Having a female chaperone in the room for a physical exam on a guy

When I was in practice and going to do a pelvic exam on a woman, I would always ask my nurse to step in. First it was handy to have someone to hand me instruments, but it's obviously also just smart to have a witness that you didn't do anything inappropriate. I never had a chaperone for exams on men. As for myself, my dermatologist also always had an assistant, female, with him during my exam to whom he dictated his notes. Pretty convenient, I thought.

For my dermatologist exams there’s a female nurse chaperoning for the entire exam. It definitely adds a weird but exciting feeling when the dr pulls the front of my underwear down to check with the nurse right there

One time had a fill in female doctor for my followed up exam . Because this was a a regular follow up for me testicular cancer you know where this is going. The regular doctor was a male and never had any one in the room during exam . But this one time is fill in was a female and brought an other female nurse in the room for the genital area exam. Just had me stand up and lower my pants and underwear to my knees. Everything out in plain sight for both to see.

Yes, the doctor was assisted by 6 other medical students in addition to the nurse for the urological exam, who watched me as the urological probe was inserted. I was not feeling very well. It was over the edge.

What's funny/ ironic/ odd, is that the male providers are the only ones to have used a chaperone to examine me. Neither of the female providers have used one.

I totally get it. The male providers are protecting themselves from being accused of sexual anything by having a witness. A female provider is a lot less likely to need be concerned.

I totally get it. The male providers are protecting themselves from being accused of sexual anything by having a witness. A female provider is a lot less likely to need be concerned.

Those were exactly my thoughts also.

I have never had like a full rectal and peniile exam but for a penile and testicular exam I had a female doctor once call in a chaperone and that was also a woman. It was so hard for me not to get hard having two women in the room with me having my pants down by my ankles as one of the was manipulating my penis and balls. I loved it so much but was kinda embarrassed hehe.

On this subject I've probably said before I'd enjoy having 'chaperones' at any MedFet examination. I've tried suggesting this to contacts online but never achieved it except for once when the female examiner brought along a male assistant (possibly protector) to observe and assist. I have however had a female doctors receptionist and former neighbour of my parents in the room during a real exam. As described in an earlier reply.

I've had this before, a female nurse in the room when I was getting a rectal exam/anoscopy from my male doctor. I don't know if she was chaperoning or really there more to assist but it was fine. I get why they want to do that. Can't blame them with the accusations nowadays.

Oh yes. Several times, with man -parts handled or looked over does nothing erotic at all for me. What matters to me is tending to my health. Being nude for an exam, having my rectum probed or my entire body surface examined is part of sensible, normal healthcare. Later on I may think about it and then get an erection, but not very often. MRay

I can only recall two times (different Drs) bringing in a female chaperone for male exam portion. I still wonder why those two did that ? I could see if it was company policy ..,..but I've had annual exams (female Drs) from the same institution with no chaperone.

I have experienced two or three times the presence of a female nurse or assistant chaperone for a prostate exam by a male urologist ( for instance with a biopsy) , I presume that it was his decision to have her present, he did not ask my agreement but I did not say anything, it did not matter for me, I presume that it was necessary even if all doctors had not the same rule, she could help him for lubrication or preparing the device or swiping the anus hole after or anything else, I was on all fours and did not see who was behind me and what they saw.

,Of course she might have seen my asshole since she was behind but she was professional when I could see her from face, she was not smiling.

I don't know if a female urologist would want also the presence of a female chaperone, but I have several times noticed that women doctors prefer to be accompanied by a female nurse, for instance the female dermatologists, and I am almost sure that it is not necessary in some cases but it is for them a way to have some people to talk between two patients

I have an impression that it is increasingly common for exams that include disrobing to require a chaperone. In my own experience, the dermatologist's office always has a chaperone, and this has always been a female. Also, the colon and rectal surgeon I went to several times a few years ago always had a chaperone, and that person was a female.

Yes at a Urologist on several occasions I had a female in both the exam room and procedure room to witness what was happening while naked under a gown.

When I last saw a primary doctor in my 40s, the doctor always had a chaperone/note taker with her (she was introduced as both). The doctor was quite open that her insurance company pushed it, and so it was office practice that any time the MD and the patient were of different sexes, there had to be a chaperone. It was not for the patient's benefit, but the doctors. Gave the doctor a witness against any claims of inappropriate touching.

Of course, my fiancee/later wife always insisted on attending my appointments too (not that I was ever allowed to attend any of hers!) so I was very outnumbered in those rooms.

Colin66 : seems most unfair that your wife insists on attending your medical appointments but you're not allowed at hers. I've also had a receptionist who was also a neighbor of my then parents in the room when being examined in my early twenties. I also allowed my sister-in-law to examine me when I had a rash more recently as I didn't want to see a doctor about it.

This concept has me thinking of a scenario: A female doctor and chaperone. They know they outnumber me, so they have all the confidence they need. I play the shy and submissive card. My humbleness captivates them. And then there's comes time for the genital exam. I'm getting excited, it's obvious to them, and I can't hide it. Perhaps they know it.

It causes them to want to have a little sexual fun with me. They've never crossed boundaries before to risk their professional practicing. But this opportunity just cannot be passed up for them. It has to happen. The dynamic is so strong.

What a boost that would be for my self esteem.