Looking for recommendations....

I've got lot's of different butt plugs, but I'm not completely happy with any of them. I'm looking for one that I could keep in for very long periods (days to weeks) of time, only removing for bowel movements & washing up. The thing is that I want as much stretch as possible in the neck area of the plug, while still being able to have good retention. I'd like at least a 2"-2½" diameter neck. It also needs to have the ergonomic shaped base that fits comfortably between the cheeks. It's not to be too long either. It seems like any plug that goes too deep causes too frequent urges for bowel movements. Silicone seems to be the most comfortable for long wear.

So.... what do you suggest?

Luscious playthings curved large or extra large with the ball end. Most comfy for me by far! With coconut oil as lube.

Maybe the Ergo from Oxballs?

https://oxballs.com/shop/ols/products/ergo-the-original-hump-fit-buttplug-oxballs-liquid-platinum-silicone-black

Or the Roids:

https://oxballs.com/shop/ols/products/roids-fatty-thick-veiny-buttplug-oxballs-liquid-platinum-silicone

Have you considered the b vibe SnugPlug. Several sizes, nice bulge and slender stem for great retention plus comfortable t shape base for long term wear. I have the #4 and 6. The #4 is my go to all day all night wear.

You missed my point. I don't want a "slender stem." I want the stem/neck of the plug to be 2"-2½" in diameter,, with a comfortable base that fits snugly between the cheeks for long wear time. The head of it of course, needs to be large enough & shaped for good retention. (similar to an Ace of Spades, but not necessarily so pointy)

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Neck is 1.8”

@Horny_Always

Have you looked at Square Peg Toys? Maybe the Acorn https://www.squarepegtoys.com/product/acorn/ is something that might work.