Ejaculation...spurt or ooze

Things I want to know but can't ask in polite conversation #1

In my own sexual experience I've encountered guys who shoot semen with surprising force, and others where it seems to just pump and ooze out.

What are the deciding factors here? Intensity of orgasm? Just how it is? Position? Do some guys shoot and others don't?

One guy I dated had such a vigorous ejaculation that when he came inside me I can only describe the feeling as like being twanged in there with a rubber band!! First time I actually screamed! After that I was kind of ready for it.

I don't have a preference here..literally just curious.

From my personal experience it is age. When I was young, it used to shoot out up to my chest and sometimes to my face. Now as an old man, it just kind of oozes out.

Im 73, if i edge myself for a few days i will spurt when i allow myself to cum,it will be a couple of spurts followed by just ooze,it will still be a very intense orgasm.when i was younger my cum would go over my face for 2-3 spurts then calm down to hitting my chest,,

I can just about remember the time when it shot out with force. Now more a gentle spurt, but stronger after a few days without.

I can say its different from man to man. My boyfriend for example shoots out in huge strong pulses wich i love very much when i feel it pumping deep in my ass 🤤😍💦

I for myself am a mixed type. I shoot out too but if I got something up my hole, I clench arround it so strong that the cum doesnt shoot out but somehow just flows out in thick white threads😉

This brings good memories of old experiences. I was in my mid 20's laying on my back and masturbating when it spurt it landed beyond my head of hair. Most of the time it would end up on my chest or face, so I was surprised.

I'm a spurter. Always have been, though it shot out harder in my teens than it does today.

I agree with the others that have said age is a major factor. I used to spurt a large quantity of cum rather forcefully and far. Now (usually, but not always), a very small amount just kind of oozes out. I first noticed a big drop in quantity after my vasectomy. I'm not sure if that actually has anything to do with it, or is just a coincidence.

However, taking the age factor out of the equation, there are still a lot of things that affect my quantity and force. All of these factors have applied my entire life, not just now at middle age. How long it has been since my last ejaculation is my biggest difference. The longer it's been since my last time, the more force and quantity. Usually anything over 2-3 days really adds to it. When I ejaculate 2-3 times in one day, is when a small amount just trickles out.

A close second factor when it comes to ejaculation quantity and force is edging. The longer I'm aroused and the sexual activity takes to reach orgasm, the stronger the ejaculation and the higher the quantity of ejaculate. This usually results in a higher euphoric orgasm as well.

Other factors that affect my ejaculation on a case by case experience: whether or not I've been drinking alcohol. My attraction to my partner, or just how turned on I am at that moment. If I'm feeling well or maybe starting to get sick. If I'm distracted or my mind starts to wander, basically, how into I am. For me personally, there are a lot of mental and physical factors (that aren't always obvious) that can affect my ejaculation.

Approaching 76 I can agree with everyone here who remembers forceful white spurting in our younger days and now manage only a soft clear dribble or ooze. And the erections -- Oh, the diamond hard erections!! As I have related here (perhaps ad nauseum to some), my sister and I played together - enemas, remaining nude, and masturbating. She was fascinated with seeing me cum/shoot. When younger she constantly regretted she had nothing come out. L:ater in her mid teens her wetness would flow but never a squirt. I guess she just wasn't built that way. We tried to explain and compare with each other our sensations when cumming; the exquisite tingle, shiver, intense feeling of having to pee. When my semen came throbbing out I could sometimes feel it in the grip of my hand as it pulsed out. About 40 years ago I had a vasectomy and things started to decrease. Over the last perhaps 20 years both the erections and nature of ejaculate have dwindled considerably to now requiring anal and prostate stimulation as well has the most vigorous pounding to have just an ooze. The "feeling" of orgasm and release is still nearly as intense and of course pleasurable as ever, but the cleanup is easier.

I tend to be an oozer. If I save it up for a week or two I will spurt, but I usually don't wait that long.

It depends for me.

My ADHD meds make me more likely to have ejaculation prior to orgasm, and its generally more oozing then. That said, not always the case.

My biggest determinant is pelvic floor activation. I love sitting frog legs with my feet together as I masturbate, and I've gotten more adept at activating those deep muscles, and I tend to get more prostate stimulation as a result. Those two things tend to produce ALOT more ejaculation volume if I get it right. Sometimes it'll ooze, but other times I will cum very hard. Either way it's still very pleasurable.

