'Trigger' words.

I'm just wondering if anyone can get to the brink of orgasm just by reading specific words or sentences, and also what these words are - mine are related directly to spanking and the vulnerability of being exposed, RTs, embarassment etc

Just curious x

Reading other people' accounts of what they went through in their lives, the foundation of who they are now and why they like/dislike certain things, etc., as well as generally talking about mutual fetishes and interests, won't get me to the brink of orgasm, but will get me greatly aroused.

I had a girlfriend who, like me, had/has a rectal thermometer fetish. She was always turned on by the word "Insert". She would have me lay on my tummy, and tell me things like "Ok, I'm going to insert the thermometer now.." Or, when she wanted her temperature taken, she would often fetch the thermometer, take off her bottoms, lay on her tummy, and ask me to "Please insert the thermometer now.. "

My most erotically charged word is “enema”. That word has fueled my fires for sixty years!

It can be the use of multiple words , hold still, just relax, this lube is a bit cold, ill just put on some gloves, breathe normally for me etc

I'm just wondering if anyone can get to the brink of orgasm just by reading specific words or sentences, and also what these words are - mine are related directly to spanking and the vulnerability of being exposed, RTs, embarassment etc

Just curious x

Not even close to getting an orgasm through Audial or Cognitive triggers, although they certainly play a part in arousal - even to the point of getting an erection (for me) or for my wife to respond physically (e.g. getting wet or engorged). Certain phrases and physical inuenedos set the stage for us. For us it was more along the lnes of physical attributes, refenerces to anal or stimujlation. We used the terms 'butt massage' or 'OSTC - (a kid-safe term we used for Oral Sex to Completion) to indicate we were were interested in having sex. Usually that was enough to get a physical response.

This is a very popular and thrilling dynamic. It dwells deep in people minds when certain words or phrases are spoken. ''Good girl'' probably being the most popular/generic but so many more go much deeper. Most of my patients enjoy being patronized a bit, being full aware that she has no control in the matter even though so very intense intimate things are being done to her most private regions and ultimately her mind. Being told things like ''just relax and open your knees'', ''I'm sorry but this needs to be done'', ''it will be over soon'', ''the inspection must take place'', ''just bear down like you are using the restroom and my finger will go in easier'', '' The thermometer will be a bit cold upon insertion but will warm quickly'', ''please slightly squat with your toes pointed outward and relax so I can get a urine culture'' etc etc. Its all about make her aware but in a medically professional way about the violation she must endure. Once the mind is seduced, the body simply follows.

I would have to say ‘Good Girl’ is the one word that gets my juices flowing like a waterfall, however anything related to anal play or spankings also gets me wet. Those who have played with me know what turns me on 😈🌡🍑💦👅

It says this account is 'Pending Deletion' Is it a fake or something?

Where does it say that, Dr Philip?

It says this account is 'Pending Deletion' Is it a fake or something?

Whoever this is or was, the individual set the account pending deletion, and that could be for any number of reasons. I have my own suspicions, but whether the account was genuine or not, people sometimes come here and soon decide it isn't for them. A poor interaction with another member can be one reason, or perhaps the person didn't get the kind of reaction they wanted.

Where does it say that, Dr Philip?

The pending deletion state is shown on the account's wall page -

https://en.zity.biz/member/show/a971112f-bfb5-5012-aabc-3cc19751ad13

I just thought it was what I wanted to do at the time - sorry guys, didn't have any bad interactions or anything don't think that. I love it here.

@Luce

Glad that youve re-asessed ... hang in & enjoy the company

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Luce no apologia needed! We all walk in this arena and possibly stumble, yes It happens. But good to see your posts.

So trigger words/phrases for me: Turn over onto your tummy. I need to insert the rectal thermometer into your bottom. I'm going to help you hold it in.

So many to choose from that are arousal triggering.

A top favorite @Master_Dorson is “Yes you may Fawkes” and “Are you behaving, being good?”

From one of our lovely genuine and kinky physicians here, “How are you?” when he is being kinky.

For me, it’s the word tushy. My temperature wasn’t taken in my bottom growing up; it was taken in my tushy. I didn’t get spanked on my rear end; I got spanked on my tushy (and, if I were really fresh or naughty, my bare tushy). When my mom told me the nurse was coming to give me a penicillin shot, she didn’t tell me it would be in my backside; it was going to go in my tushy. (Which caused me some confusion—I didn’t know if she meant in my cheeks or in the hole where the thermometer went—they were all just “tushy” in my house). Strangely, my mother didn’t like when we used the word “butt” growing up—she thought it vulgar.) But today my blood pressure still goes up when I hear the word tushy.

