My ex went to a new gyno awhile ago due to hormone issues and He gave her a very comprehensive exam and even a basic ultrasound where he found a cyst on her ovaries. She was supposed to come back and they would see if there were any changes and if they should do something about it.
She's friends with another Dr in the practice, that's how she found her new gyno and there is a couple more male Drs that she doesn't know. Last week was when she was to go back so she called and her new Dr was on vacation and they told her they like patients to see all the Drs in the practice anyway so would she see another Dr? She was a nurse and knew places are like that sometimes so she said no big deal, she assumed she was gonna get another abdominal ultrasound at most and wanted it taken care of
She went the other day and she likes to tell me about all her exams so I asked her how it went. She said you're gonna enjoy this story.... I said great! Lets hear it
She went to the office and checked in and talked to her friend for a bit and then the nurse called her and her friend said " Don't worry Dr whoever is pretty gentle you should be fine" she thought why would he end the conversation with that?? Nurse got her vitals and weighed her and and brought her into the exam room
First thing she saw was one of their little paper gowns that are like a vest open in the front on top of a drape. The nurse saw her face and said "He'll want to do a basic exam since he's never seen you before............... And then we'll do your TVU!!! SHIT!! She said
I wasn't up on my abbreviations and asked what a tvu was and she said a transvaginal ultrasound!! I said I know what that means but please tell me how it all played out
. she said the nurse said take everything off and put the gown on with the drape over your lap and I'll be back with the Dr in a few minutes. She prefers when it is just her and the Dr so she wasn't exactly happy with the nurse coming back with him, but she stripped and put the gown on feeling anxious
Dr came in and chatted for a couple minutes and she felt a bit more at ease and he was nice so it was time for the exam which she figured would be quick... He said no breast exam needed but not anything else to skip
He went about the ENT and then listened to her heart and lungs where he "moved over and below my boobs so there was still that" he then pushed all over her abdomen and her gown opened up exposing everything anyway
Then it was time for the stirrups to come out and the nurse helped her feet in them as the Dr gloved up. He said he would do a basic pelvic and brought out the speculum and did a bimanual where he could feel the cyst. She definitely didn't enjoy that but said he was fairly quick and he was gentle
I wasn't sure I should ask about the tvu so I just asked how bad was it?
She said she saw the nurse put a condom on a wand and handed it to him while she lubed it up quite a bit so she was happy about that at least
Then he shoved it up my vagina!!
She said it hurt a bit and took a little bit of time but wasn't horrible. She was tense because she didn't think that was gonna happen and she'd never seen Dr whoever before and didn't know he was gonna violate her like that
She told her friend he could've given her a heads up but all was the same so she was happy about that
I didn't like that she was in discomfort, but I did in fact enjoy the story