Enemas & man2man anal intercourse

I think it's perfectly natural to fantasize about other men. However, with society being what it is, this kind of desire can be very confusing. I know, I've dealt with it since adolescence.

I am very anal erotic and have been so ever since I can remember. It's not somthing many men are comfortable talking about and it maybe somthing most men don't experience. For me, I think it's just the way I'm wired.

I have experienced sex with another male/man with 2 different partners. Once in my early teens and again in my later teens. My parents found out about the first one. In the late 70s, things weren't understood as well as they are today and this became a source of near overwhelming guilt, shame, insecurity and confusion. In the end, it was thought to be adolescent curiosity.

Although, it did happen again, I was older and my parents never found out. If I could find a "friend with benefits" that I felt comfortable with and the right situation, I think I would do it again. In the mean time, I take enemas on a weekly basis, use butt plugs and dildos and have fantasies. If it ever presents itself again, I don't think it would cause nearly the emotional confusion it did before.

I think ZB and being able to post about these experiences has been a big help to me. It's a lot of emotional baggage even to this day. Someday, I hope to write about the whole thing. It might take weeks, though I think it would be worth the time.

I have enjoyed re-reading these posts and agree with most that we enema enthusiast are anally sensitive to enjoy any anal play. I think most of us also would also enjoy an anal playmate of either/any sex. But, like many of you, I dream of finding the right guy to have enemas with and ending with his cock deep in my ass, bareback of course, and feeling his cum shooting deep into my rectum. Well, I can dream, can't I. Let's just enjoy what we can, while we can!

I too have had thoughts of having enemas and then anal sex with another male. I haven't found anyone that seems to qualify and a bit afraid to approach. If the opportunity ever arises I will gladly welcome it. Both giving an enema and then having anal sex with him. Then let him do the same to me.

First of all, NORMAL is a setting on your washing machine.

I just had to check. You're right! There are actually three normal settings on my washing machine for Delicate, Regular and Wrinkle Control.

I guess at my age, I should consider wrinkle control.

ER,

I'd probably set you for permanent press.

Dan

Getting back to the original question, I believe enemas have started me down the road to becoming bisexual. Starting with enemas, I've become extremely anal erotic. I've loved every one of the many things that have gone up my ass: butt plugs, bigger butt plugs, huge dildos, my wife's strap on, huge enema nozzles, five-foot colon tubes, and my wife's fist.

I have no doubt I'd also love how a man's penis would feel fucking my ass. I know I could easily become bisexual, even though my primary attraction is to my wife and billions of other woman in the world. Only the risk of disease and emotionally hurting my wife is holding me back from being bi.

Is this normal? I don't think I'm a whole lot different from a lot of guys on Zity.

Is this normal? I don't think I'm a whole lot different from a lot of guys on Zity.

I was wondering about myself at one point. I do sometimes hold my hard cock and wonder, because it does feel different from a dildo. I also wonder what it would be like to be a woman sometimes as well, but I'm not rushing out for hormones and surgery. I'm comfortable and happy as a man, and I imagine more people have moments of curiosity than admit it. I've heard of a test that you can try out. Think about how you look at guys vs girls. Go down and intentionally look at guys and girls and pay attention to your thoughts. I see guys and I might envy them for some reason, wish I could have something that they seem to have, or even admire their looks, confidence, money, whatever - but I don't find myself thinking about having sex with them. If I intentionally ask "would I want to have sex with this person" the answer is "not really." I find my eyes wandering to the sexual attributes of the ladies much more often, though. I've also put up some pictures that are pretty explicit. I know some gay and bi guys have seen them. I even find it flattering that they like my body and don't mind if they pass on their fantasies or comment on what they like. I don't, however, find myself wanting to make the leap to having sex with a guy in person. Is this "truly straight"? There are so many sexual orientation descriptors nowadays I don't know. What I do know is that now and for the foreseeable future I'm gonna just be having sex with my wife and I'll be happy with that, so I'm pretty sure I'm not gay or bi.

Might it change? I guess. I might be a repressed bisexual, but it doesn't seem to be ready to jump out and cause infidelity or make my life miserable if that is the case. You might be like me - it's something to wonder about occasionally, perhaps even run some fantasies, but at the end of the day you're perfectly happy to go home to your wife and let her pound your ass to satisfy your anal eroticism (or do it yourself with desire-based fantasies of her).

