What is the most arousing part of an Enema?

The introduction of the lubricant into my anus by my mother would start my arousal. Then the slow insertion of the nozzle of the bulb or Higgenson syringe or the long colon tube. At that point I knew that I would get the enema whether I wanted it or not. I would get more aroused by enemas that I didn't want. The nozzle or tube violating my lubricated hole to deliver an enema that I would have to retain and not be allowed to expel aroused me even more. Likewise small purgative enemas that produced gas inside causing cramps until I was allowed to expel them starting with an uncontrollable gush and followed by many more. All the while seeing mom filling the bag with warm soapy water that would soon flood my rectum and colon to wash out the carminative enema and cause me more cramps. And finally the rinse enema sometimes followed by an herbal distention enema delivered by a long colon tube that was uncomfortable yet arousing at the same time. I enjoyed masturbating to these enemas most of all, after I was full or mom finished syringing me and left.

I enjoyed masturbating to these enemas most of all.

@alberto6536 You masturbated in front of your Mom?

After the enema was syringed and mom left, yes I masturbated while holding it in

The most arousing part for me would be when I am told I need an enema and I was not expecting it. Then having lubrication applied and massaged in. Then the nozzle....

These are absolutely incredible responses. I had no idea that this site had these things.

It is so terribly validating to read others, saying the kinds of things that I felt myself!

As far as the question about the most arousing part goes, I think seeing her holding the bag and telling me she's going to give it to me is very arousing. But also, her parting my cheeks and sliding in the nozzle.

The most sensation, oddly enough, is when she first turns on the water at the beginning. The water rushes in and I can feel it very strongly. The sensation is incredible. Unfortunately, after I start to fill up the sensation near the tip moves on to where I can't really feel it anymore. I like it and it's pressure, but nothing like the very beginning.

When we've used them as prep for ass play, the most erotic part would have to be my wife going down on me while I receive the enema. These are small enemas that I take standing with her kneeling, although once or twice we've actually screwed (with me on top) while I took a larger volume. If it's just I taking a series solo, though, then there's no specific moment that's any more sensuous then another. I usually set aside at least three or four hours for a series when I have the time to myself, my wife not being into enemas for anything other than preliminary clean-out. The various steps and details of these more protracted interludes, from the time I undress to the time I put the equipment away, all combine into one experience, I guess, quietly sensuous and sometimes powerfully erotic.

Anticipation, Preparation, an insertion of the nozzle is the most arousing. Expelling is usually the after glow having reached the mountain top during the actual enema. In a word...PHEW..that was great!! Denise

Several of you have mentioned some sort of pain from the water.

Is that part of your experience that you care about? Or is it just something you have to tolerate?

Thank you

For me it's the preparation (being told it's time / undressing / seeing the items gathered) and then the insertion and I also really love expelling at the end. The filling is fun but usually I get focused on holding it in and the cramps so my mind wanders less.

If given ab enema would like to hear the words, are you ready for your enema? Can you feel it going in? Are you full ? Do you want to empty? Listen to the words spoken in this video, won't be there for long

https://youtu.be/Pas_MXGGCa4

For me it’s the pleasure of holding a coffee enema, which these days easily leads to a series of prostate orgasms while retaining. My last one I experienced about 8-9 prostate orgasms (lost count lol) during the 20 minute retention. It was a long journey to get to this point, but well worth it!

I wrote about the journey here: https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=blog;ox=showpage;pg=9035

The lead up to it, knowing you're going to get one.

None. Nothing whatsoever, is even remotely arousing about an enema. Not even a little bit. Quite the opposite. I’m fairly amused, slightly grossed out, and taken aback by how often this curious topic pops up throughout various discussion threads here. I don’t get it—the connection between sex and cleaning poop from one’s butt—but hey, I’m all for it if it turns you on, and you’re into it.

The moment you are restrained legs spread that nice big balloon nozzle is inflated and u are so full water flowing and u can do nothing about it... the moment you know you have fully no control and you are now at the mercy of your dr dom who decides your fate and whrn you will release and then that one spare moment he let's it go in humiliating increments making you writhe in painful pleasurable bliss

My arousal begins with separation of my cheeks revealing my anus then the slow insertion of the enema tube deep into my rectum. The relaxing feeling of emptying my bowels. All are very arousing for me.

@jpfamg I too experienced what you described about not feeling the rush at your opening after the initial start of the enema. What I did was ask my wife to hold the end of the nozzle with her fingers resting right up against my opening. This way, you get the feeling that she is really giving you the enema. Also, my wife likes to feel my opening go into spasms when I have my orgasm.

