What is the most arousing part of an Enema?

Rather you are giving or receiving, what step makes you most aroused? Is it the preparation, the waiting before the nozzle is inserted, the actual feeling of the flow, is it holding the solution, or the actual relief of releasing ?

For myself, I definitely get a butterfly feeling preparing the bag, lubing , and getting into a semi comfortable position for what is about to happen. The arousal for me stems from the actual feeling of being filled , the moment before or post cramps.

@Valhalla you describe it perfectly… for me, that urge to do an enema.. getting it ready and then inserting my colon tube and feeling that warmth fill me up. Every sensation from beginning to end.. with hopefully a happy ending.

Feeling the butt cheeks being separated followed quickly by the insertion of the nozzle. Then the feel of the pressure of the solution entering my rectum when my Auntie squeezes the bulb all the while laying totally naked over her lap.

I like the smell of a nice large volume bag full of warm water and a bit of salt. I use a 'E' bucket now days and it has a different 'feel'...That I also enjoy...I like the bulbous 'barium' nozzle that I added to the 'mix' and how it feels as it fits into its 'spot'...The feeling of a nice isotonic solution (sometimes with a bit of brandy...for pain relief...) slowly running into my butt and then the feeling of fullness, retention and eventual release.

My question is: What's not to like:-)?

Que Sera, Sera...

I think that the main points, preparing, lubing, inserting, massaging, can be very arousing both in receiving or giving mode..... expectation can be a factor, for me more as a giver, when I know my receiver will perform in a certain way. Getting my partner to orgasm while I'm working on them is top in my arousing list....

Lubing, "getting into a comfortable position," having my butt facing my giver, and reaching behind myself to hold a cheek open is some of what gets me aroused. Love when I get some contact with my penis from my giver. Finger going straight into my butt feels great, arousing too. All of it is arousing.

When taking an enema, its definitely coming as I hear the sucking sound as the last of the solution leaves the bag. Honorable mention goes to my wife lubing my ass with a gloved, petroleum jelly-slathered finger and then sliding the delrin nozzle inside.

When giving an enema, it was also that her orgasm was the best part followed closely by the lubing and nozzle insertion.

Unfortunately, this was prior to my wife, so a long time ago. My wife strongly dislikes receiving enemas (other than mico enemas from our bidet toilet seat), so it only happens once every couple of years or so when she gets really constipated, she's tried just about everything else, and she's desperate. She can't get there mentally in terms of associating taking enemas with erotic feelings in the best of circumstances, and certainly not when she's been bound up and uncomfortable for days.

Being told "I am going to give you an enema now, have you ever had one before?" "Now roll onto your left side and bring your knees close to your chest, take a deep breath and hold it please". Then the feeling of the nozzle being inserted and the click, rush of soapy water and a little air, and random conversation to distract from the discomfort.

The prep and lead up to the actual enema whether it’s a fleet or bag is definitely the most exciting part! The anticipation as a patient of watching the doctor prep everything. Getting the patient into the proper position including draping them to remind them they only have a gown/sheet from being exposed and it’s only a matter of time before penetration. An honorable mention to the first squeeze of the enema bottle or ‘click’ of the nozzle releasing the water is up there too! Hearing the water flow and make initial contact really gets me going too

One of my favorite things about it is when I first start to fill, the pressure builds up in my rectum first and stays there for a little while since I make the soap strong for a 2 quart first filling. I keep the bag between two and three feet above me so that it doesn’t flow too fast and the pressure lasts longer. The stronger than usual peppermint soap makes the colon resist it and the urge to evacuate is strong. The best part is when the colon can not resist anymore and it takes the first big gulp and then the flow starts flowing and it keeps invading after that.

The anticipation of the nozzle being slid in and being told to strip and get on the bed and turn over on your belly

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I love all aspects of an enema . . .

. . . but the most arousing parts of the enema for me are feeling my wife's fingers prying apart my butt cheeks and then feeling a lubricated finger slowly invading my anus, going in a little, then out a little, then in a little more, then out a little less, repeated until her finger is all the way in, turning and twisting, supposedly to spread the lube around inside my rectum, but, truthfully, to arouse and excite and stimulate me and my ready and willing and sometimes impatient little orifice; followed by the slow insertion of the nozzle, generally a long and/or girthy nozzle that goes deep inside and/or stretches my anus just enough to be perfect..

The insertion of the nozzle. 😃 regards, irrigator333

I like all of it. Many things remind me of getting enemas. In the store getting regular bath soap and see the Ivory soap bars on the shelf. The fleet enema bottles in a box.