One thing I heard in a podcast that interested me is the suggestion of a distinction between fantasy and desire. Fantasy can be anything, even things that are not physically possible or you would not really want to happen to you. Desire is those things that you take out of your fantasies and want to have happen in the real world. Just having fantasies does not mean that they are desires, so you can enjoy them as fantasies and leave it at that.

Maybe I'm just more aware of my repressed bisexuality than most guys. I have a lot of the same feelings as moliere, but I'm a couple of degrees less repressed. I do sometimes look at some guys now with lustful thoughts. Most of my life I didn't let myself go there.

Wife and I subscribe to the theory "We're all bisexual". It's the degree to which you resist or accept your bisexuality that determines how you choose to identify. I stopped counting the number of men in this thread who declare themselves "straight" while describing a desire to be penetrated by a man's penis.

The idea that our sexuality is sufficiently defined with only three categories is incredibly short-sighted. I liken it to one more example of tribalism and our need to put everything, including people, into neat little boxes to make ourselves comfortable. Begin to examine the "We're all bisexual" concept and google the "Kinsey Scale."

I guess it makes sense, especially if you look on sex as being social as in the bonobo studies, which do have certain parallels. I imagine I could probably do the bi thing if I wanted to and let myself, after all I have finally let myself enjoy enemas and that's very nice, but I have made certain promises to my wife.

Just have fun and be safe

Funny story. I had an enema from a member here and afterwards I immediately wanted a cock in my ass. He was very obliging. 😃

@Deckard, sounds hot! Good clean fun, eh?

I think this can be a reaction by any anal erotic person. Although I have never had a man enter me or had a male give me an enema, I am more open minded to it than when I was younger. Maybe I’m more mature now and have overcome the taboo associated with having intimacy, including anal sex and enemas, with another man. I have been violated by several dildos and other items but usually solo. I have done online enema and anal violation shows knowing men were watching. I have even fantasized being raped by a man, but have never put myself in a position to do fulfill that fantasy. Enemas have made me very anal erotic and being violated anally just seems to be a natural progression. So far my fear of actually doing it with another male is holding me back. But I am not totally against it happening. I am a sub and if a dominant were to command me to be entered by another male, I would probably comply. So I am more comfortable accepting that I can actually do it. I don’t think it’s an abnormal reaction at all. It’s all mental acceptance and if you are comfortable with it, don’t worry about it.

chubasian wrote: Although I have never had a man enter me or had a male give me an enema, I am more open minded to it than when I was younger. ... So far my fear of actually doing it with another male is holding me back. But I am not totally against it happening. I am a sub and if a dominant were to command me to be entered by another male, I would probably comply.

chubasian, I'm a lot like you and a lot of other anal-erotic men I would guess. I enjoy anal sex and anal play with my wife, often when one of us is restrained. Like you, I've never had anal intercourse with a man, but I fantasize about it. If I were a restrained sub in bondage scene, and a dom ordered another guy to fuck me in the ass, I would be like you and comply, that is not use the safe word. That's actually one of my favorite masturbation fantasies--gay sex with bondage, top or bottom.

I don't know if I became anal-erotic because of enemas or I was always like that. I know I've always liked to masturbate from an very early age while straddling something, like the side of a bath tub, or a large diameter metal or concrete pipe to put external pressure on my taint and anus.

When I started using butt plugs, first for enema retention, and then for their own pleasure, I became aware of the great power that rectal pressure on my prostate had to trigger and enhance orgasms, both in sex and masturbation.

Not long after my wife began to give me hands jobs while fucking my ass with a dildo, something I still can't get enough of, I began to fantasize about having man2man anal intercourse. That was decades ago, and that fantasy has never left me. I could easily become bisexual in real life after fantasizing about it so long. I've always been far more excited by a female body than a male body. The main thing about a male body that I find exciting is the penis and having it penetrate me. Lately, though, I've started to become aroused by looking at the entire male body, provided that it's fit and muscular.

