of course, shared with like-minded devotees on sites like this.

It all sounds so familiar. I'm retired now but when I used to be on the road, I had nothing better to do at night so I would set up something like you had. My wife wasn't into the anal stuff much but she knew that I was into enemas. I think I tried about everything, coca cola, beer, wine, small amounts of hard stuff.

I travel into foreign countries sometimes. They may go through your bags, in front of everyone, so I've been trying to think of a way to pack up some enema stuff discretely. I like the plastic bag idea, just bring along some hose. I always bring along tape, wire ties, etc. Once you have some tubing with you, you can figure about anyway to do it.

One night I ran down to the ocean, filled a soft drink bottle with sea water, it doesn't get any more natural than that.

Keep the ideas coming.

There is no need for me to keep my interest a secret from my wife, but as she has no interest (she did try for a while, but the pleasure was never there) I'm on my own.

Which all-in-all makes me feel that its secret, even if though it isn't.