Ladies, do you prefer your husband to be with you during an intimate examination?

My wife always prefers me to be present during her examinations, whether it’s a clinical breast exam, a Pap smear, or pelvic floor physiotherapy that involves an internal vaginal examination.

I wanted to ask the ladies here: Do you prefer your husband or partner to be present during these types of intimate examinations? Does it depend on the type of exam, for example, would you be comfortable with them being present for a breast exam but not a vaginal exam?

My wife prefer that I'm not in the room for intimate examinations. When happened (for pregnancy or when unexpected) I felt she was more embarrassed

I never really gave much thought to attending my wife's medical check-ups, since, generally speaking, it isn't the custom here. Recent changes for men in my country specifically concern being present during childbirth, but the list of required tests and preparations is so extensive that it isn't an option for everyone.

Hubby loves coming to my exams.

Hubby loves coming to my exams.

@Lilalee2 Do you enjoy having your husband there too? Do you ever secretly do something naughty during exam to spice things up? Do you talk about it afterward?

For intimate exams I prefer to go in alone without the presence of my partner

Fairytale,

Not sure to directly respond to your question. I don’t do anything “naughty’ during the exam, but yes we talk about it later. Typically right when we get home and he is taking care of himself. (I love watching that.)

No, never. My guy even doesn't have understanding for any kind of sexual fetish despite he's a sex god. 😃

No. Never. Just stay away from my appointment.

@Lilaee2

we talk about it later. Typically right when we get home and he is taking care of himself. (I love watching that.)

I never went to any of my wife's exams and we too would talk about it as soon as she came home. I too masturbated while she told me. The thoughts of another man looking at her parts and with his fingers up inside her was incredible.

@Alinaf What is the barrier or hesitation that makes you prefer going to the appointment without your husband? He has already seen much more of you, hasn’t he?

For intimate exams I prefer to go in alone without the presence of my partner

@fairytale2264

It's a personal issue, I wouldn't feel comfortable talking to the doctor, even if my partner knows everything. I'd also be more nervous about the visit. I'm just like that.

Finally, after years of asking my wife let me go with her to her gyn exam in 2017. I can't say that she prefers that I go but she does let me attend all her Dr. appointments now as she does mine. It does make it easier on me being there to see and hear all that is happening. As I stated before no time to get excited nor is it the place but can think back about it all later and enjoy more. I love seeing the wife in the stirrups. See looks so hot.

Never going to happen, no way.

My husband is always with me