Three years ago I had a pretty tomboyish girlfriend who was a fair amount younger than me: I was 37 at the time and she was 26. We were at a party where I knew several people and she only knew one or two - I even had a few friends there as well. I got to talking to someone and left her alone for a while which got her quite mad at me. She was a pretty dominant woman, which I liked, with a few tattoos and four piercings in one ear and five in the other and very athletic – she'd played soccer at university. I was fairly athletic looking as well, but more of a runner's build (I was running 30-40 miles per week back then). She let me know how angry she was at being left alone, and since she'd spanked me before, she said, “you know what you'll get when we get home.”
I don't recall exactly what I said, but it was sort of flippant so she said “fine, I'll spank your ass now,” and grabbed me by and ear and pulled me off to the study where people had left their coats upon arrival. I protested and apologized the whole way. Unfortunately, some people followed, including some of my friends – and I could hear some chuckles as well. She didn't close the door when we went in. I protested some more as she pushed my over a desk that was in the corner. With her hand on the back of my head she reached her other hand around and undid my belt. I begged her to only spank me with my pants on, but she yanked down not only my pants but my briefs as well. I heard some laughter and few people clapped and some female voice shouted, “show him who's boss girl.”
My girlfriend then started to spank my bare ass with her hand. I protested and eventually put a hand back to cover my butt. She told me I had just made it worse. She let go of me and I stood up and saw her removing her shoe – one of those indoor soccer shoes I'm sure most of you have seen. She ordered me to bend back over or it was going to be worse. People laughed and applauded. I refused, and begged her to do this later if she really felt the need. Instead, she grabbed my balls and ordered me to bend over. I obeyed and she proceeded to spank me good and hard for about two minutes to much applause and laughter. “Have you learned your lesson,” she shouted at me.
“Yes, yes,” I said, my voicing sounding a bit more whiny than I wanted.
Some woman shouted, “he didn't call you ma'am or apologize, he needs more.”
Another female voice shouted more as well.
“Good point,” my girlfriend said, and started my spanking again.
I apologized profusely as she paddled my already red butt and called her “ma'am” throughout. But she gave me what must have been another two minutes.
“Have you learned your lesson,” she asked again.
“Yes ma'am,” I said, “I'm sorry for leaving you, it won't happen again.”
She made me stay bent over the desk for a bit as she asked if anyone wanted to inspect my punishment. Two women came over and gave me a swat or two as well and congratulated her on taking charge. My girlfriend was definitely the hit of the party after that. The wife of one of my oldest friends talked with her quite a lot after that – she never did like me, so I think she must have gotten a great deal of enjoyment out of that display. I couldn't even look at my friends after that.