The preparation, getting everything ready the feeling of my hole being lubricated, many types of nozzles I have to use and the best thing is the release of the clamp and watching the spinning wheel indicator on the hose leading down to my bottom as I am being filled.

Easy!

The beginning, the end (wonderful if it never ended).

The middle.

The end.

Repeat.

It would be it's over, done or the end stage. Enemas are necessary for many reasons medically and kinks. I really don't enjoy receiving enemas, just not my thing.

Just a good bottom end cleaning for anal activities is good enough for me. The most arousing part for me is the next stage, the excitement of what anal activities is going to happen next.

I remember vividly as a boy maybe I was only 4 or 5 my parents tried everything to help me go. Nothing worked. Suppositories did not work nor did a fleet ready to use enema...They had to try the bag enema. At first I remember being terrified as you can probably imagine. I cried and screamed... No no no I yelled. Oh no. I still remember the slippery feeling in my butt as they stuck the nozzle in my bottom. It did not hurt but felt like nothing I ever felt before. I calmed down as my butt was violated. I guess I figured it was pointless to fight anymore plus I kind of felt numb to emotions. My mom was also calming me by petting my head telling me how proud she was... I also noticed as the enema was flowing into me that it was an incredible sensation. Even at this tender age. Naturally I could not process it all at this young age but I understood once I got over realizing no one was going to hurt me that is felt really great. I believe I was hooked very early on in life. Kind of like hard wired to loving this sensation... I thought I was the only guy in the world like this. But little did I know its quite common.

For me its the before and after. Starting with the equipment prep. Making sure all the bags and hoses are cleaned along with making sure the nozzles holes are unclogged and finally preparing the enema solution is a source of stimulation and pleasure. Then finally after the enemas have been taken and expelled the clean flushed feeling pays for all.😃

Don't you just love the sensation when the enema solution finishes filling the rectum, making you feel like you just have to release, and then the pressure suddenly drops as it flows deep into your descending colon! It's such an erotic rush 🙄 as the enema is really on it's way now! Then rubbing your slowly distending belly to help it flow into the full length of your colon. You're in the enema zone then! The growing sensations are so erotic!

For me it is waiting for the nozzle to be inserted .

My favorite part is the flow. I like warm enemas so the feeling of the spreading warmth is wonderful. I always set up for a slow flow and fill. Add in some nipple play and it is always a good time.

For me it is really hard to say.

Preparing the bag or watching the bag prepared lets me feel the foreboding of what will come.

The insertion of the noozle, first feeling it at the sphincter than feeliing it slowly iinserted into the rectum is alsoo very thrilling.

After that hte fow of the ater inside of me is connected with a lot of excitement.

Also the releasing of the water in the end is very arousing.

Sorry that I cant't pick a favorite.

Seeing my wife hang the bag and then stand there with the nozzle waiting for me to assume the position.

For me, it starts with inserting and inflating my butt plug nozzle. The most arousing part is that initial gush and then it continues to grow as the enema floods my belly. I love feeling bloated and full.

I love a nozzle slathered in lube held for at least a minute outside my already lubed hole. Then the tip slowly inserted. Again, nothing rushed. Once the nozzle tip is in a slow flow begins. The water is given time to begin its work and the full insertion of the nozzle very slowly begins. If I’m getting a colon tube this can seem like it’s taking forever. Once the nozzle is inserted to the hilt the full flow begins and I can feel the warmth and power of the enema.

The entire experience arouses me. It starts when I get my enema bag out of the closet. I set up my bed for the session which is putting a heavy towel on the bed and getting the Vaseline out. Then I go mix the J&J soap with 2 to 4 quarts of warm water. Filling the bag, hanging it gets me ready to go. A good lube of the nozzle and my anus is very exciting. Inserting the nozzle and feeling it for a couple minutes before I open the clip. I totally enjoy feeling the soapsuds water filling me. Of course a little slow masturbation helps bring on the happy ending. It’s all been great for the last 65 years.

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For me it's what @novnot01a just said, so let me reiterate that and add more detail. For me it's hearing that it's going to happen. Even more so in a roleplay session / real medical setting. The doctor announcing that they will be giving me an enema and that sinking feeling in my stomach that is my usual immediate reaction. And the doctor explaining what they are about to do. Like "Ok honey, I'm afraid I will need to give you what is called an enema. I will be flushing your belly from the inside. I need you to lie down on the examination table,... I need you to show me your bottom... I will insert a tube into your bum now..you need to relax". As for many people it's mostly about the stuff going on in my own head.