Here is one of my favorite masturbation fantasies in which I have anal intercourse with a man for the first time. It starts with my wife Pam and I finding another couple on a swingers website. We arrange a meeting with Steve and Sally at a motel. The first time we get together, we decide to just get to know each other and watch each other fuck. We meet at the motel and go out for lunch. When we come back, we all strip. Pam and I fuck as Steve and Sally watch us, and then Steve and Sally fuck as Pam and I watch them. We all enjoyed the experience. Watching a live sex show was so much fun, and performing in one in front of an audience was even better. Next time we agreed we'd swap partners.

For our second meeting, we do the same thing with partners swapped. Sally and I watch Steve fuck Pam. Pam cums three or four times as she always does. It's not just me. Sally and I have our hands all over each other as we watch the Steve and Pam show. When it's our turn we're really hot and ready. Sally and I are really good together. We put on a good show for Steve and Pam. We all enjoyed performing for each other, even more this time. We plan anal sex fun for next time.

Our third meeting is just for anal sex. I fuck Sally's ass as Pam and Steve watch, and then Sally and I watch Steve give Pam a really hard ass fucking. Getting fucked in the ass makes Pam cum multiple times. Sally likes it a lot too.

The fourth time we get together, things start going in a bi direction. After we all strip, Pam and Sally embrace, and kiss and hug as they roll around on the bed together. Then they make each other cum over and over with hands, lips, dildos, vibrators, and other toys. After an hour of this, they seem satisfied. Steve and I enjoy the show immensely, as our hard cocks attest. I can't help playing with mine and have to catch myself before I masturbate.

Pam and Sally both insist now it's their turn to watch Steve and I make each other cum."You don't have to hug and kiss. We just want to see hand jobs and big squirts of cum," Sally says. Steve and I refuse to touch each other at first. After lots of persuasion, Sally gets gets Steve to let me grab his cock, but Steve goes limp. Pam comes over to help. She cups Steve's balls and fingers his ass. Finally Steve starts to stiffen in my grip, and I start pumping. Steve takes a long time to cum. I have to pump hard and change hands several times. I use my other hand to caress the sides of Steve's butt. Finally after 20 minutes Steve has an orgasm with an impressive load. Pam and Sally applaud.

Now it's Steve's turn to give me a hand job in front of Pam and Sally. I have Pam and Sally sit on the edge of the bed. I stand two feet in front of them. I have Steve stand behind me. I reach back with both hands and guide Steve's left arm through my parted legs and place his left hand on my balls. He cups me just right with a huge left hand and I close my legs over his left forearm. I reach back and pull his right hand around my waist and place it on my cock. He squeezes me and I'm instantly hard. Then I clasp my hands behind my head and lean back against Steve. Steve starts to pump me, and Pam and Sally with their close up view get excited. Pam and Sally giggle and talk about how close I am to cumming and how far I'll shoot. "He's close now," Pam says as I'm shuddering a little and moaning louder. Then Steve gets into it. He suddenly cups my balls harder with his left hand, and squeezes my whole pelvis with a forceful bending of his left elbow. The powerful crotch hug lifts me up onto my tip toes and pulls my torso back hard into his. As he does this he starts pumping my cock furiously with his right hand. I can't hold off if my life depended on it. With a series of grunts and a whole body spasm, I fire my load, hitting both Pam and Sally. They laugh and applaud, both for me and Steve.

On the fifth time we meet, Pam and Sally stay dressed and they order Steve and me to strip. "We're just going to watch and play with you guys tonight," Sally says. Pam and Sally have obviously discussed this in advance. They both know that Steve and I are both anal erotic because they order us to the bathroom to give us several large enemas, which all four of us really enjoy. Then they lay us down on our backs on the bed side by side over beach towels with out heads at opposite ends of the bed. Sally spreads my legs wide, lubes my anus, and penetrates me with a life-sized dildo as she starts working her well lubed hand up and down my hard cock. Pam does the same thing for Steve. Steve and I moan together in ecstasy. We are both close to the brink when Pam and Sally suddenly stop and back off.

"Foreplay is over, and now it's time for the hubbies to put on a show for the wives and fuck each other," Sally announces. Pam laughs. "Tonight we girls get to watch you two hunks fuck each other in the ass." I'm excited, but Steve loudly protests. "I never have, and I never will," he says. Pam and Sally try to persuade us. Sally says, "You guys obviously like things up your asses, so what difference does it make if it's a dido or a another guy's penis?" Steve still refuses to go along. "How about you, Bill?" Sally asks. Pam answers for me. "I bet he wants it. He loves me to peg him." Then Sally threatens Steve. "If you don't let us watch Bill and you fuck each other, then you can play with yourself for six weeks while Pam, Bill, and I have hot threesomes. I'm serious!" Steve and I look at each other. Steve has a worried look. I smile at him and shrug. "OK, you win," Steve says. Everyone but Steve excitedly laughs.

