That's the only reason I'm spanked and have been spanked, almost every reason I earn a spanking falls under being disobedient. Not following rules, doing chores when told, swearing, talking back, lying, staying out later then I was supposed to, spending when I shouldn't, ext. The degree to which these rules are broken, is the extend of the punishment I get. Spankings(almost always), bare bottom, with bare hand or belt/paddle/ext, corner time, mouth washed out, diaper punishment, loss of privledges(only work & school), extra chores, ext. The rules are written out and when broken if I don't come clean and he finds out later, it's only worse for me, being obident and following rules is hard at times, but the punishments for not sometimes makes it easier to remember. Being 24, and having my bare bottom spanked red and any following punishments, being diapered, having to stand in the corner, ext, makes being obident the better or the two. But as anyone who's been spanked or punished for breaking rules or being disobedient knows, it's not always easy, and a sore butt is but one reminder why breaking rules can have far more painful consequences for some.