Hi Lady...,

After reading all the posts... and thinking my own Thought's!! it's a "Toss Up!!" BUTT!!!!!!!!! Why are we here!! Why is this thought in such presence in our mind???? Probably because in our early daze our MOTHER took the time to make when we needed an ENEMA something "Not to be Feared!!" She was gentle and kind and above all it did not "HURT!!!!!!" (LIKE when the doctor gave you a shot in the butt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) and for that you were thankful!! SO i have to say That and the being gentle introducing the enema tip into our bottom with a little TLC probably cinched the deal!!... BUTT!! back then ! it was not AROUSING!!!!! but there was a Trivial tinkle that stuck in our young minds that ....NEVER LEFT and when we grew up to become "SEXUAL PEOPLE!!" ....we "Remembered!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

With a "Klick!!!!!!!!" of that little white klip!!!!,

highwater

When my siblings and I were growing up in the nineteen fifties, we received enemas two or three time a month when needed. We didn’t like using the restrooms at school, so we waited until we got home. Hence, our constipation issues. For the most part, when mom suspected we were constipated. Depending on the circumstances, she took our temperature rectally first, then did a digital recital exam with her finger buried deep in our rectum. If she founded one of us constipated, we all received a soapy followed by a rinse enema. That was the normal routine she used, during the school year at least once a week, to check for constipation. Something we didn’t mind, being anal erotic, it scratched that itch. We didn’t understand all the feelings, but it felt good, naughty, and weird all rolled together.

Then there were occasions, mom didn’t follow the normal routine. She’d come in the room where we were, dressed only in a nightgown, telling us something like, “I think y’all could use an enema. Go to your bedroom and get things ready.” Just her tell us that, gave us weird feelings we didn't understand. It felt good, but naughty at the same time. As we got undressed and got things ready, mom went to the bathroom and fix a rinse enema. By the time my brother and I got in position on the bed, our sister was giggling, because we were both sporting a hard-on sticking straight up.

When mom came in the bedroom carrying a full enema bag, we were all laying across the bed on our backs. On those occasions, we each had to try and take as much of the full bag as possible, pushing our volume limits. Those enemas out of the blue, felt good but naughty, even more so than normal enemas. Something we enjoyed but didn’t totally understand. Giving us feelings more intense than usual. We also, didn’t understand why mom telling us, we’re going to get an enema, turned us on. Something we didn’t realize, until we were going through puberty, a number of years later.

I'm not sure where to post this, but I'll just put it here.

I'm struck reading through these how similar experiences with enemas are among people who have posted. The only place I've ever seen this before was a long time ago on a couple of sites that are now gone, where they had good moderation.

I think this is so valuable because I imagine most of us have been self-conscious about our love for enemas. At least, I always was. I think it is so helpful that other people are reporting the same kinds of experiences and sensations!

While Fet tries to be a great forum, the lack of moderation there has run me off every time. I have a partner and I'm not searching for one, but I do like sharing with women as well as men. My experience has been that once women start to post (which is probably hard for them.) they get jumped on by guys that start being crude and inviting meeting or worse, sending ridiculous photographs of enema nozzles, musicians coming up and their own anatomy.

It's great that that stuff's not happening here and that people are being respectful

Hello Rick,

I am impressed and thinking about your post regarding your mother giving enemas to you and your siblings. In the ones that she just announced without any seeming medical reason, was there any other thing that caused her to give these enemas?

I do know that in those days enemas were common and talked about it casually since everyone got them. Everybody on my block got in Us and my mother used to discuss them with other people's mothers as if you might be discussing laundry or something. It wasn't thought of. It's anything unusual because we all got them and got them frequently.

I'm wondering if your mother thought that would be helpful for some sort of calming or other benefit? My pediatrician liked the fact that I gave myself enemas when I was sick. I also am confident that they treated my high strong personality better than any drug, as they still do.

Sometimes mothers see things and don't even really understand why they're doing something but the fact that your mother did this and gave them to all of you makes me wonder what she noticed that was beneficial.

@jpfamg said,

I'm wondering if your mother thought that would be helpful for some sort of calming or other benefit?

Growing up in the nineteen fifties, mom and dad's house only had two bedrooms and one bathroom. Hence, my siblings and I shared a bedroom until our mid to late teens. So, nudity between us wasn’t an issue. In the course of daily life, we saw each other naked just about every day.

When mom gave us enemas, up until age nine or ten, we got them laying across our bed together. It was simply more convenient that way, plus it gave her more control. After she moved us to the bathroom for enemas, she started letting us help give each other enemas. Over a number of months, this routine slowly evolved into my siblings and I giving one another enemas under her supervision.

