@guagin
Amber - this mean lighter, slower or whatever applies but do not stop play.
Red - stop whatever is happening straight away and speak to the submissive
Red, now, red - stop the scene completely right away
I like this suggestion. Thank you for sharing it!
For those thinking about some unusual safe words - this is not a good idea. Safe words have to be easy to remember, easy to say and not confusing.
This is actually a very important point so I appreciate you bringing it up. I personally have different safe words for different situations.
For me: Something that’s light, playful, just fooling around with a partner who I’ve been with for 15 years— “llama”. For that specific partner, it was well-established and understood. For that partner, in that situation, under those circumstances, that’s what worked for us.
But if I were playing a new scenario that’s pushing limits, even with the same partner? Traffic light colors.
I appreciate you emphasizing the importance of communication in your response. Remaining tuned in to your partner is absolutely paramount.