Enemapersonalads.com

Does anyone have any experience with enemapersonalads.com? I wonder if it's legit, or a complete scam.

Domain was first registered in 2011 and updated 2022 by Infinite Connections Inc, an international network of dating sites. The business address is in Florida, USA. The business' most common BBB (Better Business Bureau) complaints include inability of clients to close accounts so credit cards continue to get charged. The business does not respond to a large percentage of complaints Reviews are almost uniformly negative, which makes me believe the only positive review is a shill.

I'd say it is not so much a scam as very poor business management and customer service which isn't far from being scammy.

Link to BBB business profile: https://www.bbb.org/us/fl/plantation/profile/dating-services/infinite-connections-inc-0633-90074953

Use at own risk. Caveat emptor.

Interesting site…

Sadly, it somehow looks like a scam. There is no chance of finding out where it is located. They write it's part of a network but don't give any links. Furthermore, they claim to be “the fastest growing dating platform” (I mean, seriously…). Also interesting: They write about “all members/models shown on this site […]”. It would be interesting to know how many models and members they actually have.

On the other hand, I might be wrong and would certainly be happy if anyone proves it 😃

My best guess is that most of us assumed that it was part of zity.biz. Never given it Second Thought, of it being a Separate Entity

It has been my experience that some of these match sites are coming from foreign countries; i.e Bahamas for one or Eastern Europe. It would be a risk to engage with these. They tend to take advantage of lonely people

They are not really legitimate. They have the reputation of giving you replies when they don’t really exist just to get you to sign up. They are like many other adult websites that try to do that to get you to sign up to get fees.

@Mullanphy said,

I'd say it is not so much a scam as very poor business management and customer service which isn't far from being scammy.

That isn’t far from being scammy. It is a scam… Period!!!

I strongly suspect it will be a scam. All the profiles will be fake and “flirts” sent to you (and I promise you'll get them within minutes) will be from bots to entice you to upgrade to or maintain a premium membership.

Based on your profile @dr65952 , you'd be looking to hook up with a female enemate, right? Hover up for a minute, look at it from the woman's point of view, and ask yourself why in the world a real woman who is actually looking for an enemate would have to pay a subscription to find one?

My guess is the majority of true klismophiles find their way to either zity or fetlife (or both) at some point, right? Ask any woman here or on fetlife who has given any indication whatsoever that she might be open to a new male play partner (much less placed a personal ad) how quickly her e-mail box fills up. Many leave because of the myriad unsolicited friend requests and DM's.

I'm afraid you'll face a harsh reality - a very small percentage of the population is into enemas sexually, and a very small percentage of those people are women. It is TOUGH to find an enemate , so you have to be patient. If you made the women pay to hookup it would be even worse, wouldn't it?

I say all this with some unfortunate experience. My elderly father has been absolutely bilked by whatsflirt.com for many, many thousands of dollars over the last few years. He's a lonely, virtually penniless old man who desperately wants to believe that beautiful women 30 years his junior want him badly and can't wait to hook up with him for sex, and whatsflirt charges him something like 50 cents per outgoing message to respond to messages he recieves from bots linked to fake profiles. They'll engage and can't wait to meet him, but there is always a reason why it can't be until next week, and then when a firm date in the future is finally set something comes up and they have to postpone. That's the best case.

The worst case is the woman is a real person catfishing. In that case once he's hooked “she” needs money - “she” doesn't directly ask for it, but “she” lives far away and would love to come spend the weekend with him, but she just doesn't have the money right now :-(. Or her car broke down, and she couldn't get to work so she lost her job, and now rent is due, etc. :-(. So he'll send them money.

Yet I cannot get him to realize this consistent stream of expensive disappointments is anything other than a series of individual bad actors - because he doesn't want to believe it. Those types of sites infuriate me.

I wish you the best of luck, OP, sincerely. I do hope you find what you're looking for. But it won't be there.

There is no verifiable evidence to support the unjust claim that the site is a scam. It has been in business for more than a decade, which is a strong indicator it makes money and most of the members are happy with the service.

There is no acceptable reason to call out other members just because you disagree with their opinion. Screaming at them makes it more offensive.

There is no acceptable reason to call out other members just because you disagree with their opinion. Screaming at them makes it more offensive.

I did not call out OP (nor anyone else), belittle him, nor attack him in any way. My post was a sincere attempt to keep him or others from wasting money on a scam. My only anger is at the similar site ripping off my dad.

Regardless of how long the site has been around I promise you it is a scam. If has been around that long and there was any chance of success, zity would be littered with recommendations to try it out.

Let's wait for a fellow zity user to post a legitimate success story here. If that happens I'll gladly retract my comments. My only goal here is to do what I can to keep others in this community from becoming victims of a scam. This is very clearly a matter of “if it seems too good to be true, it probably is.” I just hope people keep that in mind.

I’m with @moe, most hookup sites are out to make money and will try to generate revenue any way they can. they cater to men and bait them along with unrealistic expectations.

@Moe …….I'm afraid you'll face a harsh reality - a very small percentage of the population is into enemas sexually, and a very small percentage of those people are women. It is TOUGH to find an enemate , so you have to be patient…..

Oh so true from my experience.

Did a search here for sites about finding an enemamate an this one came up.

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=136156