Child's cooperation during spanking

Once, on some website, I found a distinction between children who cooperate during a spanking with a parent and those who do not cooperate, resist. I learned very quickly that you have to cooperate when spanking.

I was threatened with harsher treatment for resisting. However, that was not the main reason for my cooperation. The mother who spanked me explained to me that spanking was necessary. She explained that it was like an unpleasant medical procedure. Something that may hurt, but is necessary. She called spanking an "educational procedure". She said injections and enemas made me healthier and spanking made me better.

My cooperation was that I had to approach my mother sitting on the sofa. Then I had to pull my pants and panties down. When I was younger, sometimes I did it too slowly. Then my mother helped me and lowered my panties herself. Then I had to lie down on her left thigh. My mother pressed her right thigh against my legs and the spanking began. When I was a teenager, it was similar, only I had to lie down on a padded stool.

Who among you as a child cooperated with a parent during a spanking? What were the motives for your behavior?

I used to take my spankings as my due, rather than resist.

I like your "educational procedure" description.

I always cooperated before, during and after (cornertime) a spanking; since not to do so would have made things far worse! That was my motivation for cooperating!

I always cooperated before, during and after (cornertime) a spanking

In my case, there was no standing in the corner. However, there was something that required cooperation after the spanking. The next day my mother came to my bedroom in the morning when I woke up. She told me to lie on my stomach and pull my pajama bottoms down. Mom was judging the redness of my buttocks. She did it out of concern, but I didn't like it very much. However, I also cooperated.

I used to take my spankings as my due, rather than resist.

I like your "educational procedure" description.

Same here, if you resisted you had worst things coming your way…

Growing up my dad had a rule. If you argued with him, it was five more swats with the belt. I wish I could say I learned at a young age to obey, but it would regularly ask for less. Or ask him to stop early. By the time I was a teenager I had learned my lesson. It was easier to submit and take what was coming, because if I argued with him, I was still going to get what was coming, and then some.

It was always best to co-operate, no matter how reluctant I was. On the few occasions I didn’t, it ended up with me receiving more whacks. The times I was reluctant wee usually after I had received a spanking quite recently and I knew I was going to be even more sore, which defeats the object as the extra swats on top of that just made things even worse.

In my case, there was no standing in the corner. However, there was something that required cooperation after the spanking. The next day my mother came to my bedroom in the morning when I woke up. She told me to lie on my stomach and pull my pajama bottoms down. Mom was judging the redness of my buttocks. She did it out of concern, but I didn't like it very much. However, I also cooperated.

We sometimes had to bare our bottoms after a spanking so that Mom could expect the ‘damage’! I'm not sure what the motivation for this was; perhaps she wanted to see ‘how good a job she had done’ or maybe she was just curious, I'm not really sure! When my Aunt Rose, who l am convinced was a spanko anyway, was visiting or if we were at her house and she had either spanked us or knew that we had just been spanked or whupped, she would take great pleasure in having us bare our backsides so she could inspect them! Of course you complied since not to risked further punishment! Parents, Aunts, Uncles and adults in general had a lot of authority and power in those days!

Im sure when I was smaller I didn’t .. as I got older yes I did as told . if mom got the switch off top of refrigerator or the belt from the bedroom. I waited to see if she started hitting or said pull your pants down . if she did , make no mistake it was underwear too.

Cooperation was expected by my parents. If you didn't cooperate, it only prolonged the inevitable and you were apt to get a longer, harder spanking.