The thoughts from both sides (play doc and patient)

What are you (play patients and doctors) most interested in the phenomenon of medical fetish? Is it the excitement or performance in advance? Is it the shame or the embarrassment? Or on the contrary, to observe this? Is it the touches or penetrations? Or is it sex?

@RektalGirl The shame plays a role for me definitely. Also the taboo and unusual acts, such as sticking a finger in the rectum. It's a departure from vanilla sex.

Agree with Jacana. The replayed situations, remembering, the embarrassment and of course the stimulation caused by the procedures. Both the doctor/nurse and patient role is very exciting. This is the essence of this kink I guess.

I find the excitement in the run-up very exciting. I find it very exciting to put so much trust in a mostly stranger, to show your most intimate body parts and let them touch. In the end, at least I think, it's not about sex at all. For me personally, the psychological component plays the biggest role. To be dominated and do what the "doctor" demands.

The exposure and the feelings of helplessness, that I have no agency over what is going to happen to me.

As a few of the ladies have already said, for me it is the ability to have a woman undress and expose her most private parts to me and I touch and explore as I wish, even after they were raised to always keep those parts covered and not exposed. I also enjoy exploring the patients sexual response to my touch of their clitoris and g spot.

Women have said they hated having to undress and expose their vagina to a stranger in order to get birth control pills but they would have done anything to get them.

What are you (play patients and doctors) most interested in the phenomenon of medical fetish? Is it the excitement or performance in advance? Is it the shame or the embarrassment? Or on the contrary, to observe this? Is it the touches or penetrations? Or is it sex?

Es ist die Phantasie, die real wird.

I know the pleasure of both sides.

As patient, it's being at the mercy of the doctor's hands and orders. Those hands hold power, and by submitting, I give unto the doctor. Sometimes, I feel a bit shy and anxious but, altogether, it's exciting when the doctor is confident in his ability, and does not hesitate. He or she is comfortable in their position over me, and that comfort carries through to me; it's a feeling and knowing that I'm in good hands.

For the doctor, he is excited at the prospect of being in a position of authority. The God complex, if you will. He likes taking control, and knowing it's at his hands, his patient willingly and ultimately, gives her all to him. Sometimes it's not willingly, but she does it anyway because doctor knows what to do with those fingers and those tools. All at his beck and call.

For me, having had exams mostly from female doctors, it’s the anticipation of the exams, being completely exposed in very much exposing positions and being submitted to the ‘needs’ for thorough examinations of the whole body. Once naked, there is no decent way to ‘escape’ anything and you have to comply with what the doctor sais and with the procedures are needed.

Put on top of that the fact that the doc is of the opposite gender and the overall feeling of ‘submission’ and ‘loss of control’ over your own physical reactions is complete.

So, shame, exposure and not being in control does all come into play and definitely are important factors of the whole scene and experience.

I obviously did also have exams from male doctors, but those were different although I also was naked but they did not examine me to the same extend …

Mmmm what a subject!

For me there's many aspects...

Definitely the excitement in advance, the days and hours leading up to my exam, oh my those are spine tingling.

The embarrassment is huge for me, to the extent that I have come to realize those feelings of embarrassment heighten my sexual response immensely. Not so much shame (that's quite a negative feeling for me).

As to observing such a situation, I have never had the chance to watch someone else get examined, but would love to. When I've examined another person, the act of not only touching and interacting with the patient but also sort of watching myself do the exam... the visual aspect is so powerful. I've fantasized about observing my own exams, like, I'd love to watch Grace the patient be examined by someone else. It's probably why I played in front of my mirror so often when I was younger.

As to the physical element, the touches & penetrations are exquisite when done firmly but gently, repeatedly, in all the intimate areas.

Is it sex? This has been an issue for me my whole life. I'd grown up with the idea that intercourse (penis in vagina) is what sex is... at least that's what kids discussed in high school and in college too. But as my world opened up, I realized not only that I didn't like such intercourse and but that there's so much more to pleasure than that, to my great relief. So for me, I've decided sex is whatever a person decides. At this point I really don't use the word 'sex'. And I've yet to fall in love for real, so maybe things will change as I grow older. For now, I do what pleases me and my partner(s).

As the doctor definitely the thought of having a naked woman on the table and exploring every inch of her body.