First Play Appointment

Over the last several months, I have started exploring a CFNM community in the area. This resulted in an invitation to a Halloween party put on by a local BDSM club... but i chickened out. I was intrigued, but I just wasnt comfortable. But since then, I've gotten to know a couple of members of that community and have met with them for coffee, lunch, or drinks several times. We've had many in depth discussions about fetishes, limits, likes, and dislikes.

Anyway, I met Karen & Liza again this morning for coffee and, knowing my medfet, Karen proposed that we schedule an appointment for a physical on Sunday afternoon - if I was ready.

Karen just emailed me my forms to fill out and bring with me, as well as my pre-appointment instructions (which includes a ban on sex and masturbation from now until the appointment and diet restrictions the day of).

Needless to say, I'm pretty excited and a little on edge. I've gotten to know Karen and Liza pretty well, so I'm comfortable with them. I'm wondering if this will be a bit of a gateway. I guess we'll see.

So any advice for a first time

If you can, record for future fun.

No advice from me, you are a lucky person, just enjoy the exam and share your experience with us once done if you want. 🙂

Have fun and let us know how it was.

Sounds like a dream, please let us know how things go.

Nothing new to really post.

I'm a couple of hours from having to leave for my appointment & I'm a bit nervous & excited.

No sex or masturbation since Monday. Nothing to eat since last night, plenty of clear liquids today. Got my workout in - a little extra intense - showered, and drinking 8 ounces of water per hour in the three hours before the appointment.

I guess I'm ready.

I'll let everyone know how it goes.

Have fun and let s know how it goes

Enjoy!! Wish I could find something similar. Let us know how it went!

It has been most of a week since my appointment, but here is the account of my experience: https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=blog;ox=showpage;pg=8370

It's a long post, but it's my account of what I remember and my thoughts about where this may be heading. It took several days to get this written, but it is to the best of my recollection.

I did have dinner and drinks with Karen & Liza last night and will be attending a "munch" with them on Saturday. I'll probably start a new blog post about how that goes.

I did agree to attend/work a small gathering at Karen & Lisa's on Saturday night as a waiter, but I'm guessing it'll be more as their sub.

Anyway, thanks for reading.

I know the OP already posted how that first appointment went, but some thoughts.

- glad that you were able to be open with things that you were looking to experience in the play session.

- Super important that you hashed out what is being consented to and what would be off limits before hand.

- Always remember consent can be amended and revoked.

- As a patient, you obviously can be in a more "passive" role, but if it strikes your fancy, its always fun to be a little "coy" about things and ask questions that might make the scene more dyanamic.