How was it the first time doctor told you will have to wear diapers?

My friend told me that she had some night time wetting, went to the doctor and after the exam he came in with a nurse and told her that he thinks that she should start wearing what he called "protection", he then turned to the nurse and asked to please show a sample, my friend almost fell of the table when the nurse showed her a diaper and told come let me show what to do.

Well that pretty much sums it up. The doctor told me my accidents were caused by nerve damage due to diabetes type 2 neglect for many a years. i did not know i had it i started wetting the bed at first then day time accidents started that's when i went in to the docs. and yes my heart sank as i could not imagine a big strong guy like myself needing diapers for the rest of my life. My heart kinda snack when the nurse helped me into them the first time for proper fit. very embarrassing to say the least. after about a year or so i kinda started to like diapers then it wasn't so bad to me . I lost a bunch of weight 150 pounds and 6 inches of my waist then i started to regain control about a year ago and have been getting better every day since , except at night time still have accidents enough in a week to make me diaper myself at night just in case. but I'm happy i got to be out of them during the day time at least. However I have to say if I go to a hospital I just tell them I'm incontinent and wear them all the time I'm there, its a lot easier for me to just use the diaper when in a hospital for some reason LOL!!! Well that and the nurse changing me is plus LMAO!!!!

Exhilarating and on that visit he had me to strip down to nothing but my baby diaper and gave me a good checking over and agreed with my need for diapers.

My doctor told me that because my medical condition had worsened, I would be experiencing some levels of incontinence, and that I will need to start

wearing diapers, just like a baby. I said "Well, it's about time you prescribed diapers for me, I've only been asking you to do this for the last 11 years. I wear diapers 24/7, and I'm NEVER going to stop."

I am like Mamasboy, in that I have nerve damage from over 35 years of diabetes. I have worn diapers for several years now and have found that I am not alone in the need or the love of wearing diapers! Thanks to forums like this we can all feel more comfortable with ourselves. I have learned a lot from this site. Other things that I have learned are that others also shave their bodies to keep odors down. For a long time I felt that I was some kind of weirdo for the feelings that I have and the things that I do. Maybe I am, but there are others just like me in the world. 😮

Weird is big word that means many of things. whats right for you may not be right for some. so weird is another word for ignorrance or intollerance

Well for me i was like WTF!! Why i must use diaper? I even told the doctor no i dont need that is there something else beside that he say no that is the only way to keep the bed dry. He also suggest to use a bed wetting alarm and take some medication, so my mom was like a bit piss off by me cos i keep telling her that no i dont need diaper! But in the end i wore diaper and love it 😜 😁

My was noticing for myself that I needed to wear diaper cuz of my weak bladddddder problem I have at night I did have insurance to cover the exam that you would need or to see the doctor on it.

First time i was told i needed to wear diapers by my doctor was 3 days after i broke my back

told me and my wife that i now had no bowl or bladder control i need to wear diapers (he didn't know i had been wearing them for years for fun while driving trucks cross country and at nits for fun)

my wife was devastated and inside i was jumping for joy

when my wife found i loved diapers and had bisexual encounters in my teens a year later she started dressing and treating me as a sissybabygirl

eventually she got into kinky sex and forced me to please her and her friends while i was dressed as a sissybaby

I doubt my doctor would say that. I've been considering talking to him about recent soiling accidents, and he's gonna give me the same tripe all doctors give you: regulate your diet, take frequent bathroom breaks, all of which I already do.

Same deal with my bedwetting. He's gonna tell me to cut down caffeine and alcohol, reduce my stress level, so and so. But I can only imagine what I'd do, being a kid and having to hear your doctor suggest diapers. Of course, I'd have to restrain my mirth, and at least pretend to be embarrassed about it. After all, it's more fun if they give you that "it's all for the best" talk.

I didn't wait for my doctor to tell me. I told him that I was wearing because I couldn't hold it back any more. The only thing he added to me was self cathing. Now having a nurse show you how to put a diaper on is strange, but try sitting on the edge of the exam table with your pants down, and a nurse teaching you how to insert a plastic tube up your penis, all the while holding a measuring cup to catch what fluids come out.