We flip a coin to see who goes first. If it's heads, Steve Fucks me. If it's tails, I fuck Steve. It's tails. I decide to fuck Steve's ass the same way I like to fuck Pam's ass. I make Steve kneel on the bed with his knees spread, and get down on his elbows with his hands supporting his head. Steve's wide open ass sticks up invitingly above the rest of his body. I crawl up on my knees right behind Steve. I'm surprised how much I like the feeling of my thighs on his. I lean back a little to lube Steve's entire butt, his taint, and the back of this thighs. Then I use one, two, then three fingers to lube his anus and deep inside his rectum. Finally, I lube the front of my thighs, my pubes, and I generously lube my hard cock. I push myself tightly up against Steve so my erect cock rests along the length of Steve's butt crack, and I move my hips around and around to make sure every point of contact between Steve and me will be well lubed. Pam and Sally squeal in excited anticipation. I move my cock down underneath Steve's crotch and squirm around again pressing and moving my bare pubes all over Steve's butt. We are lubed and ready to go.

Pam and Sally excitedly cheer, "Fuck him! Fuck him! ..." I lean back a little and position the head of my hard cock right over Steve's anus. I move it around playfully with slight pressure so that Steve's anus opens very slightly. "Fuck him! Fuck him! ...", Sally and Pam chant louder. I push a little harder and the head of my cock pop's through. I just hold it there. Steve really wants all of me inside him now. He pushes back against me, but I've got his hips in my hands and I don't let him. He squeezes me hard with his internal muscles and tries to suck me into himself. "Fuck him! Fuck him! ..." Then I very slowly push myself half way into Steve and hold it there. Steve and I both moan. It feels really good. "Go! Go! Go! ...", Pam and Sally yell. I wait another few seconds enjoying Steve's contractions. Then Sally sneaks behind me and gives my butt a hard pop with the palm of her hand. That makes me jump and I bury my cock inside Steve. After the first full thrust I go crazy fucking Steve. I can't help going in and out very rapidly. Steve is moving too in perfect time in the opposite direction. Steve's butt and my bare pubes smack into each with loud pops at a furious pace. Pam and Sally cheer loudly. After a few minutes I suddenly hit the point of no return and I can't help pumping faster and faster at a rate of four or five pops per second until I cum hard and collapse on top of Steve. Then I roll off of him to one side and fall into a blissful stupor on the bed.

"Wake up, Bill. It's time for Steve to fuck your ass now," Sally whispers in my ear as she strokes my butt. I feel Steve's knees next to me. He grabs me under my hips with powerful hands and pulls me up on my knees. Pam and Sally start to cheer again, "Fuck him, Fuck him, ..."

I believe it is normal for you to be fucked anally by a man since you derive so much pleasure from enema syringe insertion in your anus

I've cum 2 realize it's really a mind/matter thing about anal eroticism. Does it really matter if it's an enema nozzle/finger or cock in you that turns one on?

Does it really matter if it's an enema nozzle/finger or cock in you that turns one on?

For me, Yes it does!! I love to do just about any form of anal play with a woman, giving and receiving. But with a guy, nothing could ever ever happen.

For lots of highly anal-erotic man, I think the thought of being penetrated by a man's penis is normal. I'm mainly straight, but after years of enemas and extreme anal play, I have developed several recurring fantasies in which another man fucks me in the ass. The fantasies are so strong, that I call myself a potential bisexual.

My anal-eroticism began at age 13 when I discovered a thrilling way to masturbate in the bathtub. I soaped up my crotch and the insides of my thighs so I could get on my knees while straddling the curved top of the front side of my bathtub. I loved to slide up and down while masturbating. The pressure of most of my body weight, and the slippery, sliding sensation on my taint and the outside of my anus along the top of the tube gave me anal and prostate sensations that made masturbation rise to a new level. Next, about 10 years later, a girlfriend gave me my first enema, and she gave me a hand job during it. I got seriously into enemas, enema nozzles, retention butt plugs, and all manner of anal toys for post-enema fun with my girlfriend. She loved to give me a hand job while pumping a dildo in and out of my ass. She actually got highly sexually aroused by making me cum this way.

