MEN: Remembering first BJ orgasm.

Do you remember your fist BJ orgasm? I do. My wife had sucked my cock involuntarily for years and coming in her mouth was never going to happen. Then I propositioned a female who I worked with to do some fooling around. She agreed! We met in a local woods and I took a blanket for us. We both undressed and I saw all of her body for the first time. She opened her legs willingly for me and my head was swimming as I looked at her cunt.

We did absolutely everything but fuck that day. I could fuck at home but it was all the other stuff done willingly was what I needed. After a brief 69 she started to suck my cock like I'd never known before. She masturbated me and sucked at the same time.

After a while I knew I was going to come and said to her "I'm gonna come; you ok with that?" The answer was simply "Mmmmmmm". I shot my load down her throat.

She's done it to me maybe a dozen times since. All that was 30-40 years ago.

Anyone else remember their first BJ release?

Oh yes, I absolutely remember the time I got my first BJ. I was 20 and my GF 18, as we were on our way back home by car from a hot night at a disco. It was a quite warm summer night (2 or 3 am), the moon was shining, when I suddenly saw a narrow and dark path away from the main road in an forest area. We were really that hot and horny so I immediately entered this path. The car was almost stopped/parked as she quickly raised my shirt, started kissing me all over and I did the same at her. Then, she quickly opened and stripped off my jeans, pulled him out of my briefs, pulled back the foreskin and started to masturbate and to suck my already quite hard cock. We both enjoyed it a lot and I felt like being in the 7th heaven. As I was close to cum she asked me to spray the whole load of cum into her sperm hungry throat and at the point of no return I was letting it fly. Such a frisky, warm, hot and satisfying night I can never forget.

Never happened for me.

Never happened for me.

Same here, for some reasons, the women I've been with has not been so comfortable about that, and I have not enjoy it so much

Better with hand stimulation and fucking.

@julle1976 I've occasionally come close. I'm slow to reach orgasm. Furthermore, I'm (or at least I was when younger and with harder erections) quite "thick", so, I'm told, it's tiring for the jaw to suck me, so my partners have had to alternate hand and sucking (I climax during the hand part). I also suspect there is a question of technique on their part, I feel their teeth and it's distracting.

To summarize, neither my wife nor myself are getting much out of blowjobs (except as foreplay), we both prefer vaginal intercourse. Handjobs are good too, though I can easily get irritated (again, I prefer the vagina).

Curious: Men, what makes it so good? I've given plenty and I thoroughly enjoy doing so, but I'm curious - for those who prefer to cum from a BJ, why? What makes it better?

I was about 13 or so years old, the neighbor girl and I had been playing “doctor” while she was examining me she leaned down and licked my head before taking it in her mouth. I lasted about 30 seconds before cumming and filling her mouth.

Curious: Men, what makes it so good? I've given plenty and I thoroughly enjoy doing so, but I'm curious - for those who prefer to cum from a BJ, why? What makes it better?

For me blow jobs, and oral contact with all of my genalia is more of a great “edging” tool. I only came once in my wife’s mouth and it was less than an extreme explosion. Plus my wife didn’t particularly enjoy it. But getting me close and finishing off with her hand is more intense. Maybe it’s because her hand covers more of the shaft and exerts more pressure over a larger area. Same is true with vaginal sex. The orgasm is better if I withdraw and finish by hand. On the other hand, it’s more intimate coming inside while holding each other.

Yes, I do. I was 14 and hanging out with a group of good friends all morning into afternoon. We were watching movies that had a few sex scenes in them. After it stopped raining outside we all went outside and into the woods nearby. I got separated from the group with my friends 16 year old sister. I was always flirting around with her and as she and I walked, I brought up the BJ scenes in the movie and she said she has never done that. Not sure what I was thinking but I looked around to make sure we were alone and I dropped my pants (I was already semi hard looking at her) and asked her if she’d like to try. She turned around and looked completely shocked at first but started to give me a handjob and then got down on here knees and OMG….if that really was her first time in my opinion she nailed it. It didn’t take long before I grabbed onto her head and completed a few uncontrollable thrusts forward into her mouth. I felt weak and out of breath even tho I really didn’t do anything. She was a little mad about my holding her head and thrusting but OMG….

Surely A blow job (which is so miss-named as I think it should be called a suck job), is just part of normal sexual activity whether it cums in your mouth or elsewhere. Unfortunately, I cannot remember the first time I did it but it was a big surprise when I obviously went too far and his semen was shot into my mouth!

I think one of the attractions for blowjobs @Nurse_Phillips, is the selfishness of the act. To just lay back and not have to do any of the work and have a very gratifying orgasm. It also feels very good. Different to vaginal, or anal sex, but still very enjoyable.

That being said, I do like to reciprocate as well.

@Savage101 that is fucking hot! Did you get a repeat ever?

