How many enjoy or would enjoy someone watching your exam?

I loved being watched while being examined. Even with rectal cancer, not much opportunity to be watched. It nothing by lab and scans. At least I my case, doctors don’t want to touch you anymore.

It's not a thing with me. My Husband usually goes in with me when there is a problem. I do the same for him. That way both of us can discuss it and ask questions right there with the Doctor or Specialist.

My ex & I used to attend each other's exams. I got to watch her insemination over the Dr's shoulder. She got to watch my rigid cystocopy and a sigmoidoscopy. We both got to see the inside of the other. She though it was funny to see me in stirrups.

Both my parents were present for my annual physical exam and sick visits until I was 14. I have been going on my own since then.

Recently I had an emergency appendectomy. There were a few minor complications during the procedure but things turned out well. I was lying in the hospital bed, my torso fully exposed while my doctor was examining me.

My girlfriend walked in as my doctor had a stethoscope on my chest. My GF was about to excuse herself but I stated it was ok if she wished to stay. She sat in the chair near the bed watching intently and exchanging pleasantries with my doctor as she executed her craft on my abdomen. I was given the good news I would be going home the next day. My doctor smiled at me looked over at my GF and told her to take good care of me.

My thoughts. My GF and I just started being intimate so she had seen my naked a few times but I truly respect her understanding about my possible need for privacy while being examined.

A friend of mine had a physical at his gym. His trainer went in the room with him for his exam. He was like 21 and his trainer was around 28-30. He said he was fine with it…

I would not like it at all now, but part of what makes some of my childhood and teenage physicals so intense in hindsight is that parents/siblings were often present.

Much of my medfet is about the shifting of the power dynamic. Usually, in the guy in charge - of not officially, then I'm the one people look to. So having a med student, student nurse, scribe, chaperone, or other observer would be a boost to tipping the scales of the power dynamic - especially if the second person was female.

My primary care provider hasn't had anyone else in the room for about a long as I can remember.

My dermatologist is about 50/50 on having a medical assistant - even for the genital exam.

My experience with the urologist has been about 50/50 too. Occasionally my male urologist will have a nurse present, but not often. I saw a female urologist for a couple of years, and unless she was doing a procedure she never had anyone else in the room. She did have a nurse who handled some things, and she frequently would have a junior nurse present - but she always asked first (unless it was something like setting up for a cystoscopy).

I love having my husband with me for my exams and tests. I am super nervous around real medical professionals, and having him with me is very helpful and calming. Having someone to talk to while we wait is an incredibly helpful distraction, haha! But I also love the fact that he gets to watch doctors examine me. He even got to be present for several ultrasounds I’ve had in the last year!

Yes, first of all almost all my pediatric exams the nurse was there, I have had others with the nurse present as well. Like others have said it shifts the power dynamic drastically.

Now I really have only ever had one exam with a significant other present. I had my annual appointment with my GI doc and she came along. I was and wasn’t expecting a Dre, it was colonoscopy time and wasn’t really sure if a Dre would really be needed. Anyway I ended up seeing my dr and we just discussed prep and me wanting it unsedated. I was sent back out to the waiting room to schedule it. I thought I was not getting an exam at this point. After about 10 minutes a PA called me and we got up. The pa told my gf she could just wait there and I just said it was fine. We were taken back and shown to an exam room. The table was a proctology type table to be bent over. The pa explained j needed a dre for the insurance to cover the colonoscopy and to go ahead and strip from the waste down and pointed to a drape on the table. She left for a few so I could do so. Just sitting there waiting for the return knowing what was about to happen I started to get aroused. She returned put on gloves and had me bend over the table. I became completely hard from being exposed like this and the Dre proceeded as normal. Wiped off the lube when done and we finished scheduling my colonoscopy. My gf definitely noticed my erection and had quite a we questions about it. I had to explain how being exposed and vulnerable like that was actually a turn on.

So yes I enjoy having someone watch

A friend of mine had a physical at his gym. His trainer went in the room with him for his exam. He was like 21 and his trainer was around 28-30. He said he was fine with it…

@djboy One goes to a doctor's office or a medical clinic for a physical. You don't go to a gym. A personal trainer also would not be present during such an exam. A legitimate doctor would have none of this nonsense at all. More of your outlandish BS, I see. Well at least you are consistent.

A couple of times my wife and I have had back to back exams with both of us in the room. I’ve been there for a Pap smear and she was there once for a DRE I got. I’d only do this with my wife or another nurse or medical person in the room. Wasnt exciting or a big deal.

I would love to have an audience for an invasive exam. I fantasize about different CFNM and CMNM scenarios.

Of course I would like my play exam observed, but I'm very selective about whom. These days I am agonizing over impending RL spectatorship that I'm not asking for., & actually have gone back to therapy to deal with.

