Ever been spanked in public?

I vaguely remember having being spanked outside in public once, maybe twice.. it did not really affect me. My present wife seems to have been greatly affected by fearing it - it was something she feared even though she was only threatened with having it done to her by her father. It was that fear that flipped around into her having as an adult sexual pleasure fantasizing about being spanking in public.

I was spanked at a family reunion once. We were all staying in Cottages and I was taken inside and soundly spanked by my father. It was summer so everyone could hear me getting spanked - I was very embarrassed!

I'm often spanked in front of family and friends and occasionally strangers

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When I was growing up in Brooklyn, NY in the late 1960s, I did witness this girl that was in my first grade class, my friend get a bare bottom over the knee spanking in the park in front of everybody. Back then, spanking was an accepted means of punishment so there was no resistance to her mother's actions. I remember it like it was yesterday. We were all playing in the park when Blair's mother called to her to come as it was time to go home. Her mother spoke clearly and everyone heard her. Blair ignored her calls. She got up from the park bench and walked up quietly and took Blair by the arm. Not harshly but in a very business like manner and “escorted” her back to the park bench. The look on Blair's face was total terror as she knew what was going to happen. Her mom calmly sat back down and stood Blair on her right side and pulled Blair right over her knee. With two swift moves, her skirt was pulled up and her pink undies were down to her kneed. Then with no delay, her open hand came crashing down on her exposed bare buttocks. Her mother must have gave her about a dozen spanks and in no time she was crying and her buttocks were red. The other parents did not give it a second thought. I felt bad for her because I liked her but even at that early age, I knew that I was interested in spanking. That is a story for another day.

@stinger: Your account reminds me of one I wrote somewhere here about a similar even that happened with a young girl who liked me… I will look for it and place a link to it here… In the meantime, here are some of my thoughts - like you, what I saw has remained frozen in my my noggin like it happened yesterday. Mine happened in the early 1950's - like yours the girl did not listen to her mother calling her to come in; thank in part to my coxing her not to listen. After repeated calls, the mother came outside carrying a yardstick behind her back… the girl pleaded “not outside, please, not outside” to no avail and the mother quickly grabbed and held her daughter next to her, lifting up her skirt and pulling her panties down to the girls knees.. She soundly thrashed her bottom till it was very bright red. Seeing this happen to my friend scared me, but I could not leave as I had to watch. I felt helpless and guilty that I had encourage my girl friend to disobey her mother… but conflicted since I liked seeing the spanking. The girl never spoke to me again.

I have spanked someone in a family bathroom before

My spouse and I met a friend of hours at a members only ‘dungeon’ in our area. The dungeon was hosting a quarterly open house, so people who were interested in some types of ‘kink’ could come in and watch and participate in demonstrations. One demonstration covered spanking with various implements over a padded bench. I stood in line and when it was my turn over the bench, I dropped my pants and as I wasn't wearing underwear, I received my paddling bare assed in front of most of the event participants. The guy giving out the spankings was good. The swats stung, but not painful. Granted, this was not out in the general public, but it definitely was in a large room, almost full of strangers.

I've never been spanked in public.

I see many of us have receives spankings in the family restrooms of public places! I don't recall what I had done, but the daughter of a family friend roped me into some mischief in a restaurant. My mother hauled me to the restrooms by the upper arm and told me I could be spanked now or when we got home. I figured she wouldn't spank as hard in public, but it was still memorable! I would spy on kids getting spanked for acting up in church, too - my grandmother waited until we got home to spank.

I have not been spanked in public, but I have also been given punishment enemas in public. Each time it has been in front a group of other people, both males and females.

The spankings were with me completely nude. I was ordered to lay down on a table and not get up no matter how many lashes with a belt, not just bare hands, that I was given. It hurt and I did cry, but did not get up in fear of being not just spanked or whipped, but being tied down and being caned. OUCH, how that would really hurt!!!!

The enemas were given in the same way. I was ordered to lay down on a table and not get up not matter wha the reason to get up may be. If I did get up, I would be tied down and given an even more painful enema. I was then given a much larger enema than can be mentioned here on Zity Biz. YES, it was large enough to force me to have to throw up. There was a large bucket placed under my head and I was ordered to throw up into it when I had to. Just because I was throwing up, it did not mean the enema would stop. It continued until what came out of my mouth was just clear water and then some. As for it being painful, yes, it was painful and there were a lot of cramps from it. I did cry a little and there were some real tears. However, I did not dare try to get up. I was told that if I did try to get up, I would have my ankles tied together and instead of laying on the table, I would be suspended upside down and whipped while getting even more water drained into my butt.

