Yeah I got spanked growing up I would say all of them were for not obeying, in one form or other, same with the handful of spankings Ive given out to my son over the years
3-6 from mum or grandma, it was all over very quickly with them, like, whoosh - trousers & pants down, up over a lap, slap slap slap slap slap, waaaah! and in the corner for 5 minutes to cool off with my little red bum still on display O.o !!!
from the age of 6 my dad took over the job, except once at 8 I was arguing with my mum over something or other and I went a bit too far, she picked up a flat round plastic hairbrush and chased me upstairs swatting at my bottom and occasionally connecting, when we got to my room she pushed me down on the bed, pulled my pants down and really set fire to my bare bum with that thing, ouch!! I laugh about that one now though 😉
anyway, spankings from my dad were a whole different thing, I would be sent to my room and when he came in I would be talked to about my misbehavior and told that I would be spanked, then I would have to pull down my own trousers and underpants and lay over my bed with my feet hanging off, then he would spank me with his massive hand, I would usually get 20 - 30 swats in an average spanking and man it hurt, a few times when I was older I got spanked with an old gym plimsoll, that was easily my most hated implement ever, I once got the belt for doing something really stupid when I was 12 and I would even say that the plimsoll was worse than that, although that may have been due to the fact that i was older when i got the belt and had not been spanked for nearly 2 years, afterwards I would be left in my room to cry and cool off, when I stopped crying my dad would come in and comfort me and we would talk more about what happened. more often than not I felt like they were deserved and I didnt resent my dad in any way at the time or since, I always felt loved and had a great relationship with my dad, much like I do with my son about 30 years on 😃