We married a couple of years later. Our normal sex was wonderful, but we still enjoyed anal play a lot. With my encouragement my wife started pegging me with strap on dildos and fisting me. For my enemas, I started using fatter and longer nozzles, and I got into colon tubes. I just loved every kind of anal penetration.

At this point, the last anal frontier was being anally penetrated with a man's penis. It was just natural to be curious about what it would feel like for a man to fuck my ass, even though I'm not sexually attracted to men. I can easily get hard just by looking at a beautiful woman, but I have nothing like that reaction when looking at another man, except that I like to look at pictures or videos of a man's erect penis and see him cum. I am slightly repulsed by the thought of hugging another man in a sexual way, and I'd have trouble kissing another man on the lips. Despite this, I developed a strong desire to have a man fuck me in the ass at least once. Maybe I'd never do it again, but this is a recurring fantasy I've had for years.

Based on my experience I think it's easy for lots of straight men who seriously get into enemas and anal play to fantasize about being bisexual, and to later actually become bisexual.

Have any other straight men become so extremely anal-erotic that they fantasize about becoming bisexual? Have any of you actually taken the leap? What was it like?

@WildBill2: Thats exactely my experience too. I would never kiss a guy, but often think about a hard penis fucks my ass. May be I try it sometimes.

I have been anally focused since childhood, finding whatever I could to insert in my ass. I had a girlfriend who loved to rim me. Having been raised by religious parents and continuing my own religious journey, labels have been very damaging. I agree, we don't need them! I am approaching 60 and am finally realizing the labels we put on ourselves can be just as constricting as rose placed on us by society. Just be yourself and enjoy what you enjoy without getting out the label maker.

I searched for a female enema play partner for the longest time without success. The ads were flooded with guys looking for enema partners. So decided to give it a try, my thoughts were any enema is better than no enema. I understood how important it would be to share enemas with those who understood your fetish, and not belittle you.

So put in an ad and was with requests, thinking it was about twenty-five guys. I picked an ad that appealed to me and made arrangements for me to give him an enema. There was some tension at first, but it diminished when I filled an enema bag, and he took off his clothes, sporting a massive hard-on. He took orders and did what i said. I had him on his back and his enormous cock was standing straight up It was then that decided to suck his cock while he got an enema. To be honest, was fascinated by his huge cock, it was much bigger than mine, Plus what guy wouldn't enjoy a blowjob?

So sucked on his cock and gave him an enema. Having never done this before, it wasn't long before he was moaning and writhing. I was fucking him with the nozzle. I was doing what I'd want to be done to me. He gave out a big moan and came in my mouth. Surprise! wasn't expecting that. He ran off to the toilet to expel. I enjoyed it and wanted to do it again, as there were so many willing assholes. My second guy wasn't as much fun but wanted to do it again.

I started thinking about hygiene and bought some more enema bags. Everybody would get their own bag. My guy was married and his wife thought enemas were disgusting. (sounds familiar) I told him about the personal enema bags and asked if he reimburses me. He said he would, and started the process. I like having guys on their backs so their cocks are prominent. I improved my setup and had the enema bag right in front of him so he stare at it as he was being filled. I also had gloves and lube. I also ordered a nice bakelite curved nozzle from eBay. So started lubing his ass as I stroked his cock, was literally finger fucking him. When he started getting hot, shoved in the big douche nozzle and opened the clip. I wanted to treat this guy to a good time so sucked his cock as well, when he returned from expelling, had an enema bag waiting for him, I told him he done wasn't done yet, and gave him a second enema. He was so grateful he gave me a hundred dollars and wanted an appointment for next week.

This opened the idea that I could charge for enemas. I thought and fifty dollars reasonable. And I could fit in several clients in a day. In no time was giving four or five enemas a day. I did this for about six months till it wasn't fun anymore.

@bagman925 Sorry that the distance between us is so far; I would be your next client.

@bagman925: what was not fun anymore? Doing it so often? Doing it for a charge? Or playing enemas altogether?

The last would be surprising to me, but maybe it could happen when playing that often…