My doctor didn't really say anything. When I got out of the hospital the diapers were part of my discharge instructions. I was re-diapered by the nurse before I put on my street cloths, given a bag of Depends and several printouts on what to expect during my recovery. Two days later at the first checkup at my doctors office he explained why I now had a neurogenic bladder and bowel incontinence, gave me my prescriptions for insulin, referrals to a neurologist and urologist, and then turned me over to his nurse for detailed instructions on how to manage the whole diet and diaper thing. She was a great no-nonsense and practical RN who made me feel completely at ease while she showed me how to fold and put on cloth diapers and plastic pants. She gave me detailed instructions on how to wash myself, launder the diapers, and avoid embarrassing accidents. She is the main reason that I KNOW... "Paper Diapers Suck, Cloth Diapers RULE!!!

Sorry; I sometimes get carried away 😳 :😃

I have never been to A dr for my wetting I like it It is want I like to do it makes my live easer diapers make bedwetting fun and even with diapers bedwetting would be fun

My first time was alot like Kims but the nurse diapered me and i had to wear it home

The first time I saw my doctor an had to pull my pants down for him to check my prostate . I thought I would die from embarrassment. I have had control of my bladder. Do to nevre damage from a compression fracture in my back a long time ago. But didn't start having problems until I was 40. I never saw a doctor for a long time. Do to being embarrsed about the problem. When he saw the diaper he ask me why I was wearing it. I then told him my problem . An after he had me see a urologist . He said I would have to wear diapers the rest of my life.

In 2000 I was in Cabo San Lucas at a high class hotel

when I went down to dinner I slipped on soapy steps (some dip shit had poured shampoo in the lobby fountain) and when I fell I knocked myself out.

When I got up I returned to my room and the desk person had sent the hotel doctor up to my room. He found a huge lump on my head and told me I should go to the local hospital because I probably had a concussion.I refused but asked if he could get me any pain killer as I also had severe mucle spasms in my back

He checked and saw my attends diaper and asked why I was wearing a diaper?

I told him to look at the 10" long scar on my back and guess! After telling him I had severe back problems he gave me injections of pain killer and Valium

The next day I flew home and a few days later I received a letter of apology and a certificate for a all expenses paid vacation for 2 weeks with air fair included

When I returned 6 weeks later I called ahead they remembered me and not only did they have an extra waste can for my wet diapers and a plastic sheet they also had several packs of disposable diapers (local brand) waiting in room

The first time I was told was when I underwent eye surgery about 5 years ago. The doc said I'd be out cold for quite a while since it was going to be a long operation and recommended that I wear one while they worked.

I was 6 and started to bed wet after my parents divorced. Mom finally took me to a doctor, after a horribly embarrassing exam, he told mom "just put him back in night diapers for a while. A few nights later I was back in diapers,for the first time in many years,but not without a fight.

I was 35 y/o and my heart was crushed. My stomach felt sick and i could not think of how on earth im going to go thru life needing diapers all the time (a the time it was day and night time accidents). I felt embarrased and pissed off that diabetes from my own neglect made me have to wear these .

After a few years it calmed down once my diabetes got in order. But my damage to my nerves has been done and its not reversible im told.

The day time accidents stopped (thank god) but night time still happens to this day once in a while. Im so in tuned with my body now after all these years that i pretty much know when i will need a diaper at night and when i wont. But they dont call them accidents for any reason now do they lol? Once in a while i will misread my bladder output and think im ok and wake up to wet sheets. Sucks but it happens.

The only problem i have now is when i go into a hospital they just diaper me no matter what.

Day and night dont matter to them. I have even told them its just a night time problem now, but they insist for some reason on me wearing them while there. was told by one nurse they are short staffed and over worked and a diaper is easier to change then wet beds are. Gee lucky me.

After a prostate biopsy confirmed the presence of a malignant tumor, my urologist called me in to give me the news. He informed me that, following surgery to remove the tumor, I would be bladder incontinent for an indefinite period of months to years and would need to use diapers. Since early childhood, diaper-wearing had remained a life-long fantasy that I could now expect to be fulfilled, so I was immediately ecstatic.

I became a DL at age 5 after trying on some old leftover Pampers in the closet, like so many others here. I had no real access to diapers until my late teens when I had an injury that resulted in me becoming fully incontinent and needing a wheelchair to get around. During my 5 months in the hospital, my nurses tried all the typical drainage bags and condom catheters to manage my bladder. But along with the usual leaks, they gave me frequent blistering irritations on my penis that would take days to heal. One of my nurses asked me if I was willing to try diapers for a while. Just her asking me sent a warm flush of embarrassment along with a wave of excitement coursing through my mind and body. I almost said no out of embarrassment, but thankfully I said "OK."