For me, it's visual. My wife is a hot wife, she fucks other men. Sometimes either before at after dates, I like to examine her pussy. The thought of knowing she is going to get fucked by someone else is exhilarating. One time after fucking two black cocks and seeing her pussy in front of my face I came, without stimulation. This is how powerful it is for me

I had an RT in the hospital when I was supposed to get my tonsils out. I didn't because I had a slight fever. But the nurse kept saying "I'm going to stick this in your fanny." So now "fanny" is that trigger word for me.

Words and phrasing play a big part in adding to one’s arousal. I think everyone has key words that bring back past memories and play a crucial role leading to a climax!

Turn over. It always means the fun is just about to start.

Please turn around, relax and bend over the exam-table.

Great question! Being a person sometimes intensely aroused by a single word or single mental image, I appreciate this question.

For me, the trigger words vary over time. There was a period of several years, when the word “enema,” in any circumstance, would start the juices flowing involuntarily. If I just encountered the word, I was going to be aroused until I could have a release by masturbation or intercourse. Masturbation was better really, because I could focus on the naughty word and the images it triggered.

Most recently, I came to be sensitized to the word “ejaculation.” I cannot explain this exactly, but my wife very unexpectedly used this word in the context, “you just need to have a good ejaculation.” It was a word that I would not have expected her to say, and the exact description of precisely what I needed. I just needed to deeply and fully ejaculate my pent up load. For some unexplained psychological reason that so sensitized me to the word “ejaculate,” the thought of it or the use of it, especially by my wife, arouses me and moves me towards climax.

Over the years, other words have come and gone. For quite a while the word “suppository” would trigger me. “Vulva” did briefly. More often, it was expressions. The term to “take down panties” has been good for seemingly ever. “Honey, Mommy is going to have to give you an enema” has come and gone several times. A list of such provocative terms could go on and on.

I am sure we all have favorite trigger words or phrases or cues that excite us, and I am sure such words as enema, rectal temp are probably universal. But, I am sure we all have very personal words etc. that may be very mundane to others. One of mine is "slap" because when I was naughty my Mother would say "do you want me to SLAP your bummer?" Lets face it probably any verb, noun a or adjective etc. can be sexually exciting. Can opener, dripping, wet: for someone somewhere in the world that combo is sexually exciting. What about images? Hey I am sure we all love the sight of a moist full red rubber enema bag. HAHAHA, remember the old Sears catalog? "Nuff Said"

My husband and I recently had a play exam done. To say the least, it was the most pleasurable of all the experiences. I find, too, that being submissive vulnerable and at the doctor's mercy, is hot. In fact, he's a real MD so it was really erotic and arousing when he told me to tell him, "Yes, doctor" and directed the whole exam. In fact, I'm still thinking about it, and everytime I get wet at the thought.

I am learning my triggers now, and this coming from the wife of an RT fetish husband. I think this MD opened up a whole other world to me.

“Bottoms up and face down”??😜😍🙈

When my wife says “do you want me to give you an enema?” I have always liked to hear or read about people’s getting or about to receive an enema. Another is when I ask my wife to paddle me she says “ okay get the paddle and bend over”

I see no reason why trigger words or phrases can not trigger such things. Let me explain my reasoning here, it first depends on how a persons mind is wired as this does not happen to everyone. Think of hypnosis, everyone has vary degrees of how easy or difficult it is to hypnotize someone. We also know how sounds and smell can trigger things, so why not words or phrases. I know some people here will think this is nonsense, however, can one dismiss the results? Now for something else interesting, go look up Neuro-linguistic programming, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neuro-linguistic_programming and have you seen examples of this going on?

Trigger words cause sexual - and other responses. If someone were to yell "FIRE" or "SHOOTER" in a crowded venue it would certainly trigger a response. Same way we can be conditioned to respond to sexual triggers. I get aroused (never to the point of orgasm) by certain thinigs my wife says or does. There are many different cues and/or triggers for both of us.

The article @Master_Dorson references on Neuro Lingustic Programming (NLP) is really interesting. I see it overlapping with classical conditioning discovered by Pavlov, which is extendable to humans. As far as NLP healing powers, don't rule it out - but wait for some conclusive scientic proof! Some refer to it as "psuedoscience" - but to me that only means it hasn't been studied enough to either prove or disprove.

I'm turned on when a woman says I'm going to give you a nice warm soapy enema.