Preference on enema administration

99.44% (or more) of my enemas are to clean the playground for some good ass play. And, since I'm currently solo, I'm the giver and the receiver. But, if some lovely lady wants to come over and give ‘em to me, I’ll certainly reciprocate.

I would prefer to have someone else give me an enema.

Better yet is me giving an enema to a woman.

I would much rather have someone administer an enema to me so I can concentrate on holding my enema in. Unfortunately other than a Fleet Enema from a nurse twice, being given a large volume enema has never happened unless I give it to myself.

Definitely have a woman administer it. It can be a very humiliating and nurturing experience at the same time. nothing like having a woman announce I will be given an enema and having me strip!

It doesn't happen very often, but I've always enjoyed it when someone else gave me an enema. You don't get that feeling of submissiveness doing it yourself.

In my opinion having a lovely lady give me an enema, or a series of enemas, is so much better than giving them to myself. And the absolute best is when the lovely lady and I take turns giving each other the enemas.

My enemas are 99%+ self-administered, not by choice. Self administration gives me complete control but requires me to concentrate on BOTH the administration and attempting to enjoy the ride. Having someone administer the enema for me necessarily requires me to surrender control but allows me to just lay there and enjoy the experience. An experienced administrator who is conscious of my wants and needs is the best compromise.

I prefer to self-administer whenever practical.

The only other people who have ever given me an enema are my husband of more than 10 years, last summer at the beach, he gave me 2 fleet-type store brand enemas.

My father raised me as a single parent. When an enema was needed he always not just let, but encouraged me to do the insertion myself.

Essentially from the time he converted me from the `1 imp qt to the 2 US qt bag, I was self-inserting for reasons that should be obvious.

I'm skilled and adept at self-administration. But without a doubt, receiving enemas from my big-breasted RN female enema partner is the most pleasurable and satisfying. She usually starts with a long, slow session of repeated fillings with hot, soapy water administered while I'm in the Sims position and using a 4 qt bag with a thick 18" colon tube. Then it's an intense session with her leather and wooden paddles, followed by repeated penetration with well-lubed selections from her toy box full of plugs, dildos, and other anal toys. She usually works a thick silicone dildo all up inside me and then either uses her Magic Wand on my cock and balls or watches me stroke myself to an explosive and absolutely wilting orgasm. She loves anal play and penetrating me. But the enemas being administered to me by her are the wonderful starting point..

Place me in the column preferring to receive enemas from a partner.

During my childhood, no thought would ever have crossed my mind to do an enema myself. My mom usually took care of that, mercilessly.

Today my red devil fills this task, just as mercilessly...

In between, I discovered my clysophobia in my early 20s, and I had to bridge that time as a soloist.

I'm pretty good at taking care of myself, but on occasion when I have been really down and needed help, my husband is wonderful at giving. He coaches me better at taking the volume and retaining than I coach myself. He's helped me knock out headaches and tied up insides when I was feeling tot lousy to do myself. And those intimate moments can be amazing.

I like it much better when my wife gives me an enema, rather than me giving myself one. She is very good at giving enemas, kind of supportive, so it's good by me.

As a young boy I was given enemas by my dad, mom wasn't a part of my life. It was just me and dad. I usually got an enema laying naked on my back or on my tummy on the bed and I still prefer an enema in those positions. But occasionally I'll have one in the knee chest position or laying on my left side.

Recently I had left my bag in the shower drying when a straight buddy of mine came over. We had a few beers, drinks, feeling pretty good and we're watching a movie, ya know how that goes after a while, nature calls.

David went into the master bedroom to releave himself he seemed to be in there for what seemed like a long time and when he finally came back he was carrying my enema bag and had a stern look on his face. After the shock of seeing him standing in the den doorway holding up the bag I noticed that it was almost full, and in a demanding voice he said... GET UP OFF YOUR SKINNY ASS AND ON YOUR HANDS AND KNEES, GET THEM SHORTS OFF BOY, YOU'RE GOING TO GET THIS !

Oh my God, my face must have been as red as the bag he was holding, how embarrassing, how could I have been so careless as to leave the enema bag out where he of all people could see it.

Somehow I managed to get up to retrieve it from him and he was grinning... I haven't seen one of these since I was a little kid, mom use to use it on me.

Oh yeah, my dad would give me one, here, I'll put it up, sorry I had forgotten it was in there. No, that's okay, let's try it out, he said, could I give you one ? Then maybe we could kinda like fool around, ya know ? I was already getting an erection and I could tell David was too. He wanted to help me get undressed and even touched my behind, giving it a little spank. For a straight guy, he sure did seem to know what he was doing.

I began to relax as he came back to the bedroom with the enema, searching for a place to hang it and finally hung it on the bed headboard.

He lay down beside me, in a 69 position, lubed up the nozzle and gently insurted it. Would you mind sucking my dick ? Oh no, not at all, not at all, I'd love to. I'm sure this was the first time David had been in this kinky position because he got off like a rocket ship to the moon and so did I 😜

This topic seems to come up often enough but I love answering anyway. Since my enemas are part of a play thing, I always prefer someone else administers. Usually with a good scolding and multiple spankings. Also, if self given, I will stop at the slightest full feeling or cramp where someone else will talk/persuade me through it. The anticipation of a "treatment" walking into a room with the enema bag hanging full and my discipline person sitting with a towel over their lap and hairbrush in hand is amazing....

I much rather submit to a giver, guy or girl having the upper hand. Being made to masturbate in front of them while the water flows is both embarrassing and kinky.

