Did anyone ever receive a spanking for not obeying

When I was foolish enough not to obey my mom, no questions asked, over her knee I would go. This happened to me frequently up to the age of 21. Mom always said I would never be too big or two old to go over her knee, when needed, and I did many times.

Only ever once! We were at a communal swimming pool and I kept splashing my sister and her friends despite repeated warnings from my Mom not to! Eventually I was summoned out of the pool and in front of about two dozen people was put across Mom's knee where, with my trunks nestling around my ankles, I had my bare butt soundly spanked with her hand. Twenty or so good hard slaps had me howling, sobbing and promising to behave myself. At the end of the spanking as I retrieved my trunks from the swimming pool, after my gyrating legs had kicked them there, Mom told me to never, ever, EVER, disobey her again!!! Something I never did! At least in not such a flagrant manner anyway! LOL From then on any disobedience was of a more sneaky and underhand kind anyway! Not that it saved my butt from many more even worse blisterings, mind you!

Yep, more times then I can count.

My mum and da are very firm believers in spanking kids when they did not obey.

My mother would wait till we get home, tell me to bend over and belt away. If she was truely pissed, she'd use a broom or wet me before dishing out the belt.

My father tended towards his sandal or his hand and usually did it in the moment.

My big sister also used the belt, but for the most part only gave out punishments.

In my last year at primary school, we were playing football at break time and the ball went over the school railings into the road. I went out to get it and was caught by the teacher on break duty. She was a student teacher and so I totally disregarded her telling me to give the ball to her and go inside. I felt quite clever with all the other boys laughing at her and she was almost in tears.

However, on the way back to class after break, I was stopped by one of the most feared teachers in the school and he told me to come to the staff room. The student teacher was there and obviously she had told him what had happened. I was really scared and did not hesitate when he told me to apologise to her. He then proceeded to put me over his knee, pulling down my short trousers and underpants and began smacking my bared bottom right there in front of her. It made the situation a thousand times worse knowing she watching my bare bottom being soundly smacked, as I kicked my legs wildly and pleading for clemency between sobs.

He spanked me really hard only stopping occasionally to discuss the proceedings with her and take encouragement from her remarks to make sure I would be too sore to sit for the rest of the day or to comment as to the degree of redness to my bottom. Whilst all I could do was lay over his lap with my bottom poking up not daring to move but offering it up to be spanked further with increased ferocity and to her utter delight.

I could also see her in the reflection of one of the glass bookcase doors, standing with arms folded, smirking and really enjoying the sight of each sound smack to my very tender behind. I am sure revelling in her revenge, now laughing at me as she watched my being cut well and truly down to size in a way that only getting my bottom smacked over a teacher’s knee could do. I was no longer the tough guy of whom she could not excerpt control; but now I was just this naughty school boy getting his bottom soundly spanked over Sir’s knee,

When it was over I got off his lap I caught her softly giggling as I kept fumbling in my haste to pull up my pants . She followed me out of the Staff Room, stopping me to explain the spanking was for being disobedient and I could expect the same again if there was a next time.

I was not normally disobedient as a girl but there was one time, I wanted to go with my b/f to our friend's party. I knew very well I would be home after 10, which was the time I had to come home by on school days and I knew what I would face when I got home. I arrived home after midnight, crept in but was confronted by my Mother who came out from the lounge. She had the dreaded wooden backed bathbrush in her hand, said very little and just led me into the lounge.

I did not need to be told what do and just went ahead bent myself .over the back of the dining room chair, which she had already up placed against the table, stuck my bottom out and tried resolutely to take it all without a fuss. I was to fail miserably!. She pulled my knickers down and I got the hardest spanking ever, leaving me black and blue for ages.

Did anyone ever receive a spanking for not obeying?

Isn't that the reason why you get spanked???

Isn't that the reason why you get spanked???

You know, from all of the replies and posts and answers that I read here, it seems that most people get a spanking because they want to get spanked, because they LIKE it. The 'not obeying' part is just playacting to get to the spanking itself. It is part of a necessary prelude leading up to the spanking.

So much of what I read seems to be very avoidable activity: talking back, 'forgetting' to do something, being messy or whatever cockamamie excuse people invent to initiate a spanking. Yet still they keep on doing it because it leads to a pleasurable spanking.

Which is of course good for them if they enjoy it. But they're not fooling me about the 'reason' why.

You know, from all of the replies and posts and answers that I read here, it seems that most people get a spanking because they want to get spanked, because they LIKE it. The 'not obeying' part is just playacting to get to the spanking itself. It is part of a necessary prelude leading up to the spanking.