It was comforting to be at therapy during the day without worrying about leaks. The feeling that it was now "acceptable" for me to be in diapers was so comforting, I really think that it kinda helped ease the other frustrations I was feeling while adjusting to my new life. The best part was the "side-effect" diapers gave me. I quickly rediscovered the intense sexual stimulation diapers created, which I had feared was gone forever. They gave me erections that were just as hard as before my injury, it was such a turn-on!

In a way I guess I'm lucky because instead of feeling miserable over being incontinent, it's socially assumed that I'm in diapers. I would never wish spinal cord injury anyone, but it has essentially forced me into this fetish that was imprinted in my brain since childhood. I get very excited whenever I'm wearing them 😃 I love the all-day arousal my diapers give me - Not a bad trade off I guess!

I am 32 yrs old & male I started wearing diapers last year because of Incontinence problems, I started off having accidents all the time at work & this was embarrassing, I also wear them because I hate being wet or messy I have a condition known as OBS or/ over active bladder syndrome,So I choose to wear either Tena slip maxi nappies or Boots stay dry slips/ nappies I don't see any problems with wearing nappies as I had to wear Pampers/Huggies I was a baby, the only difference is I am older now, And I am not a baby/ infant anymore but I have had to revert back to wearing these products for the 1st time in 30 odd years. Like most children I was potty trained at age 1& a half or 2 yrs old and had a normal upbringing, But I also have learning disabilities & now incontinence related disabilities and because of this I have reverted back to my wearing nappies at night & whilst I am at work or out and about town, Because I little or have no control over my bladder so I have to wear nappies as specially at night when I am asleep because of the risk of wetting my bedding which is very embarrassing, I take vasicare tablets once a day and put my diapers on by myself as I am independent in this regards I also have to wear more than one nappy at a time because I have little or no control over my bladder, so when I wet myself its usually bad enough to cause serious wetting of my diaper, Whilst I also know that I probably will have to wear nappies 4 their rest of my life I know but at the same time I really don't care what other people think before they know me, I will always be myself and nothing will change this. So I don't care if someone calls me a baby because I have learnt to live with this fact anyway so why bother.

If they criticize me they should grow up, As more and more adults now wear nappies 24/7 especially those who are disabled like me thus proving that nappies/Diapers are no longer just for babies but also adults. I went on a first aid course at work last Thursday & was nervous that someone might notice I was wearing nappies but as It turns out two other people besides myself also have similar problems with their health so it wasn’t an issue the only disconcerting thing was when I had to be rolled into the recovery position as I had no control over people noticing my diaper/ nappy as we say over here I did however tuck my shirt in & tried to make it as discrete as possible before hand besides I really don’t see why I should be forced to be secretive or deceptive about the fact I wear nappies just to get by in life as specially as I am wearing one right now but just because I don’t want to have an accident whilst writing this story.

After many tests i had a urodynamics test done and confirmed i have a lazy bladder and was taught to self catheterise myself and i would have to wear adult pads /nappies due to leakage for the rest of my life

When I was a much younger lad, I had a control issue. I went to the pediatrician a number of times and never told me that I should wear "protection". After the back and forth I think that I began my love for the diaper. I have this dream that I am the doctor now and that I am doing the exams. And with one of the exams I am performing a full lower exam on a female patient and she just lets loose. I send in the nurse and she gets cleaned up, then i walk back in the room with a rolling cart. Of course the lovely lady asked what was on the cart and i pull out a diaper. I continue with the exam as if she was a small child and take her temp of course with a rectal thermometer. She fights a little and i put her hands in the soft restraints. after the rest of the exam I tell her that she is going to have to come back for the rest of the exam and that she better be wearing the diaper.

Re-Adjusting to a life in diapers my story

Five to six years ago if someone had have told me that I would be in diapers again I would have thought that they where either crazy or joking however their is no joke about being incontinent and having to be padded for the rest of your-life when you reach 30+.

I have thought about what life would have been like had this not happened to me but mostly I've come to terms with the fact that I need to wear diapers virtually all of the time and for me it actually makes my life more better because of the fact I don't have to worry about any embarrassing accidents most of the time and this has made me more relaxed and less cranky than I was before I started wearing them aged 30 years old in 2010, although five to six years down the road from then I still face an up-hill battle with stigmatism which as you can imagine is no fun.