As for enemas out of the blue, my siblings and I realized mom used rainy days as an excuse to give us enemas occasionally, that weren’t truly necessary. As for her reasons, your guess is as good as ours. We have absolutely no clue. However, I’ll say this, my siblings and I preferred them over routine enemas. She took her time, going slower than usual, cutting down on cramps almost completely even though the volume was larger. Plus, being anal erotic, they scratch that unique itch.

Thank you for the reply. I think that's quite interesting.

I have read quite a bit as most of us have, and there are enormous benefits from the hormones released by an enema. I just couldn't believe some of it. But it was in medical literature, so I suppose it was true.

It was clear to me as a kid that they were miraculous for my emotions and perhaps your mother sensed that they helped the three of you. Just a wild guess!

I have been absolutely dependent on enemas to maintain my stability through a lot of of challenging things at work and just in life. I discovered in high school that I could get through difficult times coming home and taking enemas and I'm certain I would've quit college if I didn't have them. (I might've gone home and gone to a local college, which would've done me almost no good.)

I've often try to discuss this side of enemas with people and most don't seem to be interested at one extreme, and at the other, they have even been derisive of me for talking about some benefit of enemas that didn't make sense to them. This stuff is finally now in peer review journals, which is validating.

that does not take away from my interest in enemas as extremely erotic. I'm one of those who have actually had small orgasms just from the water alone!

@Kathy4161

Thank you, you hit the nail on the head. That's exactly how it is for me.

I find the emptying of the enema extremely arousing, when the warm water flows past the prostate on its way out and stimulates it.... occasionally this triggers a mild erection.

For me @Denise has perfectly described my feelings exactly!

Though it's hard to pick just one aspect, but I think that one of the most arousing parts of an enema is the anticipation before it happens. Knowing that I am on a countdown until I get an enema is very exciting for me because I can't stop thinking and fantasizing about it, especially when it's an enema from my Daddy because I get so aroused leading up to when its going to happen. I love the anticipation of knowing that my bottom has a date with a nozzle.

As I'm filling with a modest 2 quarts, let me th8nk about it. I'm watching my amber folding latex bag emptying, what a site. Oh the fill, if I put enough soap in the water, cramps will start soon, then the hold. The best part, it's all good, sharing would make it better though.

I think holding 2 qts for 20-30 minutes as the cramps wash over your body. So great if you have a helper to keep you "amused" while you are holding.

@KingsGambit , Hi, interesting about your Coffee and Orgasm Enemas (note, I didn't use Ejaculation).

I tried a few times over the years to have Coffee Enemas, not just my normal water, baking soda, soap etc.

Just couldn't retain them. I suspect that they were too hot (I now use a cooking thermometer to check between 94-104 F degrees as it seems difficult to judge in Winter time)

I've recently being trying Green Coffee which is not roasted to the normal dark brown, which I like for strong oral coffee.

This seems to be easy to retain and gives that "pulling" feeling after expelling from a 20 minute hold.

So far, no Prostate Orgasm, unfortunately, let alone multi orgasms (you lucky devil you)

I do Orgasm anally when using large toys, NOT ejaculating though unless I stimulate my cock. I do leak LOTS of Pre-cum though.

My Yoga instructor got me onto the Green coffee, as She is a regular user, butt being female, I can't query her about the Prostate orgasms...

Now I'm curious about whether She is having orgasms from the coffee. She has told me that She really enjoys them. (Enemas that is, I'm sure she enjoys orgasms) !

That is going to be a interesting conversation on Friday !!!

Being German, She had them all through childhood, normal liquids, not coffee.

Maybe I'll ask all the students ? mostly Women, so they probably won't know either...

The enema syringe contains an enema solution that causes unbearable diarrhea.And the moment this laxative enema solution is introduced from the anus into the rectumis the best.The time spent enduring cramp and the urge to defecate ,embarrassing moment when I accidentally let diarrhea slip out .Each one is a wonderful experience.

In many cased it is the anticipation leading up to the enema that is very arousing.

When I was a child, if mom decided I needed an enema, it was not fear but some sort of excitement that I felt as I waited for her to give it. I didn't understand it at the time especially since my friends and cousins who also got enemas all said they hated them. Why did I like it?

Later when I was old enough to stay at home when mom and dad went shopping, I couldn't wait for the car to leave the driveway knowing in a few minutes I would be giving myself an enema with the bulb. Why am I getting hard?

And later when I was married, sometimes at work I wondered if tonight I would be able to talk my wife into giving me an enema. And even better, would she let me give her one too?

And after the anticipation, feeling the nozzle slip in, and that first surge of warm water going in was pretty good too.