Trying to get rid of this fetish?

Would you? I tell people always that I never asked to be this way, but now I am and I don't really have a choice. Makes me wonder if I could turn it all off permanently, would I?

I probably would. It would just be an easier life.

No way would I ever stop. I feel so secure and comfortable when diapered that there is no stopping now. I do have a need so perhaps that is part of the security. I do LOVE the feel of a very thick diaper with waterproof pants and plastic panties. I am quite uncomfortable when not diapered. DIAPERS 'R ME! :😃

There are times I have asked myself this very question. I have been caught a couple of times growing up but I was not really embarrassed by my parents about it. My mother just told me to keep it clean and don't let the other family members find it.

I have a good woman and I don't believe that I could stop under any circumstances. I think it's deeply rooted and I have no more control over it than I do the size of my feet. Some are different, as they were exposed to it later in life, but I have had this desire since I was ten years old. However, I have had periods where it is dormant but one thing remains--it always comes back.

NO I like wetting my diapers at night I hope I become a bedwetter for real I tell pople I am it dont bother me at all to be in a diaper I love to be wet too

If I didn't have my diapers and my passion for wetting, that would be one less stress reliever for me. And with my family I need all the relaxation I can get. So no.

I would choose to take the sexual urge out of it. I how ever would like it for fun.

I remember 4 times I threw away my plastic pants collection in an attempt to cold turkey quit forever. GOD how I wish I could get back my old stuff I threw out!!!! It's part of my happy place. A really rough childhood like you'll never imagine. Bones broken, beatings where I was forced to count every hit, miss a count, start all over. I never got hit until I was out of diapers because I was "little". When I was still a "baby" I rarly was hit. So I guess diapers were a hiding place for me.

I would have to agree with several people here.I think if i knew i would always be single, then i would not like it to go away. But if i knew i was going to meet someone then i would like it just to be gone.

I wonder which of the two extremes I would prefer:

First- Going back to diapers full time with some one to change my diaper, but not being able to use the toilet ever again.

Second- Give up diapers with no desire ever to wear them again.

The logical choice would be the second choice, because it would have no affect on my life, but if the choice was given to me I think I would take the first choice.

Fortunately I'm not faced with extreme choices, and I think I would miss the joy that wetting my diaper gives me.

Here is where I differ from others. Being an AB is a need for me, without it my bipolar disorder would more than likely consume me. I have little faith in psychiatry considering I've been in the hospital on IV's and then in psyche ward only when I'm on medication. After enough times you just submit to what the doctors tell you and you're out of control again and again until you can't get out of bed you're so weak and can breathe enough to climb a set of stairs.

Would I "turn it off", I like that idea about as much as I like hurting myself. I'm stable as a baby most of the time, as a baby or as an adult I'm still not well enough to work or go to school for more than a year at a time. I could never give this up, before I embraced being an AB it caused more harm, after I accepted it I was able to quit medications and actually do something with my life even though its short bursts of accomplishment.

Would I? No. My diaper wearing has been with me for 45+ years now and it just does not make sense to me that I could ever turn it off forever. my wife plays a part of this and we enjoy these times.

No I would not!!!.To wish that I could turn it off forever means that I am or should be ashamed and guilty for feeling the way I do and for my love of cloth diapers and cute pretty plastic panties and wanting to feel like a two year old toddler, which I don't. I have asked myself this question myself many times, like if my life would be better if I didn't feel the way I do. I think it could be probably the same maybe less complicated but even if things would've been different I know I would still feel the same. I'd still love my cloth diapers andplastic panties.

Only if i didnt remember the experience...

Like Cypher "I dont wanna remember nothing...Nothing!"

lol...

Id say its pretty hopeless on that point though, like, would my life be easier and healthier if i didnt like Cake...probably...but, is it going to happen? Hell No, lol...

Ohh cake i like also rocker. my mommie makes me sit in my high chair and eat it with my hands as her and her girlfriends make fun of me for being such a messy pissy [pants boy, well at least in y dreams they do LOL!! but the cake part is real LOL

I'd turn it off in a second. I feel a little bit trapped by this fetish.

