Did anyone ever receive a spanking for not obeying

I most certainly was spanked when disobeying a very clear direction not to do something. The most memorable spanking was when my bedroom wood floor had been sanded down and varnished and I was told not to walk on it.

Well, my next door neighbor friend came over and called out for me as usual and I put my hand on the floor and it seemed dry except for it being slightly sticky and I walked softly across it and stuick my head out the window to answer my friend. Well long story short, I got caught red handed at the window by my mother and she pointed out slight markings on the newly finished floor where I had walked.

I was sent to the spare bedroom without any supper and advised that I could think about my disobedience. She then told me that after supper was over and the dishes were done, that she would be up to take me over her knee for a bare bottom spanking that I would not likely forget for quite some time.

I thought about the spanking that was going to happen much more than what it was for as I knew I was in deep trouble. It seemed like forever before my mother came up upstairs with the dreaded hairbrush in hand. She then lectured me about my disobedience and took me over her knee and lowered my pants and panties exposing my bottom and upper thighs down to my knees.

Let me say, I howled from the very first stroke of the brush and by the time my extra long and hard spanking was over, I was reduced to total submission crying crocodile tears like a 2 years old. My bottom was literally burning like it was on fire. I was then sent to bed with a very red bottom and that was sore for at least a couple of days. Sitting down was so uncomfortable. That was the worst spanking that I ever got but it was the most effective in correcting my misbehavior. Denise

Receiving a spanking for not obeying has been the most normal punishment in my childhood. I think that by inserting soapsticks, giving high volume enemas or by forcing a child to swallow an effective laxative this will be worse.

I grew up in an era where children were spanked when they misbehaved. My parents, like those of my friends, did not spare the rod. They did not hesitate to spank me when I disobeyed or my attitude needed adjustment.

The most memorable spanking was when my bedroom wood floor had been sanded down and varnished and I was told not to walk on it.

Well, my next door neighbor friend came over and called out for me as usual and I put my hand on the floor and it seemed dry except for it being slightly sticky and I walked softly across it and stuick my head out the window to answer my friend.

I can't get my head around the actual physical situation. It sounds like you were still IN the room when it was drying. Otherwise why not walk to another window and look out to your friend?

I sincerely hope no one would put their children in a room drying with varnish.

Yes many times, especially when I was a teen. But eventually learning to follow the rules meant it didn't happen a lot anymore.

I was spanked for not obeying or having a fit. I was spanked over jeans mostly with bare hand, ruler or yard stick which really hurt.

Jim

That was the Main reason for getting spanked actually.

Yup, sure did.

Yes, that was the main reason from my parents. Once when outside, from an older lady for "talking back" to her... That was back in the 1950's when adults would something spank a kid who was not theirs.

Yes, that was the main reason from my parents. Once when outside, from an older lady for "talking back" to her... That was back in the 1950's when adults would something spank a kin who was not theirs.

That was also when 'talking back' was defined as kids asking a reasonable question when grown-ups said something incomprehensible, nonsensical, contradictory or just plain stupid or incorrect ...

In our house it was the wood coat hanger on the butt. Mom was the spanker. I was a miscreant getting a spanking several times a year. Our main baby sitter could and did spank us. She crossed the line to abuse, when I was ten and a half. I got dirty playing in the mud when I was strictly enjoined to stay clean. She was angry, because she was going to have to wash the dirty clothes. She stripped off my clothes in the laundry room, and washed off the mud; we were modest in our home & I was upset and being exposed not only to her, but to my sister, and resisted. She hand spanked me right there, my sister watching. I was then taken to my room for a coat hanger spanking over the knee. I'd never had a bare skin spanking; I remember it as extremely painful. When I got up she made me take my hands off my groin, taunted me for my arousal, then to increase the shame touched me. She told my mother I'd gotten dirty, that she'd taken off my clothes and spanked me. A couple months later I hit my sister in a fight and the babysitter stripped and spanked me naked, followed by touching again. This time she was fired.

While many people shrug off trauma, I didn't. My therapist is sure the incidents were a root cause of fears of women in authority, but wanting to be punished & exposed.

