Curious or horny

I am A virgin, never tried having sex or anything before. But I feel like having sex

but all I can find so far are guys and mature guys as well, no Luck with women yet. I love to find a mature women.

so I am thinking should I give it a go with the guys or should I just keep my virginity for the one I am gonna marry if that ever happen. Have been thinking for years

I’m a virgin as well and I’ve been dying to have sex. Personally I’d never even consider trying anything with a guy. That’s not my thing at all. I’m waiting to find a girl to do it with. I have no luck either.

If you're into guys, have sex (or whatever you're interested in) with a guy. If you don't care if it's a man or woman, have a go with with the first person you're interested in that feels the same way about you. If you're only into women… why are you even asking this question?

I am A virgin, never tried having sex or anything before. But I feel like having sex

but all I can find so far are guys and mature guys as well, no Luck with women yet. I love to find a mature women.

so I am thinking should I give it a go with the guys or should I just keep my virginity for the one I am gonna marry if that ever happen. Have been thinking for years

If it is just having sex with a woman you are looking for and haven't had any luck with women willing to do it for free with you, then, pardon my vulgarity, but why not look for a woman who is willing to do it for financial recompense? There are professionals who do it for a living and it leaves things emotionally uncomplicated afterwards.

You could even start out modestly by going for a nude massage to begin with, see how it works out and then go on from there.

If it is just having sex with a woman you are looking for and haven't had any luck with women willing to do it for free with you, then, pardon my vulgarity, but why not look for a woman who is willing to do it for financial recompense? There are professionals who do it for a living and it leaves things emotionally uncomplicated afterwards.

You could even start out modestly by going for a nude massage to begin with, see how it works out and then go on from there.

There were a small group of guys from my high school who drove down to Tijuana for just that reason and bragged about!! I think they were on a trip to California to see the coast and thought sex was more available and cheaper in Mexico. This was in the 60's.

As agracier recommends plus if you live anywhere near northern Navada you can go to www.sagebushranch.com . there is a phone number there , talk to a madam tell her what you want or need and when you will be there , Make it clear to her you're lack of experience She will make an appointment with the lady that most suits you . Just remember these are ladies of negotiable affection . Not street hookers . They are paid to take care of you and that doesn't always mean sex .

The build up and expectation to your first time can add a lot of pressure onto that experience.

Based on posts here the options are sex with a female in a relationship of some kind, paid for sex with a female, or with another guy. I'm guessing you're young but you might find you will try all three in your life anyway, so maybe the order isn't that important afterall.

My predicament wasn't totally unlike yours before my first time (and I'm sure many others were the same) and my first time was with another guy which isn't what I expected or planned.

GO SLOW! Just talk and spend time with someone first then if you feel comfortable it will just happen. If not it is not the right person.

Just having sex with someone like a rent boy is not the way to do it. It may be a scary experience instead of a pleasant one.

Not meaning to offend sex workers but has anyone ever had an interest in history?

This may be a good time to start.

https://cvltnation.com/crazy-venereal-disease-posters-from-wwii/

They are very serious, not crazy

I was 32 years old when I lost my virginity. The answer to your question also depends on how much you value your virginity. The first woman I did it with turned out to be a terrible person so I felt I threw my virginity away. Instead of contemplating same-sex intimacy, I would say learn more and more about female sexuality. Over a period of 10 years before I lost my virginity, I went to strip clubs regularly. There were the ones where you were in a private room with the stripper. There was no touching but they did allow close observation of the woman's vagina. I also asked them what their first time experience was like. It was very educational and fun.

I understand your frustration of wanting to experience sex, you will eventually experience it. Be confident, don't force it to happen, just let your life lead you to it.