Back in my 20s and 30s, I used to shoot out big, wads of cum. But, now as I'm closer to 60, the intensity and quantity varies a bit. If I'm just masturbating, it will usually ooze out. But, if I'm having an intense sexual experience, especially if I've saved up for a few days, my orgasms are more intense and I'll shoot my cum all over the place like a sprinkler.

@Temptaker4u Exactly like me. If I were to wank today it would land in my public hair. Don't mind because I will sleep like that naked or in my yfronts. But I used to wear t-shirt's, so imagine if you may. I would wear my cumsoaked t-shirt to class if Miss Dalimire was teaching that day

I usually spurt, but not always. The longer the stimulation lasts, the more liquid the semen and the farther it shoots.

For me the strength of ejaculation depends on what I'm doing (sex or masturbating), how turned on I am and how long it's been since I last did it.

They are usually pretty powerful

@Laura_L In my youth it would spurt out, sometimes surprisingly far. I think I got some in my hair while masturbating in my bed as a teen. Today it oozes out.

When I was younger I could spurt. Wish I still could. The climax seemed more intense then too.

When I was young i could shoot all the way to my own face or the wall behind me when I am laying down. But now it's either a few shots onto my belly or it just sperts out a lil as it dribbles out. I mean a lot comes out just not with the force it used to.

I ooze precum for a while and then spurt.

Prior to radiation for prostate cancer (4 years ago), I was able to squirt a modest amount and that amount had been declining as I aged. Since the radiation, I ooze anywhere from a quarter teaspoon to a half a teaspoon of clear fluid. As for the feeling, the build up is as before, the climax is good but the “outcome” is minimal.

At my age, I just ooze when I orgasm but I will say that the pleasure is just as intense as it was when I was younger and also, my refractory period hasn’t changed over the years, 15 minutes of recovery and I am ready to go!

Age is the biggest factor. Below age 30 I could shoot onto my face and chest. Now I'm glad if it misses my pubic hair.

I did discover as a teen I'd have a more intense orgasm and shoot farther if I have something in my ass. That still holds true today even if the difference is more modest.

@Laura_L Thanks for asking! I spurt when I come - still true in my 60s. The force of it does depend on the intensity of my climax and the volume depends on how long it’s been since my last orgasm. I haven’t seen other guys ejaculating, except in porn, but judging from the responses of the women I’ve been with, it’s like on the basketball floor: some guys dribble and some guys shoot. I think it’s, as you wondered, “just how it is”.

I definitely don't shoot as far as I once did, but if it's been a while since the last time I came, I'll sometimes manage to shoot farther. Even in my 40s, I'll occasionally hit the bottom of my ribs. If I've already come multiple times that day, it will typically be less of a spurt and more of an ooze.

When I was younger I was able to shoot ropes of cum across my then girlfriends belly/tits, or up her back if giving her one from behind.!!, but these days it’s more of an ooze.

I agree entirely with BenDover; all of the factors he lists are applicable to most of us who are over 60 years old. I'll often insert my Aneros as my body loves the feeling of it teasing my prostate as I play with my lubricated knob end and edge and will then just leave the end alone and think of cumming or someone I fancy, and my knob will start 'standing/jerking' up and I'll shoot out my sperm or my juices will just ooze out; one or the other!

Luckily I still spurt, a couple to shots when masturbating. But I also love the ooze of a ruined orgasm when I am not even really hard anymore, maybe some anal stimulation and then it just flows, a milking without true release.

When I ejaculate it comes shooting out and can reach like 3 or 4 feet and I don't think position has any affect on it I shoot the same in all positions.

I spurt 3 or 4 good shots, then get an ooze. If I’ve been edging, I can usually get a large shot to go 5+ feet. Had a girl edging me once a long time ago, shot straight up in the air, 2nd and 3rd shots left, then first shot landed on my lower abdomen. She commented it was impressive and had never seen anyone get that much air before, lol

If my husband has not ejaculated in 6 or 8 hours or so and I masturbate him he has three very strong shots of semen followed by two much weaker ones. The first one always shoots out at least 4 feet! The next two typically 3 feet or so; the final two less than 6 to 8 inches. He is a relatively high volume guy compared to many men I have had a chance to observe. Many men I have been with are weak shooters and basically just dribble out semen when they ejaculate. I don’t find that type terribly exciting when I am in bed with them; it is difficult for me to perceive the exact moment of ejaculation which is a major turn on for me. With a strong shooter like my husband I can feel the penis throb with each spurt.

Also I strongly prefer partners who stop moving when their ejaculation so I can feel the penis pulses clearly. Men who keep active coital thrusting mask the moment of ejaculation.

Dita