I got spanked for not obeying when I was told to stop doing something but didn’t. For instance, if my brothers and I were being crazy and my parents would say “stop rough housing before one of you guys gets hurt” or “stop antagonizing your brother.” Then, sure enough, one of us would take it too far and something would get broken or someone would get hurt then someone would be getting spanked. But for instance if we were out of school for the day and we were given chores or whatever, if things weren’t done, we weren’t ever spanked for that sort of disobedience. We would more likely lose privileges or have our bikes or toys locked away and have to earn them back. Sometimes that was worse than being spanked. The worst was when my parents made me stain their deck before I could hang out with the neighborhood kids.

Oh yes you could almost say I'm an oppositional defiant. I never wanted to do what anybody said. There's a lot of times I got beat especially at school.

Yes I did several times mostly just not doing what I was suppose to be doing it didn’t happen weekly but there were plenty of times growing up I was disciplined/spanked for not obeying my parents.

Yes, as a kid from my parents and elder brother (he is several years senior) and in my adolescent years from my sister-in-law (his wife). She was super strict.

My boyfriend spanks me now for disobedience sometimes. Especially, for being careless about my medication.

When I saw this topic I thought to myself, "what other reason could there be?"

One actually does stand out - I believe I was lagging while getting ready for school. My mother asked me to do, or get something, and when we were very close to leaving and it still wasn't done, I realized I had messed up. I ran for the bathroom to get ready quickly, but she stopped me with a hand on my chest. She bent me over in front of the bathroom door and gave me a hard spanking with her hand, about ten times. I remember her arm swinging up, the sound of her hand and how it felt with nothing over my bottom except those thin pajamas. I had made her so angry! It must have worked though, I don't remember getting ready slowly again, haha.

Yes i have had quite a few of those of my aunt for doing as she told me straight so first i got the glare and knew i was in trouble, next out came the hairbrush and i knew i had to stand in front of her while she undressed me from the waist down and then i had to lay across her lap and she would tell me lay properly as the hairbrush hit my bare bottom so i adjusted myself till she was happy and then the telling off started saying i was so disobedient and the amount of times she had to spank me for the same offence was not on and that my bottom would be getting it's just desserts and maybe this time i would obey her but i always thought it would happen again no matter how hard i tried.

Yes i have had quite a few of those of my aunt for doing as she told me straight so first i got the glare and knew i was in trouble, next out came the hairbrush and i knew i had to stand in front of her while she undressed me from the waist down and then i had to lay across her lap and she would tell me lay properly as the hairbrush hit my bare bottom so i adjusted myself till she was happy and then the telling off started saying i was so disobedient and the amount of times she had to spank me for the same offence was not on and that my bottom would be getting it's just desserts and maybe this time i would obey her but i always thought it would happen again no matter how hard i tried.

Yes i did.... pants off / bare-assed... face down on the bed and with a belt.... I miss those days... got my last one from my mom when i was about 14... and by then the enemas had already stopped 😢 - i got enemas if I didnt feel well and suspect she stopped when she realized i enjoyed them

Never got a spanking from my parents. My mom used a broom handle.

My Mistress, on the hand, was a different story. I behaved or acted poorly and my punishment was a bare-ass spanking with a paddle. I had never been paddled before that day. To this day, I still do not like paddles. Canes, crops, floggers... love them! Paddles... NOPE!

Pretty regularly. Nothing stung like the wooden spoon.

All the time..that was my biggest thing to be punished for. I was always naked and afraid ..

Fortunately, I rare got spanked. Not because I was always a good kid, but I guess my parents didn't really believe in it. So, whenever it happened it was really scary for me.

Nope. But my Aunt all ways asked me to allow her to paddle me.

...seemed I could never be a good kid....I guess by the time I was ten,they'd whipped all the brattiness out of me.

Yes quite often growing up I would have my underpants took down and spanked for not obeying.

Yup and almost always pants completely down, bare ass, with a belt… mom really knew how to make her point. (I miss those days.)

I'm an Oppositional defiant Disorder and I took the swats over doing what that school said every damn time.

I'm an Oppositional defiant Disorder and I took the swats over doing what that school said every damn time.

@Mental_Patient Well, I just learned something! Had to google and learned ODD is what I've had since a boy! Interesting, thinking back all times it got me into awkward situations that I would then regret.