Who in your life knows of your enema fetish? Who have you told?

Three. First my wife and lover Sirensong, who gives me tender, erotic, loving enemas (and I to her, but not as often as I would like to); second a supposed 'enema professional' in Boston whom I found on line, told Sirensong, and Sirensong took me the next time we were in Boston....... But Sirensong had to show her how to do it! And three, an unknown maid in a hotel who no doubt found the enema bag we left hanging in the bathroom.

Maybe: one person

Yes: another person, the Zity community

I do kind of worry that maybe someone or people know and I just don’t know they know.

Shouldn't matter @Allie80 unless your employment is endangered. We all have secrets and some of them are known to others and some are suspected but unless it affects our livelihood it doesn't matter because it's none of their business.

Another topic along a similar line . Only one of the threads speaks of knowing of one's fetish

I refer this topic highlighted below -

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Who Else Knows You Get Enemas ( Besides your Enemate)

My wife is so vanilla… she doesn't know. and I don't even know what her reaction would be. We have such a stable marriage, I don't want to rock the boat. I tried to work medfet into a conversation with a woman I was dating between wives 2 and 3 (current) but was ghosted almost immediately. She seemed to be somewhat daring in the conversations leading up to her leaving me. I remember our last conversation. She said how uncomfortable her blood draw at her doctor was that day. It seemed like a way to work up to the subject. I casually mentioned I got uncomfortable around nurses myself from getting a few painful needles from nurses as a kid and it was so bad for me as a kid the nurses had to hold me down to take my temperature. I didn't mention how it was taken or made any references to any procedure done “back there”. It was simply a toe in the water to see how she would react. Well it didn't go well. She didn't react too badly, just said that a lot of kids were scared, no big deal. The conversation continued for a while longer with no real tension. After that, I never heard from her ever again. That experience soured any thoughts of mentioning it to anyone else.

@mr_nobody,

Sorry to hear it. I was much more fortunate with my last GF and my ex-wife, who were all too happy to accept and share with me my 5-6 fetishes and kinks and provide each other with many exciting satisfying exciting kinky evenings. Better luck to you if you decide to try again.

Eric

My husband @Night_Pilot ❤️❤️❤️@gibby and her husband Pete 🌹 @Dahiana and her husband @Meat_Monster 🌹 and now @TrinaStarr and her husband ‘Ted’ 😉 and @Lora_C ❤️ and her Tom 🌹 and NP's Charlotte and more than likely her husband. And of course @Cedar 🌹🌹🌹.

Of course my husband knows, but also my daughter only because she is aware of my enema can at the lake cottage. Actually she's used it.

My husband and our two grown daughters, the older who moved back with us during the pandemic lockdown and brought her own enema bag. Our family’s primary care doctor, a wonderful woman in her 80s and now retired. She sometimes recommended a warm water enema if one of us was sick. Lastly, my naturopathic doctor who I began seeing for chronic G.I. issues before the pandemic struck. I never “opened up“ as fully about the subject until I met her.

Nobody knows that it is a fetish for me but the old friend of my wife knows we use them.

Nobody knows that it is a fetish for me but the old friend of my wife knows we use them.

Sounds like possible fun!

Just my wife since before we were married shoved a vibrator I just used on her up my ass and asked “how do you like that?”. Of course the answer was I love it and from there sex toys, beads, strapon all enter the arena. Just a matter of courtsey she knows I prefer an enema before anything goes up my butt just to be considerate of her. As time has passed her libido has dropped and now play is giving me an enema, then a great prostate massage with fingers or dildos.But at my age I will take my sexual pleasure where I can find it.

No one and I want to keep it that way.

No one and I want to keep it that way.

Skeet - Your secret is safe…with ALL of us!!! (lol…that really is meant as a bit of humor!)

My wife her sister and e of my wife’s girlfriends

Understand what your saying , BUT if ya don't advertise then ya wont sell anything . So just kind of ask around , has proved very beneficial several times . Has resulted in lady back in Northeast and one in Southwest , Both were friends , both incidental conversations .Two good Health Aides !!

Only my fwb.

Lastly, my naturopathic doctor who I began seeing for chronic G.I. issues before the pandemic struck. I never “opened up“ as fully about the subject until I met her.

Thinking about and adding to my post below:

I hesitated at first, but then I discovered it was blessedly liberating to talk openly with my new doctor about my history with enemas. This was during my initial 90-minute consult and exam, the most thorough discussion of my health and health concerns with any doctor – ever. She reduced my anxiety immediately and told me not to be embarrassed by sharing with her. Sharing my sensibility in doing enemas in moderation and not harming myself, she assured, ”Don't worry, you're not alone."

My lady friend knows, and my wife did also

I have a new electrolysis tech. So of course she already knows all of my secrets after three visits, I can’t keep my mouth shut! 😳there’s something about a woman who’s holding your genitals for an hour that makes me open up about my kinks.

I responded to this post in 2012 that I have told no one but since then may two years later i told a women that I met that told me about spanking her boyfriend, she ended you giving me a few enemas and paddling my ass good while holding an enema and then several more years later i told my wife I really liked enemas and she now she gives me enemas anytime I ask, so now in 2022 I’ve told two people

Just told an old friend while on the phone with her and she asked what I was doing, so I told her I was doing a coffee enema. She has never had an enema so I offered to give her one and she said she would be willing to try one just not the coffee.

Only my contacts here and two ladies that I have played with who have been out of my life for years. One moved to CA, which is FAR AWAY, and the other I have lost touch with. We meet on FETLIFE many years ago.

I need some clarification. My Maternal Grandmother, my Mom, and her Twin all took regular enemas. At age 4, our family doctor told my mother to give me an enema. My maternal grandmother is the person that gave it to me. My parents gave us a lovely home, clothing, and food; however, there were no hugs and kisses for me or my sister, who is four years younger than me. My grandmother was a lovable, kind, and nurturing person. She took me to the bathroom, explained everything, and gave me the enema with love and gentleness. The enema blew me away. I thoroughly loved it. I became hooked on enemas, and today, I'm still hooked at 84. I take them regularly.

At the age of 13, I became constipated. Doing number two was excruciating. I don't know if my mother noticed me playing with her enema equipment. When I told her of my situation, she immediately took me to our new, still in diapers, family doctor. Our original doctor had recently passed away. This new MD was firmly against enemas. I suffered for almost six months while he prescribed suppositories, and they did nothing to help. This problem frightened me because of having taken enemas, and I wasn't sure if I had caused the situation for myself. So I laid off taking enemas until later that year after the problems went away.

That's my story.

My mother probably noticed my interest in enemas when she was giving me one. It was many years ago. Now only my wife is aware of my special need, and we are married for 50 years.

Only my wife and everyone on Zity.😉

No one except on this forum 🤷🏼‍♂️

Everyone on Zity, 3 old gf's, and about 12-15 other people. 😉

Everyone on zity, my family, a few coworkers, a couple of patients I told while giving shots 😈🍑💦

Zity knows. The 20 something women I have given to and my two wives.