Years ago I got my allergy shots at a Malibu PCPs office. He was a slight, inarticulate, middle-aged, bald creep with a reddish brown haired crown. He (& his prominent wife) were respected in the community, but not at all respectable IMO. His nurse, Mary (rather plain looking, so not fuckable)) really liked me, doted over me like a little boy, & referred to me as her "little pin cushion". After apologizing with each injection, she slowly & austentatioucly pretended to kiss the boo-boo, her lips coming about a 1/2" from my skin, then she'd break up in hysterical laughter -- each time! One time, while recounting to her my violent confrontation with an endocrinologist, & I alluded to shaving my body hair, (obvious, as I always went in shorts) when she cut short my anecdote, violently grabbed me by my shirt & pulling me close to her, she said. "I love it when you tell me kinky stories! Tell me more!"

No " kinky story", I was bragging about standing up to medical arrogance & she never let me finish. (she was a bit of a 34 year horndog probably going through a dry spell.)This was always during the doc's lunch break while we were alone. I surmise could've taken advantage of her & manipulated her into being my personal fetish dispensing play nurse, but I didn't -- showing providers the integrity I can't expect from them in return I now wish I DID take advantage!

Then I was taking testosterone cream compound, & one day I had Mary ask the doc if I'd have to submit to prostate exams to renew my testosterone script. She left the room to ask, & came back with an affirmative response that I didn't want to hear. (I don't test for any cancer because I won't treat it, particularly prostate cancer that's treated by castration). I told her to tell him I'd rather die of prostate cancer than let a ?@$ like him shove his finger up my ass! Utterly shocked & hurt, she asked me if I really wanted her to tell him that? I replied yes, then I demanded my allergy serum viles back from the refrigerator, & left for good for a better doc right down the street.

A year later I saw Mary at the Sav-on Drugstore photo counter, where she didn't even want to say "Hi" to me.

This was 20+ years ago before the proliferation of office chaperones. I often wonder if she would've witnessed that invasive exam, & to what extent it might've made it fun. Not much, but with physicians & facilities holding the cards & setting protocol, & manipulating patients, how could I not try to think of a way of taking a bad experience & turning it around. That's how my MedFet developed in the first place-- through force & my being overpowered. Now it's not physical force, but coerced disempowerment & humiliation at the threat of no treatment. .

So I admit a spectator watching my exam would be fun, so a chaperone should be right up my alley, but not in RL, because chaperones are there strictly for the one-sided financial benefit of the facility (& will lie if needed*). Even my PCP says they're bullshit & don't work to a patient's advantage (unless he wants a cheap thrill!)

I have an inguinal pain issue to address, this Spring & Summer, & I guess I'm going to have to cultivate a kink for chaperone spectatorship & get some sexual gratification from it, because they're not my idea & I can't refuse them! If you're going to be violated, kick back & enjoy it right?

* Any anecdote EVER of a chaperone who narced out sexual misconduct, & whose medical career survived that? Tyndall, Weisneier, Heaps & company couldn't have done their handwork w/o chaperones as accomplices.

@djboy One goes to a doctor's office or a medical clinic for a physical. You don't go to a gym. A personal trainer also would not be present during such an exam. A legitimate doctor would have none of this nonsense at all. More of your outlandish BS, I see. Well at least you are consistent.

Both of my JH football physicals were done in the gym

All of us were standing, so my recollection is my abdomen wasn't percussed, I could've gone out on the field with a ruptured spleen, but they didn't hesitate to tug at our elastic waistbands & check for scrotal hernias (rare, & not life threatening). I'll never forget that

I think collegiate participation physicals are generally done in gyms, & often done so openly & with such disregard for male dignity & privacy that nurses present were bothered by the brazen lack of respect & called attention to it. (particularly @ UCLA, that bastion of medical sex abuse)

My sister has been in with me for real exams and I have been in with her. As for play exams, my sister again has watched and looked and I have done the same with her. So has her girlfriend, the girlfriend's niece.

Both of my JH football physicals were done in the gym

All of us were standing, so my recollection is my abdomen wasn't percussed, I could've gone out on the field with a ruptured spleen, but they didn't hesitate to tug at our elastic waistbands & check for scrotal hernias (rare, & not life threatening). I'll never forget that

I think collegiate participation physicals are generally done in gyms, & often done so openly & with such disregard for male dignity & privacy that nurses present were bothered by the brazen lack of respect & called attention to it. (particularly @ UCLA, that bastion of medical sex abuse)

@BareLittlePet Ok you have provided the exception to the rule but @djboy is not speaking about this exception. It is an adult 21 year old male at a gym and not a school or sports physical. If you read his other outlandish stories you would understand he is an attention seeker.

If you are a child under 14 years of age, the examination will definitely take place in the presence of your parents. Most often this is the mother. There must be a doctor and a nurse in the hospital. It is not uncommon for medical students to attend such exams. Patients over 14 years old can refuse, younger ones cannot.

If you are a child under 14 years of age, the examination will definitely take place in the presence of your parents. Most often this is the mother. There must be a doctor and a nurse in the hospital. It is not uncommon for medical students to attend such exams. Patients over 14 years old can refuse, younger ones cannot.