The cane was very much in use during my schooldays. It was given across the palm of the hand in front of the class.

In my last year at school my geography teacher, the only young teacher and one of three females, was dissatisfied with one of my essays. She offered me a choice of a caning in front of class or a private punishment. I chose the latter, knowing full well it would be across my buttocks, and remained behind after my classmates left for break. I was told to bend over and received six firm whacks fully dressed. A few weeks later the same teacher told me to remain after class. Instead of the cane I received a stern lecture. I was not trying hard enough and my work had become sloppy. Then she asked me if I wanted to be caned. I said "no". and at at that moment knew that I really did want to be caned and my work had suffered. I spent the rest of break rewriting my essay and never handed in poor work again.

Always! Sometimes about twice a week!

An exchange between a super I haven't seen since he moved away and me. He recently moved back nearer to me:

Frome to him.

That was one of the greatest sessions I have ever had. You evens stopped the spanking and punished me further for not following some instruction. You seemed to enjoy it as well especially after you got me on the dining room table.

I will be up in that area in a couple of weeks and would love to undergo another session of your "tender mercies" to my ass.

I have neve seen the number of instruments you had lined up in your living room when I arrived.

From him to me.

Yeah, you probably forgot to say Sir so I paddled you very hard for that. :

From me to him.

Yes, that could have been my infraction. I just remember you had me otk, spanking me with something and I broke one of your rules, then you stood me up a used a fairly large paddle and gave me several hard licks like I was a misbehaving schoolboy, then you continued with a series of other instruments.

What would make it even more interesting would be to do the same thing if I break a rule, then after I am spent and not wanting further spanking you give double what the original punishment was. That should keep me on my toes, that would be a very real punishment.

I probably will be up there around the 13th though the 15th. What is you schedule like?

Thanks

From me to him again.

I really look forward to submission to you next week. I like the idea of you administering real punishment during and after, even if I am spent and don't want a paddle near my ass, that is when it dose me the most good. A spanking as a build up is great, a spanking after there is no longer any sexual build up is pure punishment and should be administered for the spankee's own good. God, I hate getting it then but one should hate punishment, but take it as that is the most important part. It really make one feel better afterward and the dread of knowing you are going yo get it is a super turn on.

Thanks for listing to the rambling sir.

Rob

You know, from all of the replies and posts and answers that I read here, it seems that most people get a spanking because they want to get spanked, because they LIKE it. The 'not obeying' part is just playacting to get to the spanking itself. It is part of a necessary prelude leading up to the spanking.

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It can be very complex. I love milder spanking like the idea and everything to do with them. The harder ones I crave emotionally I can't say I get pleasure from them indeed I hate it while it is happening. I know kids and adults exhibit behaviour that prompts spankings, consciously or subconsciously. Oftentimes it purely is a game. But my husband who is not into spanking picked up my wet towel off of the shower bench and whacked me twice with it hard. I was a little 'not the time' attitude but I haven't left my towel there again. So sometimes something more real happens. In a way I did get a couple welts with a wet towel for not obeying my husbands wishes. Don't resent it and I have finally started to always hang up my towel after a shower. So a win win.

I think all my childhood spankings were for disobeying in some way or other. At home it was fairly frequent by my mum, though in all fairness she usually gave me a warning first but not always. At school it was generally for just messing about and making a nuisance of myself in general. Corporal Punishment was banned in UK schools in the late 80s and although very common in my primary school, it was rarely used when I started juniors in 1984. I think I was 11 or 12 when I was last spanked (slipper) at school and around the same time at home. Though when I was about 15 my dad gave me a clip around my ear and I’m not proud to say I hit him back.

Not obeying covered a lot of misbehavior when I was a kid and my brothers and I were always spanked growing up.

Same at school. Always attended schools where paddling was the go-to punishment for boys of all ages. It was quick and easy for the teachers and coaches and no paperwork required. Violating school rules was the same as not obeying but if you were asking if I ever did something that I had been told not to do just before I did it, then that was true too. Examples were running in the hallways, fighting or horsing around after being told to stop, being late to class repeatedly after being told to be on time, talking in class after being told to shut up, making fun of a teacher behind their back, or the classic talking back to a teacher after being told to shut up. A trip to the hallway or the principal's office or the locker room followed by a hard paddling resulted.

At home, the same kinds of not obeying got us in trouble enough to earn a spanking. Not shutting up when a parent was already mad was sure to result in a trip to our bedroom for a paddling or spanking. Worse when we were teens and just couldn't keep our mouths shut.