Whilst i did everything right from the onset of my battle with incontinence problems i still think my doctors don't understand me as they haven't given me the green light to get diapers for free as in their oppinion I don't have any problems other than a weak bladder. This sucks as I have to buy my diapers from the shops or supermarkets as i can't get them any other way and this as you can imagine is very expensive and embarrassing at times.

Before you wonder where i live i am in the UK and live in Cumbria so I am not in the USA although sometimes i wish that i was because diapers are much more accessible over there than they are here although this is slowly changing as more shops now have them in stock which can only be a good thing as long as they are of good qaulity and not those cheap ones that split or rip every-time i try to put them on to myself.

I also have no carer so i have to do everything for myself even though i have disabilities and should be entitled to one should i make that choice later on in life, or if i win the Euromillons Lottery Draw big-time which would be an awesome thing, fingers crossed. But if this where to happen the first thing i would invest in would be a new home and a adult nursery for myself so that I could live my life without stigmatism, although I will never consider myself as an adult baby as that's simply not in my mentality/psychological make up so to speak of.

I would also invest in around the clock care for myself as i have disabilities and need to be looked after and wouldn't mind having carers looking after my every want and need, including being diapered up like an infant/toddler again although this would be my choice and not what I was forced to become.

All things aside i must now try to get re-assesed and seek out another oppinion from a new doctor not just physiologically speaking but also psychologically. I am not crazy but need to find professional help as I suffer from P.T.S.D/post traumatic stress syndrome due to the fact in 2010 I witnessed my friend Chris being run over & killed by a drunken driver who failed to stop to render any assistance, this and other tragedies in my life well you could say I have issues/baggage and am definitely damaged or scared for life not just physically.

Anyway must go before I have another melt down or episode of survivors guilt trip and I also need to catch up on some sleep ?.

Yours sincerely

Chinababy888

I know for me, and for all my patients that I have had to either assist the doctor when telling the patient, or when I have had to do it myself that it's horrible. Most of my patients cry. I feel so bad for them and try to assure them that it will be okay and that they will still be able to do things they have always done. It hurts me to tell them that actually.

Mashie

I can't honestly say it really bothered me. I had been refered to a urologist by my Doctor because my bedwetting had become a nightly affair andI was having more daytime wetting problems too. They did all kinds of tests and eventually decided that apart from a slightly enlarged prostate the main cause was nerve damage due to my diabetes not being diagnosed early enough. This was irreversible and the urologist refered me to a continence nurse. She was great and sorted me out with pas for daytime use and slips (nappies) for night time. I soon got over the initial shock and now just get on with life. My incontinence isn't a big deal and doesn't stop me doing anything I want to do.

The doctor came into my room with the nurse and as she removed my catheter he told me I was incontinent and would be given a medical discharge . This was a military hospital. Then he turned and walked out.I didn't even know what incontinence meant.

The nurse was very gentle and somehow knew I didn't understand. She explained the damage to my body and that I would probably be in diapers the rest of my life. She then diapered me for the first time since I stopped bedwetting at age 12.

I was 6'4 175 lbs. of hard muscle. I was 20 years old and in what I felt was my prime. Now I had to accept that I was going to be in a diaper the rest of my life!

I can remember laying there crying. Later I got mad and threw things and yelled out my frustration. The flight home was worse. I was sent home in a cloth diaper and plastic pants under my dress uniform. I felt the whole world knew I was in a diaper.

Home wasn't any better. I had nightmares and PTSD. I hid, working at night so no one could see me. I didn't go out except to drink. The body I was so proud of was now 275 and betraying me every time I had to change my diaper.

Further medical complications put me back in the hospital where I met my wife. She gave me two fine daughters and what this year will be our 40th wedding anniversary. Most important she helped me deal with the incontinence and diapers.

It was a shock for me more so when mum said to wear 24/7

I know this is off subject but I was 30 when I was diagnosed with a. overactive bladder my original doctor said that I don't need them but I disagree with that and am trying to get re-assesed by a new doctor as my problems have gotten worse than before and I need to seek out professional help from a pycoperapist and try to get someone to listen to me

Now aged 35-36 I am desperate for an awnser aa to why I suffer from these problems obviously I will get back to you and post an updated version of this article if I get to go-ahead to wear diapers.