The above enemas were given in front of a group of 10 other males and 10 other females. They were given by a really strict Mistress who wanted to really humiliate me in front of a group. She explained everything to the group as she did it to me. She could tell when I was getting to the point where I could not hold anymore and I was about to throw up. She then said to the group, “Now, he is about to throw up. Let's all laugh at him and tease him when he does.” About two seconds later I was heaving to throw up almost like it was Old Faithful. I did this for several minutes before She stopped filling me up with more and more water. After the enema, she invited others to spank me. One slap with a bare hand from each of the females. Then any males who also wanted to give me a slap on my bare butt.

This was about 40 years ago.

I am not sure if the post below does really qualify for being spanked in public or not. By being spanked in public, I take it as meaning in a much larger group and outside. This was not done to me outside, but inside.

Not yet. Maybe soon. First, I'm going to try just the spanker and a chaperone. I'm going to try that first.

I've been spanked quite a few times at parties. Given a few too. The thing about large parties is you don't get to pick and choose who witnesses. That includes the employees of the venue.

I have spanked my wife in pretty much every room in the house and in our secluded garden but never publicly. For me spanking is something that requires privacy and intimacy

As a kid and a preteen boy, I was often spanked bare bottom in public, always in family and friends of the family. Often in front of girls.

I wish I was spanked at school, crying and sobbing.

WatiI was spanked in front of many people in our house and other people's houses, and school, which is to me very public. But truly out in public in front of a lot of people it only happened one time. And it was one of the most embarrassing experiences imaginable. I was fourteen years old at the church bbq and picnic with my parents and everyone from church. I was playing with the other guys and my mom said she wanted me to come sit with them and I said everyone else is getting to play and she said do as you're told, and I was embarrassed in front of the other guys and I told my mom she was a “f*cking bitch.” The second I said it I knew it was a huge mistake and my stepdad told me to get over here and he said he was going to punish me for it. I actually thought it was going to be later at home and I said ok, I understand. He said take off your sneakers and socks and shirt and pants now. I pleaded with him to do it at home. But he insisted. I was incredibly embarrassed having everyone watch me getting undressed but he didn't say underwear and I Kept them on. We were right next to a picnic table and he told me to take off my underwear and get on the picnic table on my hands and knees. I was already crying and saying how sorry I was and please at least let me keep my underwear on and he said don't make me tell you again!! I felt everyone looking at me as I took off my underwear and got on the picnic table on my hands and knees. He said put your face and chest flat down on the table with your arms out to the sides. My butt was up in the air and he said open your legs wide apart and stay in position and don't move. I knew everyone there could see my anus exposed and of course my balls and penis hanging down between my legs. He got his belt off and started steady hits . I was trying to keep my cool as long as possible but by about ten with the belt I was crying and sobbing and begging him to stop, and by fifteen hits with the belt I was having trouble staying still. i felt hands on my ankles and wrists and it was some other dads helping hold me still for the rest of the punishment. It felt like it went on forever and the last ten hits or so were done lower and the belt hit my thighs and a few hits on the back of my balls. When he stopped I was sobbing uncontrollably and feeling all the burning and stinging, especially on my balls. They were still holding me down and I hadn't even realized it myself, and I heard one of the moms say “look he has an erection!” I wanted to disappear. My stepdad told me to stand up and I was facing everyone there… all the kids from Sunday school and parents etc. My face covered in tears, my erection standing up in the air, and my stepdad asking me if I was ever going to say anything like that to my mother again, and needless to say I was definitely not planning to ever do that again. I grabbed my underwear, desperate to get covered up and end the experience, but my stepdad said not yet young man!! One of the older women from church said it was disgusting how boys get erections and have no control over their dirty thoughts. Obviously I was not having any dirty thoughts or enjoying myself but I know lots of people there thought she was right. She went right up to my stepdad and said I should be punished for being a dirty boy and having an erection. He said something about boys getting hard in different situations and that I had gotten my punishment and we should get back to enjoying the afternoon. She was even more worked up that he hadn't agreed with her and she said…"you mom's know what I'm talking about. Boys are like that and need to be taught to have control." She went on and on and used the word “control” many times. She managed to get enough agreement from some of the women there that my stepdad said ok I will punish him for that. I never talked to him about it but I felt then and still fully think that he obviously understood about getting hard, knew I wasn't enjoying it, and wanted things to end. But I felt him give in to the pressure, and blessedly, for this last part of my punishment, he and a few of the dads went in the cabin with me so the public show was over. Since it's not on the topic of public spankings I won't share here the details of the last thing but I can share in messages if you contact me

Remember getting spanked in a department store as a small child by mom for temper tantrum when refused a toy.

I was bent over with head pinned between her legs and pants and undies came down followed with butt blistering in front of other shoppers and their children .