At home, the same kinds of not obeying got us in trouble enough to earn a spanking. Not shutting up when a parent was already mad was sure to result in a trip to our bedroom for a paddling or spanking. Worse when we were teens and just couldn't keep our mouths shut.

I am often so amazed that members when young didn't learn to pick up on the conditions and actions and behavior that would inevitably lead to a spanking. I mean, how difficult can it be to remember something like that?

Now, I wasn't an angel, but I did learn to be sneaky as can be and hardly ever get caught as a happy consequence. I suppose I also learned to control my feelings around grown-ups and never let them get the better of me, rules and regulations-wise.

AG might be hard to believe but kids often seem to do things on purpose they know will lead to a spanking. I am not sure if it's seeing how far they can push their parents or some innate desire for a good spanking. I have seen a young kid in my teen years goad and behave so annoyingly to be seeming to beg for some attention. Whether it was a spanking grounding or something else I was sure before the day was over the boy was going to be in for it.. I think I heard the Dad say keep it up and you will be sorry, but not too sure what happened.

Now we are not talking about a boy jerking off, which we all know isn't likely going to stop no matter how many times he is punished. As an aside I do remember hearing about one man (18yo the day before he left for the army) who was spanked by his Dad for masurbation but since he was jerking off into his sisters panties it did have bad optics even though he said he was thinking of other girls and not his sister. He felt it was unfair I pointed out that his Dad may have assumed he had inappropriate feelings for his sister.

What kid always obeyed his parents all the time?---that kid doesn't happen to be me.-----and I paid the price too. (and so does my grandchildren)

What kid always obeyed his parents all the time?---that kid doesn't happen to be me.

Just so you don't get the wrong idea about me being a goody-goody gum drop, I too did not always obey my parents (like going to certain parts of town, buying comics, mags, books and things they disapproved of, not eating my friggin' spinach/broccoli/Brussels sprouts, being diligent about homework, playing with matches, lying and so on).

But I made darn sure to reduce the chance of getting caught to as low a factor as possible, by never directly challenging parents or authority figures, behaving correctly/politely when observed etc. Also by doing those things behind their backs, by subterfuge and being sneaky and by planning ahead.

Maybe that made me a worse kid morally ... ha ha. But I just didn't see the percentage in direct challenges and overt behavior. Too many downsides. Especially when you are young.

Now, at present, I can explain this rationally and a bit analytically, but at the time of course most of my actions were more or less instinctive. Which makes others kid's behavior as described here, seem all the more odd and strange to me. Couldn't they clearly see what the future held in store for them if they continued their present behavior? I guess not, which is why even many adults still make bad decisions by not thinking through the consequences.

I remember a girl I knew describing the fact she was going to do "x" and was almost certainly going to result in her Dad spanking her. She seemed resigned to it and said to her friend it's not that bad, I was no longer being spanked but couldn't imagine doing something I knew would result in a spanking. I had almost completely forgot about that. There were times I pushed things, and spankings were realatively rare for me growing up. I was for the most part a fairly good kid, I do wish my parents were a bit more consistent in application of discipline because looking back on it I see how beneficial it was to my behaviour.. And while I said I have seen kids virtually beg for it by behaviour, I was almost never one of them. One time when visiting Flintstone Park I remember in the gift shop seeing a bunch of paddles hanging there, They were in my mind a joke fully, because I had never been spanked anyway other than by hand and had never heard of anyone spanked with anything other than hand or belt. It was two different ones "FOR THE CUTE LITTLE DEER WITH THE BEAR BEHIND" paddle with a little deer and bear on it and one with a little fly with a red bum that said "FOR SWATTING LITTLE PESTS" These were with all the toys and felt very out of place. My Dad pointed them out and said something like we should buy one you've been asking for it all week. I am sure I turned several shades of red and thought my behaviour improved the rest of that trip. Although thinking about it I think my behaviour improvement had more to do with seeing the campground owners son be spanked. And hearing Dad say you'll get the same if you don't start behaving. The boy and I went back to playing within a half an hour. I received a few threats but no spanking on that vacation.

I got it a few times for not obeying. My mom's favorite was the oversized Franklin paddle. She found it in the basement rec room of the house my parents had just bought for us. It went straight to the kitchen junk drawer and, according to one of my sisters, is still there, despite our ages now. -Gabi

Yes. many times as a kid. Dad had a swift hand and a leather belt and when he took off the belt it was truly memorable. Nothing erotic or fun for sure. When my sister got it it was wild.

I know me and I sister did. That was all done by mom. Daddy never touched us. The spankings were more like a swat on the ass with a hand. The older we got it was grounding. I have to say I can only remember two spankings. My sister who is two years older than me got a lot. I think that is why I didn't get many. I learned from my sister. LOL.