I respectfully disagree. If a child is emotionally and intellectually mature enough at the onset of puberty then the parent should be asked to leave the room for at least the genital exam. A non parental chaperone should be present. At age 11 the parent should give the child the option of having alone time with the doctor. Some will be ready others not so much. Every child is an individual and should be treated as such.

I was a foster child for 10 years. I was asthmatic and underweight. I didn't go to the doctor as frequently as I should have and when I did see a health care professional I was treated poorly and abused by so called medical professionals. My FP's (I was adopted at 14) sent me to a very kind hearted pediatrician shortly after taking me in at age 11. It took me 3 years to finally feel comfortable being examined by her. On an intellectual level I was capable of going it alone but I was emotionally traumatized and I asked my FP's to be present but I always walked away from my medical appointments feeling much better about myself. When I was 14 I had a mandatory adoption physical. I decided to fly solo. She told me I was physically stronger, far more confident and she was very proud of me. On more than one occasion she would rub my hair or place her hand on my shoulder and tell me I was making excellent progress and to believe in myself.

My wife and I go to all exams together. She’s seen numerous genital and rectal exams performed by both men and women. I’ve seen breast, vaginal and cardiology exams again performed by both men and women and a pre op exam by a male. In all cases, she’s been naked or partially naked under a gown. In my case, I don’t bother with a gown as initially I’m without a shirt and then I just take off my pants for the genital/rectal portion. At that point, I’m totally naked except for socks. So my wife gets an excellent view of my exam. Then, while still talking to the doctor, I get dressed. At my last PCP appointment, I saw my wife looking at my penis and I realized that I was getting erect, so I hurried up a bit. I always get erect whenever we’re at a doctor’s appointment for her. It starts in the waiting room and doesn’t stop til we’re home after the appointment and having sex or masturbating.

No need for a second person watching my exam. I do not like it but I do not deny the need for a second party.

I have been told that certain parts of my exam needs to be witnessed by another member of the medical team. They sometimes watch me like a hawk as the doctor probes me. Sometimes they turn away and hide their face.

One time, recently, the doctor comes back in with a very tall and large woman, I assumed was a nurse or medical assistant. The doctor appeared to be religious in her demeanor and shy. So it was almost like a ying and yang thing going on between the two of them, kind of comical. Anyway as the doctor was done with her intimate exam that lasted about 12 seconds, she stood up and said goodbye as she stormed out of the room. The assistant stayed and physically bent her body and head around, looking down at my genitals while I got dressed. She stayed for the entire dressing of pants and shirt, she even watched me put on my shoes!

I enjoy the common trope of the doctor having a nurse in the room during the exam. It happens less and less as I get older in real life. I’m naked and there are two fully clothed people about to touch me. And see every nook and cranny. It feels like they have complete power over me.

I always fear that they are secretly judging me. They know how much my boobs sag. They know how I groom down there. one of them knows what the inside of me feels like. They know the face I make when a finger is stuck in my ass. Those insecurities embarrass me and ultimately contribute greatly to my fetish.

I should have been a doctor lol. It sounds like way more fun from the other side.

I actually kind of enjoy it -- Ive had medical students/interns sit in on actual procedures/exams before, and I also work for a couple of medical schools as a standardized patient, which requires at least 1 staff/faculty member to be present during the simulated exams.

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I don’t really like chaperones, scribes, or assistants in the room with us during a physical exam but they are now a fact of life in a medical setting. My step mother sat in on all my pediatric visits until I turned 16 which is probably why I don’t like people watching and it’s almost always a young female which makes an erection more likely."

Yes, at my age, TOTALLY HUMILIATING to have a scribe young enough to be my great granddaughter seeing me. In those situations I go into extreme, uncontainably violent fight or flight..The notion of a damn scribe (chaperone or such) is a mockery* & it infuriates me. I've even claimed CPTSD from prior medical abuse as a disability, & requested under title 3 of the ADA "special, reasonable accommodation" to eliminate 3rd party spectatorship. That backfired -- though the civil rights Division of Health & Human Services is investigating a retaliation, after pain clinic dismissed me after I filed a DOJ report.

One isn't supposed to bring a personal medical fetish into to RL medical settings, but they are forcing me to try to get off on the experience as a defense mechanism to deal with the humiliation. They're the ones inviting erections, & too bad I no longer have a "hair trigger" penis at my age.

One prospective male pain doc might be amenable to putting assistants behind a screen, or outside, but I've read complaints on YELP that his female assistants laughed & acted boisterously, & while engaging in overtly lurid dialogue, & he walked out because of the doc's tardiness.

* to any believing chaperones benefit patients, & not just the self serving facilities that employ them?

https://www.ajc.com/blog/investigations/why-one-country-decided-chaperones-can-stop-predatory-doctors/Mu0XGvqzcu3nhfBPw0rlwN/

I have chatted with some members on here about having them accompany me to my exam, and be in the exam room with me watching me undress and get a physical. Most people would just presume they were my parent, dad, uncle, or grandad accompanying their son to an exam.