I would rather wait a few days until the opportunity was right for us to warm up the bathroom and get down to business. When we camp, we are usually off a forest road and there may be a vehicle go by every few hours in the evening but that's about it. When up in the hills in the evening we will play a game of some sort, we like shorter games as the winner declares the price the loser will pay. It is often oral, sometimes masturbation, or at times we require the loser to take an enema prepared by the winner. Camping is the only time we ask the other to give themselves an enema with the other watching and instructing. We essentially do almost everything together, the two most intimate are sex and enemas and they are quite woven together.

I have done solo. But if it is up to me I would prefer another woman giving to me while she played with me. Then I will do the same with her.

La, Tabitha, I will imagine that you two ladies make me watch your enema and then ........

It appears by the discussions here that most people prefer to be given an enema. I am no exception to that option. But like most of the people who have posted, they don’t have anyone to give it to them. It is even harder to find some that fit their fantasy. Well I have come up with a possible solution to this problem. You will need a small rubber band and some Goo Gone (adhesive remover).

Prepare the enema you want to be given. Fill the bag with it and bleed the air out. Kink the hose by bending it in half and putting the rubber band on it to keep it kinked. Double or triple the wraps of the rubber band as necessary to make it tight. Insert the nozzle and release the clamp on the hose. The water will not flow due to the kink in the hose. Place a few drops of Goo Gone on the rubber band and then get into the position you want to receive the enema. At some point, the Goo Gone weakens the rubber band and it breaks. The hose immediately straightens out and the enema begins.

You don’t know how long you will have to wait for the rubber bank to break. I have found out that there are many different kinds of rubber bands and they all react differently to the solvent. You may need to test a few to find out how long it takes them to break. Factors like how thick they are and how tight you wrap them can highly affect this time frame.

While you are waiting for the rubber band to break, you can pretend to have a discussion with whoever you imagine is giving you the enema. You can take the enema of your dreams from any person you want in any position.

A couple of tips to help make this work the first time. I use small rubber bands about 3/4 - 1 inch in diameter normally beige in color. Get a hand full of the same rubber band and test a few. If you use longer rubber bands the require multiple wraps, they may take longer to fully break. They may not break for quite a while due to the overlapping. Also, try to use an eye dropper to put the solvent on the rubber band. It is not easy to apply it right out of the bottle. Clean all the areas that the solvent got on when you are done to avoid any long term damage to your equipment. Especially the hose.

Enjoy your fantasy.

I much prefer my enemas are almost always administered to me and that others know about them either prior to them happening, or just before they are given....I'll be honest, I love and crave the humiliation aspect of enemas, and nothing makes me hornier than others seeing the hose and nozzle trailing out of my bottom after I've been forced to take several quarts of hot, soapy solution...My nipples and clit get so erect and rock hard from this, and I get immensely turned on feeling all the solution churning around deep inside of me as I'm filling to near bursting, the cramps making me moan and whimper, it's all a massive turn on for me personally....I often find myself surprisingly enough asking , or begging the giver to make me take more and more solution in the midst of the enemas, and fill me so full that Illvlook pregnant from the enemas....At times, it's almost unbearable to walk to the toilet from the intense cramping unless I am escorted there with someone holding my arms and another following behind me keeping the nozzle securely in place, but I prefer my enemas be given this way, as I want a complete and thorough clean out from every enema I am given....Just my own preference I guess....

@Enema-loving-mature-woman OMG That description got me so aroused I need to visit the nearby massage therapist that has been giving me enemas for a while now. Never cared for solo & willing to pay for them if need be & right now it's need be after reading your post.Thanks LOL

@Enema-loving-mature-woman

Your enema preferences are really arousing.

I dated an older nurse when I was in college who introduced me to erotic enemas.

She taught me to give her enemas and also to give to her friend, another nurse. Both ladies loved large amounts of warm soapy water and I felt I was king of the world giving these two older women large quantities. Usually they would want two full bags.

As we were all naked together and they made no attempt to be modest with their bodies, I was always administering with a raging hard on.

With two full bags inside them they looked pregnant and would stop in front of a floor length mirror to admire themselves on the way to the toilet.

They worked me over for the two years we were into our enema orgies but they never got two full bags into me.

I relive those days and nights often and thank my lucky stars that I had that “education.”

I definitely prefer to receive from another person. The interaction with the giver is a social part of the event. It is only because my wife won't give me any that I have to self administer if I need one.

While circumstances dictate that most of my enemas are solo, I much prefer having a female enemate.

Though I definitely enjoy giving a woman a nice series, I much prefer for her to be in total control of my enemas – the type and volume of fluid, which nozzle she’s using on me, what position she has me in, my retention time, and whatever other whim enters her mind… ah….

I would rather be given enemas if I had the choice. I will certainly give them to myself also. I would give them to myself while being watched by one person I gave them to. I had one partner who liked to give me several large enemas and then buttfuck me. I was always the recipient of several, big clear bag, hot, soapy, large green barium nozzle, followed by a large rinse enema and then, a big dick up my ass. Perfect evening.

Definitely some one to give me good enema much nicer being given solo better than nothing but preferred some one filing me nurse or part of just another enema fanatic

I prefer to be given an enema by a female while I am lying down on my left side with my knees drawn up to my chest.

Given a choice, from another, preferably a female, but have had enema encounters with guys too.

Having to submit to another', seeing what is coming and the equipment they chose, is highly erotic., let alone, how they are also turned on by administering one to you.

My long-standing experience with enemas is that I can relax and surrender to the process better when someone else administers it. The result is also significantly better when I don't have to do the enema myself...