I got spanked when I did wrong. It depended on I did wrong. Sometimes it was a belt, wooden spoon, fly swatter, or a yard stick. My dad never got me with those things. 98% of the time, it was his hand on my rear end.

I did not know this but my family and I lived in a rental house for 3 years and I used sling all the belts, wooden spoons, yard sticks, and the fly swatters behind my mom's dresser and they all stayed there for 3 years until day we move out. Whenever I did wrong and when my mom went to find one of those items, she could not find them.

Now as a grown man, I don't believe in spanking a child for private reasons but, I would take away a toy because, that is also something that happened to me as well like getting a toy or a CD taken away for a week. I was never grounded as a teen because I always bailed from it.

I got plenty of spankings for not obeying as a kid. As an adult I guess you could say I ask for it.

First off it's been so long since I been here I zigged when I should not have and accidentally flagged a nice German lady, Monika. I could stand some spanking time. #40 I think. Her post was fine. In fact I wish we lived in the same country :p

Yes I was spanked as a lil kid for not minding. It was the 1950s-60s. Usually my sis and me screwed up together so we got our punishment at the same time. Yes it was a regular standard procedure. First mom would tie into us and yell or give us the "I can't have anything nice" drama. Then off to our rooms to think about what we'd done how sorry we were.. shaming us to behave. When dad got home it took about 45m for them to discuss what happened this time. Then dad would march us down to the basement (fully finished and furnished. My room was downstairs. BEST room a kid could have.) Especially as I got older.

Dad would be quite solemn and I don't remember him saying much. He'd remove his belt and had me and sis bend over a spare bed. One time I got caught with 2 wallets in my back pockets. I was already carrying a wallet like dad but I never pulled that again. Dad had me pull my Sears Roebuck jeans down and take my medicine with my pants down. It's one of my favorite childhood memories.

When I learned the f word and tried it on for size at moms sisters house I discovered just how foul Ivory Bar Soap tasted. It was applied with toothbrush in a vigorous fashion and as much as I squirmed I was in the powerful clutches of Aunt Beth and she held me firm. Better to have a Stinkbug with a mouthful of raspberry's and THAT was foul as well.

As I got older and attitude came into play spankings stopped so the folks had to get inventive. I learned. Often I got a haircut. Or Restriction and extra chores. To my dads credit he never missed. Always right on the fanny.

One time I got caught with 2 wallets in my back pockets. I was already carrying a wallet like dad but I never pulled that again. Dad had me pull my Sears Roebuck jeans down and take my medicine with my pants down. It's one of my favorite childhood memories.

What is the hideousness of having 2 wallets? I don't understand the transgression. Perhaps you think in terms of redundancy and your father didn't?

You have odd favorite memories, if getting wacked with a belt is one ...

@agracier: often times Americans carry their wallets in their back pockets, even though it can cause back issues. A thick piece of leather in the back pocket might have been put there as "armor".

@agracier: often times Americans carry their wallets in their back pockets, even though it can cause back issues. A thick piece of leather in the back pocket might have been put there as "armor".

I carry my wallet in my back pocket, always have. But cause back problems???? You've lost me.

And if someone is going to start whipping you with a belt (patent leather or not) I doubt if a wallet is going to make much of difference. But I do see the general point, so tnx.

@agracier, they say the wallets can cause back problems in men (mostly) because most of the time they are very thick, causing them to sit weird in their chairs (if they have a sit down all day kind of a job). The way they sit, isn't ergonomically correct, and it can cause problems. I often wonder if this "ergonomically correct" business came about just so people can sell their products (thinner wallets, for example).

I got my butt spanked quite a bit when I was a kid. I remember kicking a fit in the grocery store once. I was probably four or five. My mom dragged me out, kicking and screaming, to the car and spanked my bare butt right there in the parking lot where the whole world could see. I remember other times getting spanked but I remember not being sure what I did wrong. I remember my grandma spanking me and one of my cousins (she was an adult and she thought I didn't stay in her yard like she had said to. It was her kid that didn't stay in the yard! She spanked us both!). I was spanked by my aunts and I was spanked at school (those were the worst!). I grew up in the 70's and that was how kids were disciplined then.

Isn't that what a spanking is for? Yes, certainly I was corrected if I disobeyed a rule I knew of by my mother. If it was the second time for the same offense, the spanking was far more thorough. From my perspective, a third time never occurred.

Yes, that’s how I learned to follow the rules. If I was breaking a rule I knew that there were consequences for my actions.