What’s your limit when playing?

What are your absolute, non-negotiable, hard limits when you play?

Don’t be that person who says “I have no limits 😈😏”.

Yes, you do. Everyone does.

So what are yours?

Nothing that risks injury,

no mouth to anal,

no bad hygiene come to mind.

Would discuss beforehand. There may be slight changes, depending on the person/circumstances.

Nothing dangerous (subjective, I know), illegal, or directly or indirectly involving non-consenting participants. Nothing that results in permanent or long-term marking.

Beyond that, I have fetishes that give me a buzz (spanking) and those that really really don't appeal (enemas, hard-core medfet) but, for me, it's about consent, give and take, and finding common ground. If it's someone I don't know, if I am talking to a new disciplinarian, then I do like to talk through and discuss things in some detail so I can get a feel for the person and to see if we really are going to be a good match. If it's been discussed and agreed, then it's not off-limits. If it's not been discussed, then it's a case of going with the flow if it seems right or just saying "stop" if there is any awkwardness or wrong.

And not playing with someone I don't trust 100%!

Most of my limits are soft if I'm being very honest, but I am very strict on nothing illegal, everything is consensual, and I avoid any situation that involves drugs or alcohol. The smell of alcohol (not the rubbing kind, but the drinking kind) triggers a lot of bad memories and it puts me in a completely different headspace.

Hard limits? No scat, serious pain, or dangerous, life threatening stuff. Nothing illegal or non consensual.

Soft limits on age play I just find it a bit 'icky' and it really doesn't appeal. Dental fetish I am not sure about either. I would not play with anyone who I didn't 100% trust to respect my limits.

Nothing illegal, nonconsensual, scat.

No blood, no deep nasty bruising, no underage participants (which isn't possible right now as my sub is long past that age), and there are probably a few others, but I'm not thinking of them.

I have low knowledge but this woman educated me. Pretty much what most say and let's not put anyone in the hospital

Play for ever safe, and don't risk any damages about the body !! - and this also for you and your Partner !!

No kids. No cutting or bruising. No scat, No animals. Nothing illegal. No men. Probably more that I have forgotten.

No kids, animals or scat. Nothing that would cause permanent damage/scarring. Beyond that it depends on the playmate

No blood, very minimal pain though mild discomfort is OK and no marks. The older I get, I have adopted some positional limits as well. My knees hurt so I don’t really enjoy kneeling before Mistress so much anymore.

No any illegal activities, animals, scat. No non sterile instruments or not medically aware play docs. No cutting or piercing or other procedure involving mutilation or damage to internal tissues of genitals and rectum (testicles, epididymis, corpora cavernosa of the penis, urethra, anal sphincters). No dangerous electrical stimulations and electrodes applyied over the navel. Urethral and anal dilatations with medical instruments: only without blood (oltought it happened). About external penis, prepuce, frenulum and scrotum I love anything related to needles and saline injections, superficial cutting and suturing but my current limit is any form of real surgery there including permanent piercing.

Nothing damaging. No fisting. No weird stuff. No bodily function products. No bruises. And I know people enjoy breath play, but I’m claustrophobic and that would be horrible.

All the above and maybe a few more, @EnchantedAmethyst .

Four quarts and no bizzaro stuff please🤪mentioned by Enchanted Amethyst🤗no face masks(but a blindfold sure)😍

One of my favorite mistress like to keep it interesting and always has a surprise up her sleeves

One of the sessions after she got me going towards the end she brought her house slave/sisy and had him put his half eract member in my mouth I'm very submissive but I'm not into giving bj

It killed the mood instantly

Her reaction was well now we know you not in to it

I didn't session with her for 2 years after that went to see her after 2 years and it wasn't the same

Being on the Dominant side of this question it is more on the focus of what the submissive requires. If this a long term arrangement then the allowing of pushing the limits should be considered.

Yes I have a few strong limits. Especially blood and tissue damage. The people I interact with are all over eighteen. So the age thing doesn't come into play. I'm not a fan of scat.

But pretty much can always be brought up for consideration.

No visible marks, no sex, no needles, no scat, no blood and no sounding or catheters (I'm paranoid about damaging my urethra).