Ordering or asking for cunnilingus

Ladies, did you ever tell a partner "lick it"? Or maybe "would you be so kind as to lick me there?".

Everybody who had sex with women: did it happen to you?

(I definitely recall a girlfriend blushing and asking me to lick her down there. I think it was the second time we did it, and she had liked the first cunnilingus, which was a first for the both of us.)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n_yIGzoeWUo

I have had several ladies ask me over the years. Some just gently, but firmly push on my head when I am paying a lot of attention to their breasts and nipples. Doesn't take much for me to take the hint. 😃

It's so hot when a girl tells you to eat her out

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My wife asked directly many times, we had a code phrase “OSTC” - Oral Sex to Completion. She’d say something to the effect of “I need some OSTC!” Non verbally, she would gently push down on my head or shoulders.

I've never had a woman ask me to go down on her, probably because I'm doing it before she has the chance to ask!

I verbally and non verbally tell my partner what I’d like. Some appreciate it, as there’s no guess work. But I recall one guy being very turned off by me *telling* him to eat it.

Most recently kissing my current partner somewhere between neck and tits, and I felt her hands pushing my shoulders down. Ah I know what its time for!! That was a super hot move, and made me all the more excited to do it. You know its going well when they are bridging up into your face

I never talked with any of my ladies about it, we were driven by horniness and curiosity since me/she got in touch with sex. I practice cunnilingus and enjoy fellatio always when it may happen.

My fiance usually asks me to and I do it anytime she asks hehe. For instance last night she asked and told me to eat it hehe and she really wanted me to eat her butt so I did enthusiasticly hehe.

It is usually the other way round for me, where my partner tells me to lay down because he is going to eat me out. The times where I ask him to lick me/ eat me/ taste me are when he is trying to embarrass me and make me shy…

By which I mean he will push me onto the bed, take my clothes off, and make sure he turns me on enough that I want him to touch me and then be like “I could eat your pussy” “would you like me to eat your pussy?” “I can’t hear you when you nod, what do you want?”

And I get embarrassed, turn red and shyly ask him to eat me out 😳😳😳

I still find cunnilingus embarrassing and acutely anxiety inducing, because I get worried my vagina will smell/ have discharge/ not be quite right and turn him off… But he loves to eat me out…

I'm not that fond of receiving oral, but I know my husband (Vasbyt on Zity) enjoys it occasionally so when he's hovering in the general vicinity, I smile and nod. He knows he doesn't need to ask--I've given him cart blanche rights to cunnilingus anytime he wants it, but he is a gentleman and he holds back because he knows it doesn't do much for me and, in reality, it's not the biggest thing for him either, but he does like variety and so he indulges now and again.

Occasionally, he will outright ask for it, and of course, he knows he doesn't need to ask, but he does anyway. Well, sometimes he just goes for it and that makes me smile because I know he believes me when I've told him he has cart blanche rights to cunnilingus anytime he wants it.

I'm a bit old-fashioned and my favorite form of warm up is to have my husband simply rub my clit and my lips until I'm engorged. It works so very well. My husband used to be a little frustrated that I always wanted the same thing, when he likes variety. Once I explained how much it turns me on to just have him rub me with increasing pressure for 20 to even 40 minutes, he has loved it ever since because he knows that he is the one producing the magic in me. He has the magic hand. And he holds me in the hollow of his hand, quite literally. He especially loves it when, occasionally, he does such an amazing job that before we can switch to anything else, I'm already at my peak and I reach my orgasm, solely with his hand on my clit. He is very proud of himself for his masterful performance. And he says he enjoys my orgasms as much as he enjoys his own orgasms because he can feel it and see it taking over my whole body and he gets most, if not all, of the credit for getting me there.

Oh, yeah. While my hubby is masterfully rubbing my clit, he has his mouth on one of my breasts, especially as I approach my climax. Having his mouth and tongue on my breast and nipple always puts me over the top. Most of the time, he he lying down or kneeling beside me with his left hand on my clit while he "nurses" my left breast, but occasionally he rises up and over me to suckle my right breast. He says he doesn't want her to feel left out.

My husband has mentioned several times that he wishes he could figure out how to stimulate my clit with his mouth, lips, and tongue like he does with his hand, but we haven't been able to figure that out. He feels like he just doesn't know how to do cunnilingus properly.

Any suggestions?

Maybe ask @Cedar. I believe he is a bit of an expert in that department @JillyBot . 😃

Maybe ask @Cedar. I believe he is a bit of an expert in that department @JillyBot . 😃

He is ... 😘

I love being told to lick it!

Yummy pussy

In sex, I had two mentors, my sister Amy, who is two years older than me and my best friend, Alexandria, who was really four months younger than me, but achieved all the milestones in a girl’s life before me. Both reintegrated repeatedly that boys (Later men) had to be guided to creating our satisfaction. While I never said anything as blunt as “lick it,” I have steered them to the area and offered delicate suggestions about what I liked and wanted.

I would have loved to have a mistress like you @ddell2 to initiate me into female sexuality

I'd love getting some direction rather than stumble around in the dark WRT what's good and what's not.

Generally in lesbian sex it's just expected. I had a bath with a previous gf and one time as I was getting out I projected my hips forward and told her to kiss my vagina (I knew it was a vulva but vagina was still widely used). She gave it a few kisses then stuck her tongue in my slit and flicked it a few times. I still remember vividly how good it felt.

In the post above, I state that I have never said anything as blunt as “lick it” but I don’t elaborate as to any phrase that I have used. “Do you think that you could go lower?” “Lower.” “I could used some attention down there.” At times, I add oral to attention. This is a pet phrase I use with my husband. “Do you know the way to Sam Jose?” Another one is when he is moving down my body nibbling and kissing. “You’re on the right highway but not quite home yet.” One time when he had be gone on business for a couple of weeks, he replied. "It's been so long. I forget which house I live it. I retorted. "It's the one with the wet roof." We started laughing so hard that we almost ruined the moment.

@ddell2 I hope you got what you wanted and he got home.

@Cedar

Yes I did and he found that the fireplace was already lit. lol!

@ddell2 that makes for a happy ending that puts a smile on both of your faces.

@Nans

I would have loved to have a mistress like you @ddell2 to initiate me into female sexuality

Thank you for your beautiful thought and kind words.

I’ve never been ordered to perform oral sex, but my first experience with a woman was the result of some polite encouragement from her. Since then no encouragement is necessary. I can’t get enough of it.