Which organs are important for our sexuality?

What determines who we are and who we find sexually attractive?

For sure, only ourselves !!

Penis, vagina, clitoris, testicles, breasts, prostate and so on...

It would all be useless without the brain. No sexual arousal, no sexual preferences, no identity as a man or woman without the brain.

I've always been attracted to the Würlitzer myself.

I believe that the mind is the best sex organ we have. In my experience people with a fertile imagination and an open mind make wonderful sexual or play partners. The physical side is pretty much the same for all of us so for me the mind is what makes the difference.

I believe that the mind is the best sex organ we have. In my experience people with a fertile imagination and an open mind make wonderful sexual or play partners. The physical side is pretty much the same for all of us so for me the mind is what makes the difference.

I agree. The mind is the most important organ that defines our sexuality, desires, and sexual preferences. It defines what interests, or not, me sexually. The brain defines what is needed during the sexual experience, whether full fledged fucking or just some cuddling and snuggling. Sex organs are the assistants to that desire whether they are breasts or penises. But not the first line of sexual stimulation.

@DaveSF & @MisStress Couldn't agree with you more. Years back I read an article entitled "Blue movies of the mind" which dealt with this so accurately. I wish I had kept it...

My brain! It's also the most important part of my body for breathing but I tend to rely on my heart and lungs as the primary organs for that function.

Unless you are on life support, there are no bodily functions that survive without a brain, breathing, walking, sex, love or hate, thinking, shitting etc. So it definitely defines sex, our interest in sex etc.

Without my mind or brain I couldn’t appreciate or do anything. It drives my sex organs, but isn’t the exclusive reason I respond to sex. It only exists to support my other desires which I can physically relate to. It’s cute to say the mind is the most attractive sex organ, it's the enabler.

My dick, balls, prostate and ass and my wife’s cunt, boobs and ass are my most excitable sex organs. Fuck the brain connection to them! That’s simplification.

I agree the brain is the most important sex organ in the body! I have always loved to be with both boys and girls, then men and women sexually. But I have only had romantic attraction to women. I enjoy being with men - I have always been the passive one - I considered myself in the girl position - and still love men's cocks and balls, love to have my anus explored and used by men's penis. My sex life started with a group of boys in grade school and continued until girls were an option. I love girls and women totally, and only got aroused with women. My penis worked very well for women, but I have never had it in a boy or man. Now that my penis doesn't function due to age and 3 years of estrogen, I can still love to be used by men, and to make love to women with my hands and mouth.

I have always been happy with my sexuality. Even more so now with my small breasts. So now I consider my anus and rectum, cock and balls, and breasts to be sources of pleasure. And my hands and mouth and tongue to sources of other's pleasure!