Nurse Phillips

Getting a blow job from a woman (never been with a man) is a completely different sensation compared to vaginal intercourse or a simple hand job. Most married men crave blow jobs if they have a girlfriend or visit with a professional. Most wives, even if they did it while dating, end that intimate practice shortly after being married. Girlfriends usually try to satisfy their boyfriend with blow jobs in order to try to keep him "happy" to encourage their relationship, but know it is not needed after marriage. An age old complaint by most husbands.

My first expense with a blow job was with my 1st girlfriend when I was just 16 and she was 18. She would start to suck me, then resort to using her hand to bring me to climax, but at the last second took my sperm into her mouth, which she then promptly spit out. At the time it seemed to be "normal" as that was all that we knew.

My 2nd girlfriend was 16 and we had been dating for a couple of months when after her prom we went parking in my car and started fooling around. She got the pants of my tux down and then pulled down my underwear and I thought she was just going to do some exploratory touching, as we had done on our previous date the week prior. She surprised me when she started touching and "examining" my dick, which was rock hard and I then asked her to kiss it. Without hesitation she put it in her mouth and with no further instruction started going up & down. When I got the "feeling", I asked her not to stop. Without touching my dick with her hand I quickly climaxed into her mouth. She eventually pulled away, sat up and made a noise, her mouth obviously full. There was no leaning out the car window repeatedly spitting, she just laid down any arms. The intimate feelings going thru me I had never known before. We cuddled and she asked about swallowing and I responded that I heard seamen was good for a woman's complexion. She continued to give me that same affection and always swallowed nearly every day for over 4 years, until we married, where it stopped shortly after.

@Caribvistors I'm sorry it stopped! Thanks for an excellent, detailed response

Most wives, even if they did it while dating, end that intimate practice shortly after being married. Girlfriends usually try to satisfy their boyfriend with blow jobs in order to try to keep him "happy" to encourage their relationship, but know it is not needed after marriage. An age old complaint by most husbands.

Not sure thats true for "most" wives. I actually worried about that while courting, living together prior to marriage. My wife to be had an extremelyhigh sex drive - which included lots of oral - and I wondered if she was using sex to "hook" me. Well, it didn't slow down at all after we were married. Not until we had curious demanding kids did our sex lives change, only bedause of alone time restrictions. We got around that by taking staycations in local hotels with babysitters. Those weekends were just as intense as before we were married.

I don't think we were the exception.

I have had only one attempted blow job. I was with a very dear lady friend, we were both young and horny. My dick was hard and at full staff when she put my dick in her mouth and began sucking my dick which made my dick get even larger. Then I began to feel her rear molar teeth rubbing on the head of my penis and it was very distracting and it hurt. So she stopped the blow job , she laid on her back and spread her legs. I put my swollen dick in her soft warm wet vagina and both of us enjoyed the lovemaking as we “cum together “😍

@Nurse_Phillips I can happily say yes, many repeat performances that summer. All great but nothing quite like the first time.

@Nurse_Phillips

My first BJ - in my early 20s - is lost in my memory, try as I might over the years to recall it. Those soon after are fondly remembered. What I found most stimulating about receiving oral was the unique sensations they caused. My partner was in control so intensifying particularly enjoyable actions wasn’t possible, like say the tempo or angle while stroking PIV. In addition to the lips and tongue stimulus, the sucking was rather amazing. Every partner I had in 1970s willingly swallowed, too. I had a hair trigger in those days, making for brief oral pleasure. I had to stop my first Deep Throat experience almost immediately least I explode and shorten my post dinner tryst with a co-worker.

@UncleO I love it when the guy begs you to stop because he’s going to bust and doesn’t want to be done so soon 🫠

Nurse, I think you keyed in on the experience most guys live. That being we are not giving ourselves the stimulation it's totally in his/her control to slow, stop or turn up the sucking and licking. Also the ability to cum while someone else is still stimulating you is something hard to reproduce. I think the vulnerability during that type of orgasm is what turns so many of us on. As someone who has received and given full BJ, I understand the excitement at both ends, knowing your man is squirming in the ectasy of the moment.

Looking back at the title I realise my "first" blowjob was from a school chum(boy) when we were about 13/14. Was done in a public toilet. 😢

It was definitely an exploration/dare thing. I'm pretty sure I have posted about it before. I think he blew me first. I came in his mouth and he spat it in the toilet. Then I did the same thing to him.

Not something we tried again, so it was obviously underwhelming. Nothing like the first time from a girl. 😃

A blowjob is more intimate than intercourse. It is all about me. A vagina doesn't have a tongue and the vaginal lips are not under the female's control as the mouth lips are. So the stimulation is much more directed, it's an art being practised.

And of course it plays a role that giving a blowjob is an utterly submissive thing, most women don't get something sexual out of it other than the feeling of having given me incredible feelings, and some women even don't like doing it and still do it.

And of course it plays a role that giving a blowjob is an utterly submissive thing,

@Nagus Would you extrapolate that to men giving oral to women? Pleasuring someone is not submissive. I get very aroused giving my wife oral and I don’t feel submissive doing that. It turns me on. My wife gets turned her on giving me oral. Because she got aroused pleasing me, and what it led to. Absolutely disagree with what you said. Do you feel dominate recieving oral? I sure as hell don’t, I look at it as an act of love or sexual turn on. .