I was very humiliated and embarrassed. Still remember this. Fretter

I was fourteen years old at the church bbq and picnic with my parents and everyone from church.

I really can't help but wonder what kind of church and what kind of people attended such a church where no one stepped in and either called the authorities or told off your stepfather for being a sadistic wacko. I just cannot conceive of any church congregation that I know that would allow/condone/let pass such behavior on the part of your stepfather, no matter what your offense was. And certainly no congregation where members would act like you describe. They sound like despicable hypocrites sorry to say, more than deeply sexually flawed.

Interesting account of course and food for many a scenario no doubt.

Not that I can remember.

My stepdad always makes sure that nobody is home except maybe my aunt or grandparents when he gives me the belt but he talks about it to people at church which at 19 is super embarrassing. The one time he did basically spank me in public was last summer at my aunt and uncles he took me to their bedroom and gave me the belt with my cousins and several of their friends over. I was so humiliated that I didn’t leave the bedroom until we were leaving.

In some clubs

I would be spanked in front of friends and relatives at various times. One time at 13 I misbehaved at the dinner table with a bunch of aunts, uncles, and cousins. After 1 or 2 warnings, my Dad had enough and pulled me over to the sofa. He gave me a long bare bottom spanking in front of everyone. Another time, at 16, I was spanked in my room in front of 3 friends, who seemed to be enjoying every minute of it. While I never got spanked in a store, my Dad, if he thought I was out of line, would announce loudly, where everyone could hear, that he would be taking the strap to me as soon as we got home. His saying that was just as much embarrassment as a spanking right there would have been.

In front of family and friends a few times when I was a tween and younger. The embarrassment was 10x worse than the spanking!

It happened in a public toilet and on a Parking Lot

It's difficult for me to relate to these stories as I was raised that violence is never a part of the solution. Just ask Wil Smith. As a result, I was not spanked and learned to solve differences with tolerance and understanding. Now, some 60 years later, I am forever grateful for their teachings. On a more fun side of spanking, I play in a strip poker group which has as a rule that when you have lost all of your clothes rather being left out of the game you must submit to a whack on the butt for any further hands lost. For every game lost there after you get on more spanking in front of the group.

It's difficult for me to relate to these stories as I was raised that violence is never a part of the solution. Just ask Wil Smith.

There’s a big difference between violence and spanking. I guess if you never experienced it you wouldn’t know. I had loving, caring parents and that’s why I got spanked. A spanking ideally is given by a calm, controlled parent that is speaking the universal language of pain to a person incapable of understanding or caring about adult concepts. Anyone that’s honest will say at 4 years old, they didn’t really understand right or wrong no matter how tirelessly someone explained it to them, and at 14 years old they didn’t care about right and wrong as much as whatever they wanted at the moment. Pain on the buttocks is temporary but intense enough to make you take notice and avoid it.

It gets tiring reading these kinds of posts that seem to serve no purpose other than to virtue signal and look down their nose at spanking parents. If you think spanking is violence, don’t do it. When your child walks up and starts screaming and throwing a fit at someone else’s dinner table because you don’t believe in “violence” and my family has to leave (yes, this happened to me), I’m sure you wont even notice (the parents didn’t), and will continue to proclaim how well behaved your children are.

When your child walks up and starts screaming and throwing a fit at someone else’s dinner table because you don’t believe in “violence” and my family has to leave (yes, this happened to me), I’m sure you wont even notice (the parents didn’t), and will continue to proclaim how well behaved your children are.

I have never ever in my life experienced this happening. Not seen it happen even once in all my time and travel in many countries. Actually never known it to happen even when I lived in the US.

And even if it does happen, which probably does, what is the correlation between spanking or not? If children act so discourteously, then it is only a reflection on the parents lack of skills in handling a child. One just starts by consistently teaching children from the youngest age on, to comport themselves according to proper decorum. When in a restaurant or public space, then they should stay seated, that is all there is to it. It is up to a parent to enforce that. Not to get discouraged and just give up.

Do people send their dogs/pets to a training school just to get beaten by the trainer? Of course not, because it is not the most productive manner to teach correct comportment.

Yes , when mom had enough u got your little butt whipped. Then if u was really pushing her nerves u got it again at home. her feet never touch the ground ,belt in hand pants removed the cracking of belt agains ur naked butt , legs 😂. Then u hear the next time you embarrass me u will think twice, before you do , come here I’m not done with you u understand me 😂I tell you enough times to stop 🧐😀🙏I pray ever night I don’t have to do this then look I have to spank you again lol

On a camping trip in front of my grandfather, my two brothers, seven cousins, three uncles, and one other cousin was getting spanked as well.