Preference on enema administration

Hello all! when needed, would you rather have someone administer an enema, or would you rather do it yourself? While playing, have you ever been given that option? While not playing, would you rather have someone give you an enema, and be there for help and support?

Prefer being given one but a solo is way better than none, being given one is so submissive

Unfortunately mostly solo for now but really prefer to be given enemas by another trusted soul.

It's always easier when you can just relax and let it happen.

When I'm given my enema I find I get a much deeper cleaning and am able to take much more

I’m perfectly capable of giving myself an enema and I often do but I recall the days when my wife gave them to me. I felt more relaxed, submissive perhaps, and felt she was in charge. She was gentle, loving, and deliberate. If I asked her to stop the flow she would, then massage my tummy, and asked me to tell her when the cramp had passed . In other words, ”I don’t want you to be in pain, and I’ll go as slow as you want, but you’re going to take the entire enema and maybe a couple more”. I wasn’t responsible for the enema. She was. I prefer that. After a decade, shes no longer interested, and I’d given her several enemas as well over the years. We all grow older and things change. Thankfully, in our case, Love doesn’t.

I would much rather have someone give it to me especially a woman. My wife will give and sometimes stroke my dick as I am filling. She will always wait until the bag is empty to make me cum since she knows that I need all the water to clean me out well.

While a lot of my enemas are solo, I much prefer to receive from another, preferably in a BDSM scenario. Being given a gallon and “forced” to retain before being required to masturbate to orgasm in front of an audience is a major turn-on.

Much rather to get from another, especially when they say “ I think you need an enema ”, or their just appearing with a bag. Also enjoy the humility of masturbating in front of them while they watch or masturbate too.

Always prefer to be given an enema preferably by a “take charge” grandmotherly type person who will cause me great embarresment at being seen naked with a hardon!

During a summer visit when my siblings and I were preteens our RN grandmother taught us personal hygiene. Afterwards, enemas became our personal responsibility. Once school started that fall, it didn’t take long for us to start giving each other enemas after school in the afternoon. The primary reason it got started was because we missed someone else giving us enemas. After being taught personal hygiene, we were doing enemas solo until one afternoon when my sister and I got home from school both constipated. I brought up my needing an enema when we got to our bedroom and was informed she had the same issue I did. Then she brought up missing someone else giving us enemas and suggested we give each other a couple of enemas that afternoon. I agreed, so we both got undressed and went to the bathroom. We gave each other a soapy and a rinse enema that afternoon. Starting something that lasted until we graduated from High School. Once married, my wife and I gave each other enemas until we divorced a number of years later. Unfortunately, I’ve been solo ever since.

I really enjoy both, being on all fours on the edge of the bed with my head down and my bottom very exposed, I don’t try to look behind to see what is about to happen, I then feel my wife’s lubed finger slowly going in and out of my bottom, then the nozzle is also slowly inserted and the flow begins, I will then lift my head and look between my legs at my wife’s beautiful vagina as she slowly moves the nozzle in and out. Next bag I will sit on the edge of the bed and lay back pulling my legs back, I then have a full view of my completely naked wife as she administers the enema and I can enjoy the feeling of the nozzles in and out motion while seeing my wife’s naked body while I stroke my cock slowly.

But I do enjoy my alone time enemas as well, its very relaxing.

I much prefer someone to give me the enema, whether it is part of play or simply therapeutic.

I prefer to be given instead of self administering. However, the opportunities are few and far between these days.

It's very rare that I give myself an enema.

Otherwise, I receive these from the hands of my wife. These are the best enemas ever. 😎

I prefer to be given one, it's better than going solo. Plus you can just lie there, relax, and take it all in. 😉

When you give yourself an enema you are making it happen. When someone gives you an enema you are letting it happen. Huge difference in my book And again, I prefer the latter.

I would much rather self administer.

Also, when I “give” someone else an enema, what I am really doing is guiding them through self-administration.

Having another person giving me enemas is a definite yes.

Start on belly or knee chest then squirm around a lot trying to avoid cramping.

If I truly need one, then it's sort of a toss-up because sometimes I just want the privacy and will do it myself. There are other times when I guess you'd say I'm feeling particularly needy and want my wife to give me one. I'll also add that she gives one heck of a good enema, too.

Having another person giving me enemas is a definite yes.

@sirwilliam55 Especially from a special woman! 😀

Other than old-time Nurse/Mother and a few from late wife, gave 200 to 250 to wife and 2 girlfriends. They always asked for more. Such is life.

I prefer to be given an enema once again that is the submissive me talking 😈🍑💦

I prefer to be given an enema once again that is the submissive me talking 😈🍑💦

you expressed it aptly...😎

I feel it as a certain submissive unconditional devotion that also ignites a strong sexual arousal...🤗😛😇

…would you rather have someone administer an enema, or would you rather do it yourself? While playing, have you ever been given that option? While not playing, would you rather have someone give you an enema, and be there for help and support?

I do not find the sexual enjoyment that many others, my sub included, find from receiving enemas. So giving is my thing.

But when I get constipated, lately because of pain meds and my own nerves, I prefer to receive the relief enemas give from my sub. He used a couple old fleet bottles to inject the water or soapy water into me while bending over the tub. As at the time getting up from the bed was slow and hard for me to do. Thus making me worry about making a mess on our bed.

Definitely have someone give as long as I could trust them. While I do a bunch on my own, no matter what the purpose it is a bit harder to do them yourself. You have to manage everything, and it can be easy to “slip out early” especially when you really need it. Much nicer to be able to just lie there and focus on taking, and having someone encouraging to help you take a good one.

I loved the couple of times my wife gave to me, hoping that can return when kids aren't as pressing.

Much better getting them off someone, whether for medical purpose or play

If the girl wants to slide the nozzle in and open the clamp, she can go for it! If she wants to move the nozzle in and out, better yet! If she is naked, SWEET! Being a butt man, always happy to return the favor hehe.

There is no comparison between giving myself an enema or having one of my enema loving ladies giving me one.

I love being naked in front of a female or females and the relaxation I can enjoy while someone else is doing all the work is great.

As my luck would have it, many times my giver will decide she would enjoy the relaxation too and will strip nekkid, come into the bathroom where I’m eliminating and prepare her warm, soapy enema in front me.

Boy do I enjoy the sight. Luckily, my toilet is close enough that I can reach out and play with her hiney and fiddle with her lady parts. Both of them will giggle, shake their hips or tell me to behave and hurry up.

Most times our soapies are followed by a rinse of two before we shower and lie on my bed in an afterglow of sorts.

A little oral is usually on the menu too and we end up with her giving me doggy style anal.