Just because its kind of hard to get support etc. and its not too common a fetish to have i'd be tempted. but then again, im happy with it and, hey, why not? 😉

I'm kind of new to it... and I like it so far! 😃

I don't think I would. I really do like wearing diapers. It has just become a big part of my life. 😜 I do get a lot of support from my partner and that helps a lot. 😉

I know I would not. Diapers are more important to me now than ever before. I love my diapers.

Hey everyone, I was wondering if there is anyone out there who knows of anyway to get rid of their diaper fetish. I don't have a problem with people who wear them, and I will admit that I like them too, but as I get older in life I feel like it is something I need to get out of my life for my own personal beliefs.

If anyone knows any effective methods for getting rid of a fetish I would appreciate it 😉

P.S. I heard psychologists don't really help all that much and they either tell you to ignore or embrace it.

Thanks!

Hi Kevin, I don't think there is any tangible way of getting rid of your liking diapers. The best advice I can offer, is keep yourself away from it as much as possible. Keep yourself busy with other things. I think in your PS. that pretty much sums it up! You're going to have to either ignore it, or find a way to work it in with your like. That's just my take on it, I wish you luck whatever you try. I do think you can be happy, if you find a balance though.

Because i always have theories on many things i came up with one for this. If you want to get rid of a liking for something do things to where it becomes less appealing. To do so, you can wear them too long at a time, make them very wet and messy. And if you start dealing with diaper rash fairly often something tells me you wont wanna wear often anymore.

I WANT TO SAY there is no guarantee this will work. but it is an idea. Heres hoping it doesnt backfire and you get more into diapers wetting messing and being in a wet and messy diaper.

I struggled for years with this same problem struggling with the guilt that comes with this fetish and gave up diapers for periods in my life but finally realized in my case that diapers are and will always be a big part of my life. I am 52 now and very happy that I have accepted the fact that this is a harmless, comforting and relaxing part of my life. Each person has to choose to wear diapers or not. Personally, I can't imagine life being near as fun without them!

I went to a therapist with my diaper fetish problem. He put the "problem" aside and focused on helping me to feel good about myself. The better I felt about myself, the less important the diaper fetish became. I would not be here right now if I had NO interest in diapers, but I don't seem to need to wear them anymore.

I know how you feel. I'm going through something similar right now. There have been times when I had gone without diapers or diaper related porn/stories etc. for years at a time. Every time I went back, it was a conscious choice that I made. It may be different for you. The problem I'm facing now is that every time I've pleasured myself or fantasized over the last year plus, it's been diaper related. It's gotten to the point where I'm having trouble getting turned on by anything but diaper stuff and I don't want to put myself in that sort of situation. The way I'm going to deal with that is to just stop diapering myself and stop looking at diaper pictures/videos. Hopefully, this will help me become turned on more when diapers are not involved. If this doesn't work, it may be time to see a doctor as it may be something physically wrong. I hope things work out for you and that you reach your desired end state.

All of us go through the binge/purge cycle. I have long since come to the conclusion that there is nothing I can do about it. Better for me at least to nibble a bit now and then go overboard after four years of not partaking.

I guess a factor that makes it so hard to give diapers up is that attraction to them is often so intertwined with our sexual urges, and sexual reproduction is such a driving instinct. I lean towards self-acceptance as I've dealt with a lifetime of guilt.

There are a few of us who have purged the diapers and plastic pants thing. I myself had felt guilty over this fetish, if you will, when I was in my teens, but I am 62 and have grown to accept that I am an adult baby / toddler and will feel this way till the day I die. Sure I am sure life would be easier if I were "normal", but shit happens and sometimes for whatever reason we become abs or dls and that the way it goes. It's like being gay, you just don't always get to chose how feel or how you are, you just got to deal with it and try to enjoy and embrace what maybe the best part that makes you, you. I hope that my little speech helps. 😃 😃 😃

Oh yes, many years ago on a couple of occasions in moments of guilt after sessions using diapers instead of “pj’s” I threw them all out, but somehow held back on one pair of plastic pants, “just in case”. But it wasn’t long before new purchases and they soon adorned my bottom again. It just felt too warm, comforting and secure, overwhelming the guilt at the time.

Now that there are ways and means to communicate, be part of a like-minded community like this, with all the support we can offer to each other, no problem anymore. I just accept it as my normal, though keeping it all discreet.