@Nagus Would you extrapolate that to men giving oral to women?

For some reason that I cannot put in words: No.

Agree with both Nagus and Rigel: yes - blowjobs are much more intimate than vaginal/anal sex, and no - it isn't submissive, it's just another form of sex

And as for me... The closest thing to BJ, I've ever experienced, was when I was about 16, with my 13 y.o. friend. We used to masturbate each other, but nothing more. But I wanted to try more, and somehow convinced him to try to suck me. He put his lips around my shaft, held for 2-3 seconds, and backed out, saying it's gross. I didn't push him, so this also was the only oral sex I've ever experienced, and most likely ever will.

I'm not the target audience for this topic but wanted to answer this comment.

Most wives, even if they did it while dating, end that intimate practice shortly after being married. Girlfriends usually try to satisfy their boyfriend with blow jobs in order to try to keep him "happy" to encourage their relationship, but know it is not needed after marriage.

The guy is sexually happy but the girl doesn't get pregnant. Blow jobs don't get girls knocked up.

And of course it plays a role that giving a blowjob is an utterly submissive thing, most women don't get something sexual out of it

I do not agree @Nagus because the man is not in control is he? I never thought it was submissive when I give my husband a blowjob, I am in control actually even when I am on my knees and He is standing.

Add me to the ‘not submissive’ part. I will say I consider it an ‘act of service’ which I happily give, and I receive great satisfaction from his reactions to my ministrations.

Now getting face-fucked is totally submissive as you just open up and take it, but I consider that an entirely different act.

My first blowjob orgasm came with my girlfriend's realization that I squirmed and moaned more when she teased my anus with her finger. The obvious next step was to stick it to me. She had explored me anally with other activities but never during a blow job. She managed to hide her lubed finger from me when she started sucking, so her sliding her finger deep was a welcome surprise. Instantly I was on the edge of explosion. She worked me hard and fast til she fit a second finger in and I spurted endlessly into her mouth. She sucked and fucked til I was very sensitive and was begging her to stop. Oh how she liked that.

I lived at home and commuted to college for the first couple of years. One of my girlfriends was also still living with her (very religious) parents, so our opportunities for sex were mostly limited to parking. She had let me know she wasn't ready for intercourse, and I wasn't too keen on trying that in a car, either, so we kept it to kissing, fondling, and oral sex...which she loved both to receive and to give.

"Alicia" would often wear a sweatshirt and sweatpants on dates when we were planning to park... Never going bra-less (her fundamentalist dad would have noticed that at once), but loose clothing was good for what we had in mind.

We'd find a dark residential street and park. On the occasions I received her mouth first, after some preliminary kissing, she would get on her knees in the front passenger seat, lean in and unzip me, then stroke and lick "Sparky" lightly before taking me into her warm mouth.

Alicia was *wonderful* at sliding and rolling her tongue as she moved her lips back and forth. I would pull up her sweatshirt in back, un-clip her bra, move it out of the way, and begin cupping, stroking and fondling her large and beautiful bare breasts inside her sweatshirt, as she continued to fellate me.

As I got closer to a climax, I would move my hands past the waistband of her pants and inside, alternately stroking her bare hips inside her panties and moving my hands to her belly, to stroke her there and then move them to the sides of her pubic mound, coming a little closer to her pussy lips each time, until my fingertips could stroke her wet vulva and slip inside, stroke her labia again and slide up into her crack, then start the cycle all over again... as she continued to suck me sweetly, a little faster, and I began thrusting.

We had a signal... when I was close to coming, I'd tap her on her left butt cheek, and she would quickly take her lips off my cock and grab a towel to take my climax.

But one sweet night, we were both really aroused. I had first given her two very long climaxes with my own lips and tongue, and she was ready for more even as she pulled her pants back into place and got into position to fellate me.

It was a very dark night, and the windows were really fogged up, so we didn't worry much about being seen... She nodded when I asked her about what I wanted to do, and went back to sucking me as I pulled up her shirt to let her breasts spill out and down, fingering her nipples and cupping those sweet tits, then actually pulling her pants back down to her knees, as she continued to suck me, as beautifully as ever and with a new urgency,

It really turned me on to be able to stroke and rub her soft body without her clothes in the way, while she sucked me... And suddenly, a sweet warm explosion pulsed through my genitals and I gasped as I shot jets into her mouth.

Her eyes were wide as she pulled back, and her cheeks were puffed out like a squirrel's. She coughed and spit most of it into the towel, then shook her head at the mess and said something like, "All I could think was, what do I do with it?!?"

I apologized and we scrambled to clean up and get her clothes back in place. She was really worried that her parents would find semen on her shirt, but we didn't see much there, and she ended up sneaking into her home, just in case.

I was embarrassed at having lost control, and felt inhibited for weeks afterward. But we eventually got to where we could laugh about the memory, and Alicia said that if it happened again, she'd try to swallow.

One of the sweetest orgasms I'd ever had up to that point, though...